Xingyu Wish (1)- Feel I love you with your heart.

"I want to control myself and not let anyone see me cry.

Pretending to be indifferent to you and unwilling to think of you,

Blame yourself for having no courage.

It hurts so much that I can't breathe, and I can't find the trace you left.

Look at you, but I can't do anything,

Let you disappear at the end of the world.

I can't find a strong reason, and I can't feel your tenderness anymore.

Tell me where the starry sky is and whether there is an end. ...

Just make a wish to a shooting star,

Let you know that I love you. "

You must have heard of Cecilia Cheung's Star Language Wish. It originated from the movie "Make a Wish" starring Cecilia Cheung and Richie Jen more than ten years ago.

Cecilia Cheung, who had just made her debut at that time, had a fresh and lovely appearance (who knew that the Yanzhaomen incident was exposed nine years later ...). Although the plot of the film seems relatively simple today, the innocence and simplicity of her brand-new love concept have touched many people. I have to say that the phrase "I can only look at you helplessly, but there is nothing I can do" in the lyrics is quite touching.

She is an ordinary little nurse, and he is a blind and dumb patient.

She is careless, simple, lovely, modest and enthusiastic in Mao Mao. Although he is in trouble, he is stupid, lively and optimistic.

She treated him, took care of him and cut his hair "rain or shine". His hairstyle looks like an onion, so she affectionately calls him "onion" ...

"You have many special advantages, that is, you can't see my ugly appearance or my fat figure. You won't tell anyone the secret I told you, so I feel more secure and confident with you. You are the only person I can talk to ... "

With him, she can be defenseless, so simple, joking with him and coquetry. ...

He is more greedy for the feeling of being with her and feels inferior. She plays her favorite saxophone at night, because she says that every time she hears the sound, she feels all her troubles are gone.

And he didn't even dare to admit it.

"Even a knowledgeable person like Dr. Hu is not the ideal object in her heart. I still don't want to ruin her dream, lest she won't even cut my hair in the future, then I'll be up shit creek ... "

She was chatting with him on the roof. Her graceful posture is like dancing. He is a little stiff and sometimes looks extremely happy and satisfied. They made a wish together under the meteor;

"First of all, I hope your eyes will get better soon, and then watch the meteor with us. Ok? "

"Second, don't tell you ..."

Later, she was paged by the hospital. He ran to see her off in a wheelchair. She wrote "wait for me" in his hand. He was speechless with joy and jumped up and down with excitement, but he tripped over a stone and had an accident. He promised to wait for her, but he couldn't wait any longer.

Because, after only 16 minutes, the hero died.

In heaven, he had a chance to come back again, but for only five days, others could not recognize him and could not tell his identity.

He said that he was too impatient and would never regret it. Because, just want to see what she looks like. Then, in memory, it will not only retain her voice and taste. ...

He came back to him and saw her really. Perhaps, all along, she thought that her feelings for him and her concern for him were taken for granted.

Because their relationship is doctor and patient.

Because he is blind and dumb, he doesn't even know her appearance and expression. What's possible between them?

For her, being with him is relaxing and happy, but what is that feeling? In fact, she doesn't know how much weight he has in her heart.

Acquaintance, but one year and twenty-six days. For a doctor, the death of a patient can be regarded as a normal thing, even if it is an accident, even if it is a friend, even if it is sad, it can be accepted quickly.

She gave up her career, because she finally realized that she was not only sorry for him, but sympathetic to him. He was not only a patient who died in a general ward, but also a friend. He is an onion, unique and very important.

She can't get over his departure. It is not that kind of hysterical pain and cry, but a kind of longing and hope. Because, only oneself, others will not understand. Because the people who know themselves best are gone.

I think she must have been very lonely then.

I heard that she is interested in onion diaries. He couldn't type so much Braille in a short time, so he just rubbed on the sand, thinking about how not to be found by her. ...

