The magic of language, the most beautiful reading in 2020, made me learn to speak.

These five sentences are golden sentences selected from the book The Magic of Language.

Charlie. Munger said that there is not a smart person I have met in my life who doesn't study every day, no, no. Make friends with books, and you will live a better life and receive a better education. Indeed, reading is the best self-education, and I quite agree with this view. In my spare time, I read the book The Magic of Language.

We are all talking in life, but how to say a word that makes people warm for three winters and brings great joy and enterprising heart to others. This book "The Magic of Language" can do it and unveil the mystery for you.

Teachers can influence students through language, parents can influence children through language, and speakers can influence audiences through language and call on them to take action. It can be considered as fear of the recent mood, just like autumn leaves before the wind, and we can also see the great charm of language.

Every time I read a book, I pay attention to the author, just like entering a friend's house and knowing which neighborhood his friend lives in. Which gatehouse? This book is no exception.

Robert Dilts. Master of NLP (neurolinguistics Programming). Is recognized as the greatest contributor to NLP today. Many famous psychological skills, such as systematic NLP, understanding level, remolding imprint method and contradiction integration, have been sorted out and developed. Since 1975, we have been committed to applying psychological findings such as NLP to organizational development education, creativity development and leadership training. As a consultant, he has been employed by Disney, IBM, Lufthansa and other Fortune 500 companies for a long time.

Sense of belonging, from coach to awakening, genius strategy and so on.

NLP is a system whose fundamental mission is to create tools to help everyone better understand and transform the world. Response is a tool created by Robert Dilts, which is called language frame transformation.

It not only reflects our views, but also changes our views.

A book that uses language to break one's restrictive beliefs and encourage others at the same time. Tell us that changing language patterns can change our beliefs, change our beliefs and change our mood. Also, we should encourage ourselves in everything, because if we are positive, the positive energy transmitted to others must be positive, and others will get healthy and positive, otherwise it will be negative and unhealthy!

(1) Frame changing method based on antecedent meaning. In life, when children are studying, their homework is not done well, and their mothers are always nagging. The child is very angry and thinks that my mother always says that I don't study well? In fact, the child did not think that his behavior made his mother have negative thoughts. Mother did this to remind him, not to hurt him.

(2) The method of environmental frame transformation based on results. I heard such a story when I was a child. One day, a man went to prison for stealing. He wrote to his mother and said, "When I was a child, you always said I was a child. When I grew up, I stepped onto the road of stealing. I went to prison because of your doting. I hate you! " If the mother treats the child's first taking other people's things as stealing and educates them in time, the child will not form the habit of taking other people's things and will not go to prison.

(3) Redefining the word frame changing method. A new employee came to the unit, and the leader assigned him an important task to do. Inexperienced new employees are worried about not doing well. The leader patted him on the shoulder and said, "You can do it, come on!" As a result, he did a great job, because the leader defined the work that could not be completed as the work that could be completed, which gave the new employees challenges and confidence and successfully completed the work.

1, upward classification, also known as upward push, is to put a statement and a judgment into a larger classification to create a richer understanding of the original intention, which is to turn attention to a more general and abstract information level. For example, doctors, nurses, soldiers, courier brothers, volunteers, and small people in the property management office have improved their enthusiasm in fighting pneumonia through publicity, thus enhancing their courage to defeat the virus. This also proves to the world how resilient China was before the catastrophe. We are descendants of an indestructible and invincible dragon.

2. Downgrading is cutting prices. Downcutting is not just to refine a specific thing, but to break it down into its components, which is to shift attention to a more surprising and specific information level. For example, a salesperson did not complete the performance of the month, and it cannot be judged by piling up. Instead, you should ask yourself what the reason is, find the crux of the problem, and then make a judgment after analysis.

3. The stages of the horizontal stage are equivalent, and the classes are analogical. Horizontal similarity is to look for examples with the same information level, characterized by looking for metaphors and metaphors. Everyone in life can't be smooth sailing, and they will encounter difficulties of one kind or another. Edison also made one invention after another through experience. Zhang Haidi is physically and mentally disabled, but also troubled. Later, through his own efforts, he became a self-taught person. Besides, you are excellent at work, but you can't get the approval of the leader, and drinking is very depressing. This method is ok, but if you go to listen to music, exercise, read books and climb mountains, will it be better?

1. The first way to break the frame is to change the size of the frame. This method usually reevaluates an action from a larger or smaller angle. There are usually three perspectives: time perspective, space perspective and group perspective.

How to treat the time perspective? Talk about the fight against pneumonia. Calculate, "home" has been more than 40 days, and this kind of "happiness" is very uncomfortable. Early in the morning, when I went to the hospital to prescribe medicine for my mother, a patient also went to get the medicine. The registration was stopped because the doctor's computer was out of order. As soon as the patient heard that he had quarreled with the registered doctor, he ran upstairs to catch the doctor, swearing. Is it easy to go out? Ask this question, ask that question. In order to stabilize the patient, the doctor personally prescribed a prescription for him.

After the patient left, the doctor said, "We can understand the patient's feelings, but there is nothing we can do." ? "I can imagine that in more than 40 days, everyone was crazy. The patient smiled when he got the medical record and prescribed medicine. More than 40 days really made us feel bad, but in the long run, we have to endure loneliness for a while before we can escape the virus.

2. Take another example from the perspective of transcending the framework. Beyond the framework is to evaluate beliefs from outside the existing framework of personalized situations and establish beliefs about beliefs. People who often see disabled people will think that they can do anything, but people have great potential and disabled people will have bright sunshine.

Nick. Hu Zhe (Nick Huzhenik? Vujicic) is no stranger to everyone. He was born in Australia. He was born without limbs. This rare phenomenon is called "seal limb disease" in medicine, but he can ride horses, play drums, swim and do everything. There is nothing he can't do. He holds two university degrees, is also a director of an enterprise, and won the Outstanding Australian Youth Award in 2005. Optimistic, humorous, firm and unyielding, always encourage people around you, nothing is difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to Fan Deng him.

I am 38 years old, but I have traveled all over the world, made countless speeches and listened to tens of thousands of speeches. 201February 12 married KanaeMiyahara, and their combination witnessed the beauty of marriage. On this day, fans from all over the world left messages to congratulate the couple. 20 13 February 14 In the early morning of Valentine's Day, their love crystallized. James. Hu Zhe was born! Do you still think a person with perfect limbs will be worse than him?

In short, there is no good or bad knife. In good hands, it can save people, but in bad hands, it can harm people. We should use tools on the right path. When relatives and friends around them have no hope and can do nothing about life, help them out of their restrictive beliefs, give them strength, encourage and support them with magical language, and let them see the dawn and move towards the light.

Personally, I think that in addition to language encouragement, there must be action, and what is decided must be done. A dwarf who doesn't act should be a giant of language. Drops of water wear away stones, and he will succeed. Of course, stay away from cynics and nonsense people in life! So we can stand on the top of the mountain and be masters!

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