What should I do if my parents don't agree to this marriage?

If I were your parents, I wouldn't agree to your marrying this man. You talked to him for eight years, and he couldn't even get a bride price. I don't think your family will let you ask for millions of bride price. According to your local customs, it is definitely tens of thousands of bride price, but even tens of thousands can't be taken out. Who are you kidding?

You haven't even thought about that girl yourself You've been with him for eight years. Didn't he save enough money for the bride price to marry you for eight years? If a man hasn't saved enough money for eight years, then I don't think you need to continue to follow him.

If he saves 20,000 a year, he will save160,000 in eight years. I think160 thousand should be enough for your bride price, but he couldn't take it out himself, so his family took it. Should I say that he is incompetent or that he is incompetent? I won't agree to follow someone who can't give you a good life. I am your parents.

Let's talk about it. Do you think his family really can't afford the bride price? In my opinion, it may not be. It's just that he and his family think that since you've been with him for eight years, you shouldn't ask for a bride price any more. You have been together for eight years. What is the bride price? Do nothing. It was their idea to get the certificate directly.

It's not that they can't afford the bride price, they just don't think you deserve it. Obviously, your parents must understand that, so they will strongly demand a bride price from his family, or they will not let you get married, and you silly girl are still here and really think that others can't give a bride price. If I were you, I would just break up and marry someone who thinks I'm worth the bride price.