The first time I took her (we were both students), she cried badly. I coaxed her for a long time. She said she hated me and wouldn't forgive me. She said she did.

Both sides are responsible. It takes two people to make a sound. If she is determined not to, do you think you will? Is in the stage of hormone attraction. She just lost her temper. As long as you let her go, she will come back to you automatically. Don't get along with men and women blindly. Be skillful. If she doesn't want to forgive you, it's no use if you don't want to put yourself down. It's better to calm down. Leave her alone and let her know that you have a temper and a bottom line. She'll think it over. It's no use worrying now. You already gave it.