Tell me about your sick husband.

The first thing to look at is what caused the quarrel. If it's a small matter, maybe the other person is waiting for you to apologize.

This is not impossible. The other party blacked you out, which means the other party is angry. But when you asked the other person for money, he didn't say much, indicating that he still has you in his heart and doesn't care about your money.

Then he blacked you out, which means he is still angry and wants you to coax him. This is not impossible, because the other party is obviously doing it, and there is a great probability waiting for you to coax.