For those who are selfish and ungrateful.

First, if you don't know how to be grateful, others will only help you once in the sea of people, on the road of life; If you are lucky enough to get a person's help, then when you have the ability, you must think about repaying each other; Because only by giving back to each other will your life be valuable and meaningful; If a person knows how to be grateful, then in life, he will not feel helpless when he is cornered. In life, when others help you, you don't necessarily need to taste it again; But if you have the ability not to taste, it is your fault; An ungrateful person, no one will be willing to help you for the second time. No matter who you are, you should know how to be grateful; If you are selfish and get the kindness of others, but you don't know how to return it; Then others can't help you forever, because everyone has their own life and hopes that their efforts can be exchanged for a good word; So if you don't know how to be grateful, then others will help you once, and if you have something to do in the future, others will not help you again; So gratitude is something that everyone should always do; Don't think that someone will lend you a helping hand; As long as you repay others, you can reflect your own life value. Second, when you are in trouble, no one will lend you a helping hand and live in this world. No one can guarantee that he will always be safe and smooth. Therefore, on the road of life, we should know how to leave room; When you have the ability, extend your hands to others; And when you are in trouble, someone will always open their arms to you; Especially for someone who has helped you, you should feel that you should cherish this rare truth; Because in return, that's what you should always think in your heart; If you can repay and you don't, no one will lend you a helping hand when you are in trouble. People are alive and grateful to their benefactors, that is the most valuable thing alive; If you are grateful to your benefactor, you will repay him several times; Then as long as you encounter difficulties, he will repay you again; Because he will think that you are a sentient being and a righteous person, and you are a grateful person; Nature will help you on the road of life; And if you don't know how to be grateful, then when you encounter difficulties again, he won't care about your feelings or your thoughts. In his mind, you have become an unimportant person; He won't even look at you when you die. Third, selfish people, generally speaking, will not have friends on the road of life. You can tell what kind of person a person is by how many friends he has and how many sincere friends he has. People who can be human have friends all over the world. But a person who can't be a man, generally speaking, doesn't even have a friend; Especially a person who doesn't know how to be grateful has no friends; Because in a person's mind, if even his benefactor doesn't know how to be grateful, then such a person is meaningless to live; A person only thinks about himself and never thinks about others. Generally speaking, no one wants to associate with such people. In this world, selfish people are ungrateful people, so generally speaking, such people will not have friends; Such a person, living is meaningless, living is worthless; Because in his heart, all he thinks about is himself, his benefactor, and being so kind to himself, she doesn't know how to be grateful, which will only make people look down on him and stay away from each other; So such a person, that is, no one will like it, and no one will respect it; Therefore, it is impossible for such people to have friends and live happily. Give it to selfish and ungrateful people; First of all, if you are not grateful, others will only help you once; Because no one wants to help an ungrateful person once or twice. Secondly, when you are in trouble, no one will lend you a helping hand again; At that time, you will know that you should not scream every day, which is a feeling of ineffectiveness. Finally, selfish people generally have no friends; Because a selfish person always has only himself in his heart and no one else, he can't get the care and understanding of others, and naturally he won't have friends. To those who are selfish and ungrateful. There is a saying called "bite the hand that feeds you". Most people tend to remember grievances rather than gratitude, and the kindness they can remember is always less than resentment. As the old saying goes, "people are short of heart." If others treat you better, you will hope that they can treat you better; Or others lend you money, but still feel that it is not enough, and in turn feel that others are stingy. If you have this idea, you are an ungrateful person. You only want others to give, but you don't want to give back. You are insatiable. I not only hate people who don't give me benefits, but even people who have helped me, and I don't know how to be grateful. Most people think that others should take care of you, so it is natural for parents, brothers and sisters to be kind to you, and even think that others can help you get happiness, so it is normal for them to be kind to you. So that once others have a slightly bad attitude, they will have resentment. An ungrateful person will resent anyone and anything in the world. On a sunny day, he would complain: "The sun is so big, is it going to kill me?" Why doesn't it rain? " On a rainy day, he complained, "It's so cold, why isn't the sun shining?" Even if the seasons are like spring, they will still complain about the unclear solar terms. Such people are dissatisfied with the weather, the environment and people. In this world, there seems to be no one or thing he needs to be grateful for. He is always in a state of resentment. Therefore, ungrateful people will never be satisfied and will always resent others. So, try to avoid resentment; After resentment arises, we should also find ways to resolve it so as not to affect our inner peace. The best way to eliminate resentment is to look at people and things with gratitude. People can't live alone without anything, so living between heaven and earth, including eating a mouthful of rice, drinking water and even breathing air, should be grateful. In this way, resentment will be reduced and even frozen. Whether a person is satisfied or not depends not on how much he has, nor on how others treat him. The key lies in what he thinks in his heart and how he sees things. The Buddhist scriptures say: "If the mind is born, then all dharmas are born; If the mind dies, all methods die. "All the laws in the world are produced by the mind. If we can be grateful and satisfied, life will be satisfied. Even if you have nothing, you can live in a happy world every day as long as you are satisfied with a sip of water, a bite of rice or even a breath of air and feel grateful.