He "read" the diary of the onion and touched it with his hand, but there was nothing on it ... He seemed a little nervous, but when he entered the state, he found that he could clearly remember the past with her. I remember the month, time and weather clearly. Just like the picture in my head, countless things that I want to say to him but can't say come out naturally from my mouth. He was intoxicated with memories, with a satisfied and immersed expression. She looked at him with tears in her eyes. ...

I think that's because, cherish it, he cherishes every moment and every day when he is alone with her. Even once, they didn't fully understand each other, so what if they were just a part of each other?

I don't care what you look like.

I don't care whether you are blind or dumb.

Because we are people who understand and are warm to each other! We are precious to each other.

I would like to call this simple treasure love. Cherish, true love.

Instantaneous heartbeat is also a kind of love. We don't ask much from each other, just a little, and we are all willing.

"When I didn't want anything, I accidentally got her love. When I want to have her, take her away or choose, she ignores me and hates me ... "

In fact, sometimes this kind of treasure is not necessarily impulsive and fresh, at least it was really exciting at that time, and I like it. How clean, how important and quite luxurious.

Before, I always thought, what is love? Must be that, together, experienced a lot, accompanied by a long time, a good feeling can be called love. True love requires responsibility, dedication and sharing weal and woe. It also involves marriage, so we should be cautious in all aspects. Only this desire for love, the impulse of love is not enough. True love is to stand the baptism of long years.

However, does love really have to be like this? Can't you be impulsive? Can't it be simple?

Only by being together all the time can we call it true love?

At least, the feeling of love is not necessarily possession. Even if the result of love is together.

Perhaps, a beautiful love, together for a year, is like a lifetime. This magical thing will happen.

Even if we can't be together in the end, it doesn't matter At least, I once had it. Not seeking to be together, even, not then.

For them, it is five days, the last night, between yin and yang. Enough love to sublimate, let the other side face up to their own hearts and understand each other's minds. In fact, five days is also that long.

In our life, there are many cases, perhaps, what separates us is reality and distance.

When one journey is over, the next journey is about to begin.

However, regretting missing, sometimes, will be more sad and painful than losing.

Because, when you see your mind clearly and want to ask to stay, that person may already be gone. I can keep a short memory, but I am missing the sentence I didn't say; Actually, I really like you. Sometimes, don't let the other person guess!

"Obviously, the second wish is to be with him. Why not say it?"

"Only memories, what's the use? Just one day, give me another day, okay? "

He will leave eventually. If he can't be together, let go as soon as possible. If you can't give her long-term love, let her be free.

And when he looked at the world with his eyes again, he found the real side of the world. Love, a more thorough side.

Finally, quote a line I like very much in the movie;

"No, the world is not ugly at all, but when you look at it with your eyes, the world is different. When you see things with your eyes, you will have greed. If you want to have her (it) and possess her (it), your eyes will deceive people. Try not to look with your eyes, close your eyes and feel the world with the purest heart ... It turns out that you have to feel the world with your heart.

So, even though he never knew her, he still loved her. In addition to the love concept of "do it and cherish it" advocated by the film. This is actually what I feel most.

Ps: I think, sometimes we say love, what do we love more? It can't be said that this society is a society that looks at faces, but the importance of face value is self-evident. Just like family background and birth, in fact, no matter how to improve in the future, a person's most primitive appearance can't be changed. Really, when we simply look at a person with our eyes, it directly determines our impression of this person, which is actually a kind of prejudice. But the fact is that there is no way to eliminate this prejudice.

Then, I just want to say, if we perceive each other with our hearts first, will this prejudice be smaller?

Perhaps, what you can see directly in your eyes is whether this person looks good, how about makeup, and how about dressing taste. ...

However, what you indirectly perceive in your heart is that this person is untidy, what kind of smile, what kind of attitude, and whether he is dressed appropriately. ...

In fact, this does not require you to walk into everyone's heart, but the so-called first impression is different.

Perhaps, this kind of indirectness is not too much trouble and brain-consuming! Would you like to.