Your parents-in-law said that I don't expect you to provide for the elderly, and I won't bother you when I am old. What do you mean?

There may be no other meaning, just simply don't want to increase the burden on children.

My parents and in-laws always tell us this, and they are serious. My parents will naturally tell me how much their pension is, because neither of them likes playing mahjong or singing and dancing. My father likes to practice Chinese calligraphy and my mother likes to sleep at home.

They used to buy expensive clothes, watches and belts, but now they are all your flowers. We're old and nobody looks at us. I am also most afraid of being invited to dinner, and I feel that eating white rice porridge at home is the most comfortable.

Behind my parents' backs, I bought a house directly in an upscale community in Yang Kang (I also encourage several couples of the same age to buy together and play together when they are old). There are universities, hospitals, various fitness centers and various cultural and entertainment clubs for the elderly in the community.

There is also a swimming pool, a cinema and so on, and a kindergarten is still under construction (convenient for grandparents to take their grandchildren to school). There are gentle slopes next to the steps of the whole community (convenient for wheelchairs). I went to see it once, and I was envious. Then he told me with disgust that I don't want to live with you when I am old, so come back and play when you are free.

And my in-laws are more direct, telling us that we don't need to support the elderly, and we don't need or expect it, and even give us money to say that it is their pension reserve fund.

My husband doesn't need his parents' money after graduation, so my father-in-law thought of this statement and used it as an excuse to call for money every year. My husband actually opened a separate savings account and saved it for them seriously, so that my mother-in-law often sent WeChat saying that their money was ours and the money gave us an emergency.

My mother-in-law's brother is an international student, her mother-in-law follows her brother, and her parents have also received western education. In addition, artists are very open-minded. Of course, by the way, she won't help me with my children or help me with my confinement.