What if the child lies? Do you have any good ideas? How to educate children to tell lies?

How to educate children to tell lies? 1, don't punish children.

In real life, it often happens that children tell the truth and parents severely criticize or even punish them. In this way, children will gradually realize that telling the truth will be punished, but not telling the truth will be safe and even win the appreciation of their parents.

If the child makes a mistake next time, he will try his best to hide the past and escape punishment. Therefore, the correct way for parents should be; After the child admits the mistake, praise his honesty first, and then help the child analyze the cause of the mistake.

2. Encourage children to be honest.

To cultivate good behavior habits, reward is more important than punishment. When you find your child in trouble, don't get angry. Ask, "Did you do this?" . Parents can look their children in the eyes and wait for them to tell the truth, or say "what happened". If a child admits his mistake or asks for forgiveness, he should praise his honesty first, then criticize it, and his punishment should be reduced accordingly.

3. Let the children speak their inner thoughts and feelings.

After children make mistakes, they will inevitably feel uneasy and afraid of being scolded by adults. If parents blame them again and criticize their children's behavior with their own values, children may be even more afraid to say what they really think. At this time, children should be encouraged to speak out. When children's hearts can be understood by their parents, they will naturally be more willing to express their inner feelings and thoughts, so that parents can try to figure out the reasons behind their children's lies.

4. Pay more attention to children

Parents can care more about their children, be close to them, and establish a good parent-child interaction relationship, so that children can feel that they are loved and valuable, which will help improve their self-confidence and reduce the situation in which children lie to get their parents' attention.

5. Make children responsible for their actions.

Children's lying is often excusable, but lying is by no means an encouraging behavior. Parents should make their children understand that lying is not an appropriate way to meet their needs. If they need anything in the future, they can tell their parents directly instead of lying to achieve their goals. Let children learn to be responsible for their actions.