Silence is the sign of growth, and the sign of maturity is how to be silent.

1, insist when it is time to insist, change when it is time to change, and change when it is time to change.

It is easier to forgive enemies than friends. Mrs. Dietrich

3, everything is empty, don't force it, as long as you work hard, why care about gains and losses! Wish you success! Be the first, poor grass under the tree!

4, thousands of blows are still tough, and the wind is southeast and northwest. zhen banqiao

Don't lose your most beautiful self in indifference, because such a life is so close to us and within reach.

6. People who are afraid of suffering will suffer all their lives, and those who are not afraid of suffering will suffer for a while.

7. Don't make trouble. Don't get into trouble.

8. I heard that octopus has three hearts. I wonder what happens when it hurts.

9. Strong people can struggle in the storm of fate. -England

10, positive people see an opportunity in every worry, and negative people see some kind of worry in every opportunity.

1 1. I allow you to lie to me, but please pay attention to the times.

12, you are used to staying up late and like to be in a daze. You have no motivation to persist, and you find it difficult to be a happy person. You can't stand being yourself like that and know that you have no ability to change.

13, whatever is worth doing must be done well. Remember, three minutes is doomed to seven minutes by hard work!

14, success is not an end, let yourself be happy, this is the meaning.

15, every time you fall in love, you should devote yourself wholeheartedly, even if you have been hurt, don't hold back; Just be smart, but don't be utilitarian, so that in the end, there will be no regrets.

16, gentle breeze and fresh air enter your heart and soothe the wounds of your soul.

17, love is like a camera. Sometimes you have to fast forward, sometimes you have to pause, and sometimes you have to rewind, but my camera is off.

18, crossing the river alone, intended to eat handsome.

19, love is very light, does not disturb each other's world, only walks in the depths of the soul; Love is quiet, does not interfere in each other's lives, and only sings in the spiritual field.

Emotional story: the symbol of immature women

Women are more beautiful because they are cute, and more attractive because they are mature. Every woman wants to be more beautiful and attractive, but not every woman is so perfect.

If maturity is defined as a relatively pragmatic value concept, a relatively positive attitude towards life and a relatively stable lifestyle, then we might as well compare the following ten items to see if you are a mature woman or still immature-

behave frivolously

When you meet a social gathering with a handsome guy present, you are the first lady to exchange business cards with him to show your infinite charm. However, you may not care about your swaying waist when you walk and your sweet voice when you speak. You are jealous that your female colleagues will spread this matter to the company leaders in the form of gossip, which will lead to a rapid decline in your index.

You already know why you stand out from the crowd After all, Cinderella is ignored. Keeping your head up and tracking is conducive to enhancing your self-confidence. However, it is best to leave things like navel-revealing clothes to my cousin, and it is best to add a waistcoat when going out. Mature women are natural and graceful at least in appearance. By the way, don't forward the text messages sent by your sisters to the opposite sex. These words may not apply to everyone. Remember, the deep charm comes from your temperament from the inside out, not a temporary talent show.

showy

You're not 20 years old, so what's the ostentation and extravagance for your birthday? If you don't have a boyfriend to send flowers, don't secretly call the flower shop to ask for flowers to be sent to the company, and ask more than three female colleagues to be present. As a couple living a family life, there is no need to demand a male partner with high standards on Valentine's Day.

The latest mobile phone is not specially designed for you. It's more than enough to show off. You don't need some functions, especially those that look thin but expensive. You just have to look at them through the window. After all, his money is used to support his family. It is understandable that women like glamorous appearance, but those actresses who endorse high-end makeup brands use free gifts, and even make money after using them. You're not on the same starting line as them. So, don't force yourself, do everything according to your ability, and buy things more realistically, which will make you more feminine at home. Otherwise, in men's minds, you will never be a woman who takes care of her husband and children, which is one of the reasons why you can't get married.

Impulse spending

I believe that when you pass the window full of beautiful clothes, you will subconsciously touch the bank card. If you fly in your heart like an angel every time you spend, then you'd better remember that before spending, impulse is the devil.

Did you buy that pair of sunglasses, throw them in the drawer and never pay attention to them again? Imported dolls in the new boutique on the street are ridiculously expensive. You can buy it for ten yuan in Yiwu. Did you buy it on a whim and never open the box again? That's right, like all women's hobbies in the world, you are obsessed with spending money on things you don't need at all You will feel the happiness of materialists at the moment you have it. As for terms such as practicality, use value and cost performance, you seldom care.

If you are only responsible for a little impulsive consumption and a little impulsive consumption, it is no wonder that in the eyes of others, you will always be a little girl who loves to spend money indiscriminately!

Love fantasy

You are the kind of person who keeps saying that you are single and have no lover, but you never lack love around you. When you are depressed, you will also look for a fast-food love in the vast internet or dim bars. When you were a girl, you were a perfectionist. You were like a fairy. You must find a prince, not necessarily an Arab, but at least an Afghan. Gao Daquan insists on the image standard of the hero in the upcoming love story. Later, you met a man, A, B, C and D, who were not satisfied with each other, so you began to feel that you lived far away and loved somewhere else. Later, you met a person ABCD through a friend's introduction. You think you have read countless people and are mature enough, so you really feel that you have seen through that man and there is nothing good.

