Should I secretly look at my husband's mobile phone?

First, "visible" has two meanings, one is visible, and the other is invisible. Seeing it is not suspicion, but not seeing it does not mean that the other party has no problems. What you can see here is actually the skills of husband and wife, which is a kind of frankness and trust. Look at it casually, for example, I use your mobile phone to make a phone call, play games, check something online with your mobile phone, and just play with my mobile phone without the purpose of investigating clues. It can be seen that each other is defenseless and has no secrets and privacy at all. Isn't it just a mobile phone between husband and wife? Is there any privacy that the other party can't investigate? Once there is privacy, there will be barriers, which will lead to a vicious circle. Only the person who checks the mobile phone has no purpose, and the person who is looked at is aboveboard. For both sides, this is a real sense of mutual trust, but also to a certain extent, the performance of deep feelings. Second, "but don't check", that is to say, you should not deliberately look at a man's mobile phone with the thinking of purpose, doubt and judgment, in order to find some evidence through the mobile phone to prove your suspicion. This kind of looking at the mobile phone is a kind of distrust and an act that hurts feelings. If the other person has made you suspicious, you can communicate well, talk about your worries, or exchange your thoughts. If the other person is honest, you will try to let you go. You can also talk about your own bottom line or principle, which is also a warning to the other party. Doesn't mean I trust you because you're suspicious. If you don't converge, the consequences may be serious. If the other party also cherishes marriage, it will naturally converge. If there is a problem, there will be a problem whether you investigate or not. You just need to think about what you want to do and what kind of results you can accept, without looking; If you decide the result, make a choice and just want to find evidence, then you can look it up. However, when you doubt for no reason, the other party may have no problem at all, just your distrust or doubt. You look at it on purpose, which really hurts each other's self-esteem and feelings. It's probably nothing at all, and something went wrong as soon as it was checked. So, in a word, on the question of whether you should secretly check your partner's mobile phone, you just need to adhere to the principle of "you can watch it, but don't watch it"! Should I secretly look at my husband's mobile phone? 1. The behavior of a woman peeking at her husband's mobile phone is a distrust of the other half. The reason why a woman peeks at her husband's mobile phone is that she doesn't trust her husband enough. Women are always worried that their other half will cheat. Peeking at her husband's mobile phone is not very friendly to each other's marriage. If a woman wants to look at her husband's mobile phone, she can actually look at it publicly with her husband's consent. If a woman peeks at her husband's mobile phone, it is in itself a suspicion and distrust of the other half, or some behavior of the other half has aroused some vigilance of the woman. For men, they should pay attention to their words and deeds at ordinary times. A straight body is not afraid of crooked shadows, and naturally, it is not afraid of women sneaking through your mobile phone. Second, a woman peeks at her husband's mobile phone and invades the privacy of the other half. In marriage, the most important thing is to keep a proper distance. Many marriages die because they are too tangled and clingy, and there is no independent space and freedom between them. Many women mistakenly believe that after marriage, her husband becomes a woman's private property, and women have the right to know all her husband's secrets, including peeking at a man's mobile phone. In fact, the behavior of a woman peeking at her husband's mobile phone has violated the privacy of the other half in a sense. In marriage, no matter how close the relationship between two people is, they should and must maintain relatively independent space and freedom. There is no need for 100% transparency between husband and wife, and privacy should also be maintained. There are no fish in the clear river. Similarly, a marriage that is too transparent cannot last long. Third, the consequences of a woman peeking at her husband's mobile phone are very serious, and even lead to the breakdown of marriage. The consequences of a woman peeking at her husband's mobile phone are more serious, and even lead to the breakdown of marriage. Once a woman peeks at her mobile phone, it is easy to cause her husband's rebellious mentality. My husband will think, since you don't trust me so much, I'll just pick something that makes you unhappy. In marriage, many marital problems are provoked by women for no reason. The man didn't cheat, but after peeking at the man's mobile phone, the woman may have been misled by her colleague's joke message, insisting that her husband and colleague were having an affair in Anonymous. Over time, men will feel that quarreling is only a matter of time. Therefore, women should not peek at their husbands' mobile phones easily, so as not to get stuck. The most rare thing in marriage is to remain properly confused and learn to turn a blind eye.