"Controlled" or "Stocking" education, which is helpful for children's healthy growth?

Control education and stocking education have their own advantages and disadvantages. To say which is more conducive to the healthy growth of children, I still choose controlled education!

Explain the reasons: the control type first advocates strict discipline of children and puts the supervision of parents on children in a particularly important position. As a parent who has accumulated some experience, experience and knowledge are a great wealth. Using them to educate children can make them avoid making mistakes to a great extent and grow better.

Secondly, control shows parents' responsible attitude towards their children. Compared with those free-range parents who don't want to make more efforts on their children, controlled parents devote more, care more, pay more attention to and take care of their children, and children can feel more emotional commitment and responsibility from their parents, and they will be more motivated to face their parents' expectations.

Controlling the third night is suitable for children's growth needs. Children are children. If they don't know anything, they have to rely on their parents' education. When we say a "wild child without parents", this discourse contains regret and contempt for the child who has lost his parents' teaching. Therefore, children need their parents to take care of their homework, so as not to lose their manners in front of others, show sloppy ignorance and be laughed at. Judging from my experience in raising children, my stockings are not satisfactory. My aunt's two children 14 years old. Although they are easy-going, smart and lively,

But she lacks patience and perseverance, and her willfulness and carelessness make her heartache. If she had been stricter and stricter with them from the beginning, or kept the connotation of "respecting democracy" in stocking, she would not have lost "strict discipline" in control. The advantages of the two complement each other, and perhaps education will be more successful!