In fact, you have no idea that you are a romantic visionary. Everyone can understand your love dreams when you were young and ignorant, but you still refuse to live a down-to-earth life after being honed in reality for so long. On the one hand, you have been dating, but you still refuse to pay attention. On the other hand, you are eager for something extremely romantic to happen to you. You live with such an emotional attitude. Obviously, you have gained nothing except getting more and more mature.

Lose one's temper

Someone's reaction is always half a beat slow, but you are just the opposite. You are the explosive type. Because your boyfriend thinks too highly of your dress, you will immediately throw off his arm in the street and let him desperately find a hole in the ground in front of everyone. On your mood chart, it turns sunny to cloudy, with short gusts and sometimes showers.

If an occasional small temper can add a little to your cuteness, then please believe that few men will stand your habitual outburst. There are at least ten reasons why you don't lose your temper: hurting your liver and stomach, shortening your life, affecting your work, reducing your affinity, losing your femininity and damaging your image.

Life is full of joys and sorrows. It is normal to lose your temper, but it is obviously immature.

Excessive relaxation

Tell me about your occupation. Do you often lose your job? Often want to open a day? Three days of fishing and two days of drying nets? In business, I often give up everything, regardless of priorities? If you want to know whether your career has a future, whether you can be a leader or only a leader's wife, you don't really need to test how much talent you have. Just check whether your handbag is full of clutter or organized, or reflect on whether your blog is full of daydreams and freehand poems or an organized work plan.

A person who has a plan, can carry out the plan, has an effect and obvious effect will be welcomed by any boss. If the situation is just the opposite, then don't use any plan as an excuse that it is not as fast as changing. You change fast enough because you don't have any plans at all. If it weren't for gender stability, you wouldn't even be a heroine.

narrow-minded

The new female colleague is more popular with the leaders than you, younger and more beautiful than you, and dressed more fashionable than you, which really makes you feel very unhappy! The trivial things between colleagues and the speaker's unintentional teasing back and forth will immediately cause you inexplicable jealousy. You started to act, although there was no absolute malice, but you couldn't help speaking ill of her behind her back, laughing at her embarrassing things and satirizing her dress.

Women are really jealous animals. In some ways, she lacks an open mind and often tends to go to extremes. However, you should know that mature people understand tolerance and seek common ground while reserving differences. Think about your boyfriend's tolerance and understanding of you over the years! If you are as broad-minded as he is, the atmosphere in your office will certainly be much more harmonious and the popularity will be better.

wilful

You learned to yell for ice cream and new clothes without teaching at an early age. It's still the same when you grow up. If your boyfriend doesn't go shopping with you on weekends, you don't care whether he works overtime or has business entertainment. In a word: make trouble! Dare to go against this girl's wishes? Dare to disobey this young lady's orders? Dare not listen to your aunt? Well, you'd better stop.

An arrogant, unreasonable and self-righteous woman, a woman who does not put herself in others' shoes, or even an overbearing and extremely self-centered woman, can't be a lovely woman in everyone's mind. It doesn't matter if you lose your temper or lose your temper. Just stop it in time. Men are tired of women who are too headstrong and don't think of each other under any circumstances. The meaning of maturity includes knowing how to respect others, knowing how to respect others and knowing how to be grateful.

Old and ignorant

There are many women like you, who are old and dangerous. Their hobbies are still shopping, they don't know how to socialize, and they don't even care about career development.

People who have no sense of urgency muddle along, and when they encounter the twists and turns of life, the blows they encounter are often devastating. Ignorance is helplessness, sadness and pity. If it is understandable that a girl of 15 or 16 is young and ignorant, then it is your fault if you are twice as old as a teenage girl and as naive as a decade ago, and your emotional intelligence has not improved significantly.

It's not that you know a lot of celebrity gossip, life, TV series, computers, jokes, business negotiation experts, with different knowledge and accomplishments. It depends on people's skill accumulation and your requirements and expectations for yourself.

If you have only a few years' attendance record compared with young people, you will lose your due position as an elder sooner or later.

refuse to mend one's ways despite repeated disciplinary actions

As an adult woman, you not only can't remember some rules of the game in office politics and emotional communication, but also violate them many times. You often reveal your true thoughts in front of competing colleagues, thinking that if you put your cards on the table, others will tell you the truth, but this is definitely a very dangerous thing. Emotionally, you have no long memory. Your ex-boyfriend, the ungrateful man who left you and never looked back, came to see you on a rainy day for the n th time, but you always forgot that he would break up with you after dawn, and his heart softened again at the n+ 1.

It is said that making mistakes is unforgivable and repeating the same mistakes is unforgivable. Never forget the past, the teacher of the future can only make continuous progress by summing up the crux of the problem and correcting those mistakes.

Very mature and realistic: the sign of maturity is that when it is time to use your head, you will no longer be emotional.

1. I always thought that people are getting old slowly, but they are not. People will get old in an instant.

What you see is free and easy, which is my helplessness after my heart is broken.

