If you talk too much, you will lose, and disaster will come from your mouth.

We often say, "If you talk too much, you will lose." Meaning: If a person always talks a lot, many problems will naturally be exposed in his words.

If you talk too much, you will lose, and disaster will come from your mouth. Especially in crowded places, if you are not careful, once you make a slip of the tongue, your words may slander or hurt someone, which will naturally bring you trouble. In the process of career success, words and deeds are related to personal achievements, so words and deeds should not be sloppy.

Many people take "mind your mouth" as their motto because there are many lessons from "talking too much". Successful people will grasp the appropriate limits when they speak, and they are natural and graceful no matter what the occasion. When they speak, they speak fully, and when they shouldn't, they don't say a word. Some people have a glib tongue, which many people yearn for. However, if you are outspoken, say the wrong thing or spill the beans in a crowded place, it will be difficult to remedy it. So talk as little as possible in crowded places and pay attention to "taboos". Otherwise, it is the most uneconomical thing to embarrass others or screw things up because of carelessness.

We remember other people's privacy and mistakes.

1, avoid talking about other people's privacy and mistakes. Some people like to talk about other people's privacy and mistakes in public. Sometimes it puts you in an awkward position. At a banquet, someone told the neighbor the secret of a school principal on the wine table, and at the same time showed great dissatisfaction with the despicable behavior of the principal and made a lot of attacks. Until later, the lady asked him, "Sir, do you know who I am?" "I haven't asked your name yet." He replied. "I am the wife of the principal you mentioned." The gentleman suddenly became embarrassed, and the scene was very embarrassing. The lady was very cultured and didn't accuse him to his face, but this gentleman left a very bad impression on others.

Don't hurt others' self-esteem, pay attention to respect others, and be polite in public, otherwise you will hurt others if you don't pay attention to your discretion. At the dinner party celebrating the 0/5th anniversary of the October Revolution/KLOC-,Stalin, who was in a good mood, shouted to his wife Najia in front of everyone, "Hey, come and have a drink!" If this is said at home, it is a word full of human feelings. However, in front of senior party and government officials and foreign representatives in the former Soviet Union, this statement is not dignified enough, and even a little too casual. As it happens, Najia is a very strong young person. She never considers herself an accessory. When she heard this, she felt humiliated, but she couldn't think of a solution and language at the moment, so she shouted, "I'm not your' hello'!" Then he stood up and walked out of the meeting in the consternation of all the guests. The next morning, people found Najia, then 22, lying in a pool of blood with a "Songpai" pistol in her hand. In a word, it is a pity to ruin a young life. If Stalin pays attention to occasions and discretion, he will say, "Najia, please come and have a drink!" " "Didn't say can avoid this tragedy? Pay attention to the occasion of speaking, between friends, colleagues, and even between husband and wife, you can't ignore the discretion of speaking.

3. The choice of speech form should adapt to the occasion. A famous Hunan singer was invited to Changsha to be a guest and host a benefit performance. She has a microphone. Qingyin said: "I gave the highest score to the players of Niangfu that time, and I will give them the highest score next time." This is not without shame. If it is human nature to talk about ambiguity with people in the "mother's family" in private, it is also a serious and solemn grand prix selection and scoring issue in this serious charity performance occasion. People can't help asking: As a judge, where is its justice? This is obviously inconsistent with his own master status. Whenever you are in public, you should pay attention to your discretion when you speak. If you are not considerate, you'd better say less. Pay attention to discretion, speak carefully, avoid taboos, and pay attention to the occasion, place and object of speaking. Don't talk nonsense, but also pay attention to the content and form of your speech, and do what you should say and don't say the last sentence.