My father was found to have a shadow in his lungs, but he gave up treatment. What should I do?

"How small the earth is in the universe and how small people are in front of cancer." This is the biggest feeling since I accompanied my dad to fight cancer.

A few years ago, my father, who worked as a contractor on the construction site, was diagnosed with lung cancer. At that time, I had just graduated from college, and I was so absorbed in my work that I didn't care about my dad at all. In order not to worry us, dad lied to us that his cancer was not serious. Fortunately, it was discovered early, as long as he took medicine on time, he could be cured.

After listening to his words, several of our brothers and sisters were relieved. Usually, they only call their father occasionally to ask about their physical condition, and never accompany him to the hospital for examination. What's more, they didn't know that his cancer had slowly spread to the whole body and gradually swallowed up the iron man.

One day, a foreign number got through to my mobile phone. On the other end of the phone, a man spoke nonstandard Mandarin and said to me, "Your father fainted at the construction site and was taken to the hospital. Please send someone over quickly! " So, I immediately asked for leave and rushed to my father's hospital.

When I went to the hospital and asked the doctor, I realized that my father had been keeping his cancer from us. The doctor told me that my father's lung cancer has reached the advanced stage, and there is no great significance in re-treatment.

After listening to the doctor's words, I burst into tears. On the one hand, I hate that I don't care enough about my father, on the other hand, I hate that my father hides his illness from me. ...

I know that he didn't treat the disease just to save money. I plan to get married this year. My brother is going to college this year. The house in my hometown has been built and has not been decorated ... I need money everywhere in my life. Father is unwilling to use the money he has worked so hard to save for treatment. Finally, he told us that his illness was not as serious as he thought.

I know all his thoughts, but I can't let him leave the hospital. I have repeatedly begged the doctor to cure my father's lung cancer by any means, even if there is a little chance, I can't give up! As for money, as long as I have breath, I can think of a way.

The doctor sighed and advised me not to be impulsive, which would only increase the patient's pain. "Your father is now in the late stage of lung cancer, and cancer cells have spread to various organs of the body. If forced treatment, it will only increase his pain. "

Finally, the doctor said, "Take your father out of the hospital and live his last days." After listening to this sentence, I felt very painful and tears flowed down in disappointment.

Three days later, I was discharged with my father. At this time, my father was thinner than when he was admitted to the hospital 10 kg.

In the afternoon, I submitted my resignation letter and made a difficult decision.

When my father was young, he always dreamed of traveling around China. If he hadn't got cancer to support his family, maybe he would have realized this dream long ago. However, this man who supports our family has never been out of the province. After consulting with my family and consulting my father, I decided to help him realize this dream in my last days.

Our first stop is Tibet, the legendary place closest to heaven. Tibet, Tibet, I wonder if your pure sky will bring good luck to my father.

Traveling around China with a patient with terminal cancer, I have anticipated the hardships and prepared myself psychologically. I only hope that in the last days, my father can forget the reinforced concrete on the construction site and enjoy the last section of the road.

People, coming and going, will eventually return to dust. I just hope that all cancer patients can see the light of hope.