The mother-in-law asked her daughter-in-law who was pregnant for 6 months to wash her feet, and her daughter-in-law got angry and went back to her family. Who is wrong?

Nowadays, young people advocate late marriage and late childbirth, but when they reach a certain age, they will become very anxious and afraid that they will get married too late.

Therefore, when many people reach the right age, they will always find the other half in a hurry and get married quickly, which will easily lead to some problems.

A Xiang is an example of getting married quickly but not being happy.

When A Xiang reached the age of 28, his family was very anxious. At the same time, he was particularly anxious, hoping to find his other half and get married as soon as possible.

In this case, she met A Qiang. They met on a blind date. After contact, A Xiang felt that A Qiang was a very honest and reliable person, and she was also very stable, which gave her a strong sense of security. So, after several months of contact, the two successfully entered the marriage.

However, there is still a little twist, that is, the two sides made a lot of trouble for the bride price before marriage. The A Xiang family hoped that A Qiang could pay 654.38 million yuan as a bride price, but the A Qiang family was not satisfied with it. Because they thought that 65,438+10,000 pieces of bride price were too much and didn't want to pay the money, there was a contradiction between the two sides for a while.

After a period of stalemate, the A Qiang family agreed to this request and paid a bride price of 654.38 million yuan, but A Qiang's mother was obviously unwilling. After their marriage, A Qiang and A Xiang didn't live with their parents. But live in their newly bought wedding room, so there is no contradiction between the two sides.

But the turning point was that A Xiang got pregnant soon after her marriage. After pregnancy, A Xiang's life was very inconvenient, and her husband needed to work, which led to A Xiang's relatively poor health. When A Xiang was six months pregnant, A Qiang had to travel for a month.

A Qiang was very uneasy that A Xiang was alone at home, so A Qiang invited his mother and asked her to take care of A Xiang for a while. A Xiang Po is very happy to come to A Qiang's house. Especially in front of A Qiang, he always asks A Xiang carefully what he wants to eat and whether he needs help.

But on a business trip in A Qiang, her mother-in-law suddenly changed her face and even asked A Xiang, who was pregnant for six months, to help her wash her feet and wait on her. This made A Xiang feel incredible and angry at the same time. Why did her mother-in-law suddenly change her face?

So A Xiang refused her mother-in-law's unreasonable request, and in this month, the two sides started the cold war. A Xiang didn't expect to invite her mother-in-law home. Instead of helping herself, she made herself more restrained, which made her regret very much. When A Qiang came home, A Xiang wanted to tell A Qiang about it, but when she saw A Qiang's tired appearance, she didn't say it for a while.

Something happened at home in A Xiang, and A Xiang needed to go home. So A Xiang is going back to her family. But when she got to the elevator, she found that she had forgotten her wallet, so she went home. Who knows, I found my mother-in-law telling A Qiang that she bullied her mother-in-law, abused her mother-in-law and hit her.

This immediately blindfolded A Xiang, why would my mother-in-law say that? A Xiang immediately rushed in to explain to A Qiang, but looking at A Qiang's distrust, A Xiang felt very tired. As a pregnant woman, she is easy to think. Coupled with her husband's attitude, she really couldn't stand it and ran out of the house at once.

After returning to his family, A Xiang became more and more angry. But I was afraid to tell my mother the truth, so I began to complain to my girlfriends about why the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was so difficult.

His choice seems to be wrong. Although A Qiang appeared to be honest and reliable, he didn't get a thorough understanding. He doesn't believe in himself and makes himself feel very tired. I don't know what to do in the face of this situation.

In fact, explanation is always redundant. People who know you don't need your explanation, and people who don't need it at all.

A Xiang faced this situation because they didn't have much contact before marriage and didn't establish a good emotional foundation.

After marriage, the two sides got to know each other better without time, and immediately entered the point of role transformation. Neither side has changed their mind or behavior.

Marriage needs two people to run it. Only when both of them calm down and do business seriously can this marriage be more beautiful.

When things happen, both sides should think of how to solve the problem, instead of blaming or suspecting each other, otherwise they will move towards separation sooner or later.

If A Xiang wants to continue to manage this marriage well, then she must have in-depth communication with her husband, talk about her own ideas, and understand each other's ideas at the same time, so as to solve the problem and make the marriage happy!