My daughter doesn't know the truth.

Another tragedy in which a child was accidentally injured!

A mother in Dongguan, Guangdong Province is driving with her 5-year-old daughter. Because of the high temperature in the car, she opened all the windows.

Halfway through the car, I felt hot and wanted to close the window and turn on the air conditioner. After about five minutes, my mother felt that the temperature had not changed and looked back. A scene that shocked her appeared:

The window is stuck in my daughter's neck, and the child is soft and motionless!

The mother was frightened and quickly sent her daughter to the hospital for treatment.

At that time, the little girl had cramps all over her body, incontinence, vomiting blood and even cardiac arrest.

After more than ten days of rescue, the little girl was finally out of danger.

Great fortune in misfortune!

However, some people asked why the child was caught in the window, and it took the mother five minutes to discover this situation.

It is said that the girl didn't take the safety seat as soon as she got on the bus. After the window rolled down, it was estimated that she was curious and poked her head out.

It's terrible to think about it! If the mother doesn't find out in time, she is likely to leave her daughter's yin and yang.

In life, parents who are "big-hearted" like this are by no means a minority.

It's not that they don't love their children, or they may not educate them in the wrong way, but their "carelessness" is enough to bring indelible pain and harm to their children.

Parents are too old, and it's terrible to think about it.

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Parents can't escape the blame for their children's accidents.

A father in Yuxi, Yunnan likes cycling very much. He not only puts his 3-year-old son in the basket, but also watches his mobile phone while riding.

Riding to the intersection, an emergency brake, the son sitting on the basket fell to the ground.

Then, with a look of nothing, he continued to pick up his son and put it in the basket.

When I was about to move on, I was found by the police and was criticized for it.

This amazing scene made people break out in a cold sweat. In a crowded environment, such a big child sits on a basket without any protection. What if it wasn't a fall, but a car accident?

Writer Kotaro Isaka famously said, "It's terrible to think that parents don't have to pass the exam."

The most common mentality of these parents is: nothing, everyone else does, and I can do the same.

Ignorant and fearless. Nothing is nothing. If something happens, you will regret it.

After all, any problems of children are related to parents.

Not long ago, a boy of 12 years old in Hunan province had a lump the size of a quail egg on his left clavicle and was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer.

Doctors say that there are only a handful of cases with the highest mortality rate in the world, which are mainly related to eating habits, work and rest, and mental stress.

Knowing the situation, the boy's parents regretted it and kept crying:

It turns out that children have irregular three meals a day, hardly eat breakfast, like to stay up late playing games, like to eat snacks, drink carbonated drinks and juice when they are thirsty, and basically don't drink boiled water.

Although parents also "force" their children to eat, it is not difficult to imagine that children must have developed such living habits since childhood, which led to this result today.

In fact, children's accidents are not less than those of adults.

Tragedy may happen at any time; It really happened, and it was too late to regret it.

When he is in a life stage that needs external protection and care, one of his parents is not careful, and every minute will lead to a big mistake.

Parents can't throw away the pot when their children have an accident.

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Parents with big hearts can't raise healthy children.

In the program "Teenagers Say", a pupil named Ye Zijian left a deep impression on people.

He spit out his parents as soon as he opened his mouth. "The mobile phone is the child of mom and dad."

The whole audience burst into laughter, but he couldn't laugh at all.

He feels that every time he looks up at his parents, they are looking at their mobile phones and ignore him at all.

Even in order not to make him noisy and to keep the house quiet, I will give him a mobile phone and let him play.

To this end, he is very angry and thinks that his parents are holding him steady with their mobile phones now. When he is addicted to the game, he will blame the mobile phone for delaying him.

This "double standard" life makes him feel uncomfortable. In fact, he doesn't like playing mobile phones, and he doesn't like his parents who play mobile phones. He just wants his parents to put down their mobile phones and care more about him.

Listening to his "accusation", all the children in the audience cried.

Everyone feels the same way, and it's really hard to know the taste of being ignored by parents.

Ceekay, the originator of Internet celebrities, told everyone with his own personal experience.

When she was a child, her family conditions were particularly good. My father is the boss of a listed company. He is busy with work and entertainment all day and seldom communicates with her.

My mother spends her holidays abroad all the year round and doesn't care much about her.

Since the fourth grade of primary school, she has been sent to an aristocratic school by her parents, and she has not had much contact with her parents since then.

Now, she has grown up, grown up and become famous. With children, it is still difficult for her to feel safe from real life.

In life, material enjoyment is indispensable; The parents' "carelessness" and lack of emotion are the indelible defects of children's life.

Child psychiatrist Donald Winnicott once hit the nail on the head:

As caregivers and nurturers, they turn a blind eye to the growth needs of children and turn a deaf ear. If they are so "big-hearted", they simply can't raise children with strong emotions.

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Parents have long known that children are happier.

Montessori, an education expert, said: "Everything we do to a child will have a result, which will not only affect his life, but also determine his life."

Parents are not only appellations, but also responsibilities and responsibilities.

First, be a "learning" parent and grow up with children.

Rousseau said: "Children are born children, but parents are not born parents."

In this world, the most difficult job is parents. No on-the-job training, no practice and no accumulated experience. Many things and problems are explored by ourselves.

How to avoid problems? Only by constantly learning and improving yourself.

Far-sighted parents are never limited to their existing knowledge and experience, but constantly learn and understand, so that they can absorb and master more correct parenting concepts and practices.

Times are changing, and the environment in which children live is changing day by day.

Second, pay more attention to children's material and spiritual needs.

Jasper once suggested to his mother Cherrie Ying that she wanted to learn the violin.

Cherrie Ying agreed, bought a piano for his son, and invited a teacher to teach at home, which met the children's needs of learning piano to the maximum extent.

When her son wants to give up during the "bottleneck period" of practicing piano, she knows that this is not the child's original intention, but needs encouragement and spur.

Whether to prevent children from doing what they want or love them.

On the contrary, being able to see children's material and spiritual needs and take actions to accompany and encourage children is the performance of intention.

Regardless of parents, children can see it at a glance. If a child is valued, he will value his parents.

Third, pay more attention to the child's crisis in advance.

Most of the problems children will encounter when they grow up are foreseeable, including physical health, psychological ups and downs and social adaptation.

When taking children out, we must do a good job in reminding and educating them about prevention of loss, abduction and traffic safety.

At different growth stages, facing different things and tasks, parents should guide their children beforehand and afterwards;

Contact different environments, people and things, tell children to be disciplined and do a good job in bottom line education.

Take precautions before they happen, parents should be more careful, you can't protect too much.

Parents are the most powerful guardians of children, and everyone has fewer moments of regret.

There is a special saying in "Blue Ocean says growth":

After having children, parents' lives are no longer just their own, but they have more responsibilities and obligations.

This love will be the greatest guarantee for children's happy growth and happiness!