Talk about what you can't do when you are moved.

People are fickle creatures, so life will inevitably have many heartbeats. If men are unmarried and women are unmarried, it is understandable to fall in love more. But if you get married, for love, for reason and for law, you can only keep such a throb in your heart. There is a saying that "marriage has five years of pain and seven years of itching". Originally, two people who only had love and ideals entered the marriage, faced with the reality of daily necessities, life was trivial, and naturally all their passions would be dull. So I will move occasionally. Especially unhappy people, because they can't get love at home, they try their best to find love outside.

Xiaoyan is a happy woman. She and her husband talked vigorously in college for four years and got married as soon as they graduated. After graduation, my husband worked as an executive in a foreign company, and his family's economic conditions were good. The most important thing is that her husband should not forget your initiative. He has always loved and spoiled her. Do you think Xiaoyan's marriage is happy? There will be no external feelings. Xiaoyan said that the passion for love in the past has retreated and occasionally deserted in marriage.

Mozi is Xiaoyan's personal fitness trainer. When Xiaoyan first saw Mozi, she felt a ray of sunshine. He is a big man with a bright smile on his handsome face and is polite to people. Xiaoyan immediately thought of her husband. After work, she would lie on the sofa and beat the glory of the king, totally lifeless. Compared with Mozi's sunshine, my husband really can't bear to look directly at it. When I first got the card, my best friend bet that she wouldn't go more than three times. Now, she goes there at least three times a week My best friend smiled and asked, "Are you afraid of being abandoned by your husband? So embarrassed. " Xiaoyan smiled without a word, after all, such a small mind can't get on the table.

If you are touched, you will feel that a casual greeting and casual concern are all in response to you.

Every time after class, Mozi smiled and asked her, "Are you tired today? Take a hot bath and have a good rest. " Xiaoyan will feel glad that Mozi has feelings for her. However, during the three months in the gym, Mozi's concern for her was only a warm smile when she met, occasional praise from her friends, and careful persuasion after class. Several times, when Mozi taught her to get close to her, when the breath of androgen came to her face after that exercise, she wanted to boldly say "I like you" to him. Xiaoyan is afraid that she won't hold on. Until one day, Mozi's wife suddenly came to the gym to find him. Watching Mozi's pet touch his wife's hair and smile at her, her eyes are full of love. Xiaoyan suddenly realized that Mozi only cared about one customer. From beginning to end, she was a one-man show. She was glad that she didn't confess rashly, otherwise the embarrassment and shame would make her feel ashamed. After all, we all have families.

Xiaoyu is Xiaoyan's colleague. They don't have much in common except work. Xiaoyan didn't bring an umbrella when it rained. She happened to meet Xiaoyu driving by, and Xiaoyu offered to send her home. In the car, in order to avoid embarrassment, two people began to talk. The humorous and knowledgeable light rain made Xiao Yan sit up and take notice. The two had a good talk, and when they got off the bus, they both had some unfinished business. Through this contact, the two met. Sometimes we talk a few words at work, send out some funny expression packs, talk about some interesting things in life, or ask for help, and sometimes we go out for dinner together. The two were tacitly ambiguous, but neither of them took the initiative to pierce this enough paper. With the deepening of understanding, Xiaoyan found that Xiaoyu was so powerful. He is knowledgeable, but he also likes to show off, not as introverted as her husband. Xiaoyan knows in her heart that Xiaoyu and his wife are very loving, and she is just a little spice in his boring marriage life. As a result, the love in Xiaoyan's heart gradually faded. Slowly, the relationship with Xiaoyu is gradually alienated. Xiaoyan was glad that she just had an affair with Xiaoyu, and restrained her unexpected heart with reason, instead of indulging herself in betraying her family.

Li Junhe: His wife is a college classmate. Their wives are beautiful and generous. They are a sweet couple among friends. They usually sprinkle dog food with various fancy styles in their circle of friends. Such a loving couple, no matter what, we never thought they would divorce. The reason for the divorce is that Li Jun cheated. The object of cheating is not as good as his ex-wife, no matter in appearance or personality. Asked about Li Jun, who had just experienced a divorce war, he was too tired to vomit with me.

The present wife is a little sister that his ex-wife knew before. Once, when she ran away from home on a cold night, he put a coat on her. The little girl may have planted the seeds of love in her heart from that moment on, but Li Jun has always regarded her as a sister. The beginning of the story stems from an encounter in a foreign land. Two people who have lost contact for various reasons are naturally happy to see each other again, especially those who adore his sister. After dinner, my sister asked Li Jun to take her back to the hotel. He said that people are particularly prone to lose their minds in the face of a delicate girl on a lonely night. He talked to her late, but the girl didn't urge him to leave. He suddenly remembered a sentence, "touching her is an animal. Don't touch her. Isn't it worse than an animal?" People are sometimes creatures who think with their lower bodies. Since his sister is interested, how can he be heartless? So, what should not have happened happened. The following story, like many derailed families, can only end in divorce, so that both sides lose.

Although Li Jun said he didn't regret it, it's not hard to see his regret from the exhaustion revealed in his words and the exhortation to his brothers as a senior.

There are many beautiful scenery on the road to marriage, which we can enjoy, but we can't expect to have it again.

Xiaoyan and Li Jun both have extramarital affairs. But as a dragonfly, there is a small ripple in my heart, and the ripple disappears, and I return to a quiet family life, knowing that the one around me is the best! One has to throw a stone on the calm water, stirring up a thousand waves and making it scarred. I believe that after this experience, Li Jun will be able to control himself, show love and stop being polite when facing his extramarital affairs again. I didn't mean to blame Li Jun. After all, we are all ordinary people, and we are bound to make mistakes. But sorry for him, the cost of growing up is too high.

What people can't control most is their inner feelings, but what we can control is our words and deeds. Because some things are said and some things are done, they can't be taken back. A shameful heart has changed qualitatively. We can appreciate beautiful things, but we don't have to get them!

Love has thousands of faces, the most dazzling is love at first sight, the most exciting is life and death, the most deeply grieved is affection, and the most inconspicuous is mutual affection. Because it is too dull, it is the most rare.

I hope my friends and I can keep our simple marriage, withstand the temptation of the outside world and control our desire to cheat. Stay with the person you love for life.