I have never been known by anyone, so I have not been forgotten by anyone. Living in other people's memories is not my purpose.

I miss you very much, but I only dare to think. After all, I am nobody to you.

You can't afford clothes at first sight, and people who are moved at first sight often don't like you. Nothing you really like and want can be easily obtained, which is the reason for your efforts.

6. The sign of maturity is that when it is time to use your brain, you are no longer emotional. /Shuo Shuo/

7. When you are down and out, she still believes in your dreams; So, when your career is successful, don't break her dream.

8. The company I gave you may have no voice or language, but it is long enough and true enough.

9. No one knows what you want without opening your mouth; If you don't do it, any idea will only wander in your mind; If you don't take a step, you will never find the way forward. In fact, you are strong, but laziness helps you.

10. The greatest weakness of human nature is not greed or cowardice, but that everything is perfect.

1 1. If you want to dispute with me, I will never be generous. You must be very generous. I am definitely more open than you. Your heart is true to mine.

12. Books are the ladder of human progress, and computers are the elevator of human progress.

13. No matter how many mistakes you make, no matter how slow you make progress, you are ahead of those who have never tried.

14. Maturity means that you ignore me and I won't say much. If you satirize me, I will laugh it off. If you love me, I will love you more.

15. You have long thought of 10,000 ways to make yourself excellent, but you are too lazy to change.

16. Don't be too busy looking at others and go the wrong way.

17. I am afraid that if I work hard, I will become the number one in the world. I didn't like being stared at since I was a child.

18. Behind everything that goes with the flow is your efforts that you want to change, but you can't. Behind every free and easy, there is a disappointment. You were struggling before you let go. Everyone has unspeakable secrets in his heart.

19. People with bad temper are actually quite easy to coax. On the contrary, those who never seem to have a temper will disappear without a trace as long as they have the opportunity to leave you.

20. In order to be better in the future, we should suffer a little now.

2 1. Don't be silly. One person's efforts will never determine the relationship between two people. I can walk 10,000 steps to see you, and I am willing to walk 10,001 steps to leave you.

22. Although books can't help you solve problems directly, they can give you a better perspective.

23. You don't need too many QQ chat records, just good night before going to bed; I don't need too much romance, just put a coat on my shoulder when it's cold.

24. Life is too short. If you don't give up today, tomorrow may not be.

25. Goodwill between people is so fragile. When you shut the door louder and louder, I feel that you hate me.

26. The most beautiful place of time is to make you and me become us.

27. Sometimes, life is so wonderful. You think you have hit the bottom, but there is still water at the bottom. Sometimes, you think you are in Huatang, but the next moment you are a hidden mirror. Classic quotations of the year, a symbol of post-80s maturity.

1, if you want to dress yourself up, being sloppy is not a cool performance, but a result of being uneducated;

2, study hard to make money, money is the foundation of a person's life, and it is the dignity of a person;

3. Learn to flatter leaders, smile more, not be wicked, keep your mouth shut, and think twice before you act;

4. Those who are willing to live are prepared to create a beautiful family, a safe and warm family;

5. If you don't associate with stingy people, you will always lose yourself;

6, the person who pretends to be B should be killed with a stick, so that he (she) can never get up again!

7. If you don't talk about feelings with married people or people who have lived together, it's mostly a waste of breath. In the end, nothing will be gained, but it will dampen your enthusiasm for life;

8. Find people with the same values as yourself, love them, cherish them and protect them for life;

9, exercise more, the body is nothing, men and women should be better to themselves;

10, don't be too hard on a person, this is not love, this is meanness;

1 1, realistically, love is always so pale in front of reality, and romantic love does not belong to men, but to women;

12, if you are willing to get married, be prepared to step into marriage and be a good husband and wife;

13, don't always want to be a savior. Even if you are a savior, there is no need to save the poor in the world. There must be something hateful, all of them are Judas;

14, don't lend money to others easily, many borrowers don't want to pay it back;

15, it is necessary to understand that people who have read a lot of books may not have a lot of knowledge, but those who have not attended school are not necessarily illiterate;

16, don't judge a book by its cover, especially a woman. The beautiful may be the devil, and the ugly may be the angel. God is always fair;

17, be yourself and live for yourself;

18, read more books and study more when you have time, be a literate person, and don't waste your time on ridiculous things;

19, don't waste your feelings on hopeless people. People who value the outside world are always mentally retarded. Only when you are scarred will you understand that the person who really loves her has been paying attention to her, but she always thinks that happiness is far away.

20. Earn other people's money and go to hell with poverty.

2 1, remind yourself every day not to forget your dreams;

22. Go your own way and let others talk nonsense;

23. Go to bed before 10: 00 every day and get up before 7: 30 every day;

24, often go home to see my mother, often call my sister and brother, family is the most precious feeling;

25. Learn to be a listener, listen to others' feelings and learn from them;

26. Learn to play and learn to play with taste;

27, work troubles, don't take them home, this will not solve any problems, and bringing them back will add more troubles;

28. A willing heart at work;

29, learn to push things, people are good at being bullied, Mashan is riding;

30. Don't associate with people who have no literacy, so as not to be influenced by them;