There are many people in the address book, but when you open the address book, there is no one you want to talk to. What are the reasons?

In the past, there were always many friends around us, with whom we could talk, go shopping and play together. But since entering the society, I feel that I am alone every day, and there is no one to talk to. My colleagues are just colleagues, not friends. Looking at the phone, opening the address book, and recalling everyone, I can only say that I only call when something happens. When I want to find someone to talk to, I find that there is no one to talk to.

1: No contact for a long time.

After we all graduate, everyone will be busy with their own affairs, busy with work, busy with dating, and there will be little or no contact with previous friends. There are only a few people talking to you every day. When you look at your address book, you don't know who to call, and you feel a little scared about what you should say if someone calls you. I feel even more timid when I'm close to home. When chatting with people I knew well before, I definitely don't know what to say at first.

Two: I don’t know what to say.

Sometimes we also look forward to chatting, talking, and connecting with our former friends. But when you get through the phone, you don't know what to say, and it may even feel very abrupt. Maybe others are busy with their own things, and it doesn't seem good to disturb others. So I flipped through the address book, and in the end I just looked there and didn't call anyone.

Three: I am not used to telling others.

When you become an adult and enter the society, you will find that there is really no such thing as easy in the adult world. When you drag a heavy pace after get off work every day and have a lot of pressure in your heart, , you just want to stay quietly for a while, no one wants to talk, even your parents may not want to talk. So many adults gradually become taciturn.

In fact, having more friends makes it easier to travel. You still need to keep in touch with your former friends more often, which can not only enhance the relationship between each other, but also relieve daily stress.