Can you chat online after marriage, talk to the opposite sex, and not find a spare tire. I just want to talk to someone. In reality, many things can't be told to others.

Of course, only this chat can't let the other party know, because everyone is narrow-minded, even if it's not looking for a spare tire, letting the other party know will cause unnecessary trouble, ranging from a few quarrels to a cold war. If you really want to talk to someone, you'd better talk to your best friend so as not to cause unnecessary disputes and make you more worried.