A letter to my niece-youth without regrets

I am an aunt, and I suddenly want to write you a letter and tell you what I think of you. Hey hey, it's the first time to write to you. I'm sorry!

In fact, I envy you, because now you are in adolescence. This is the best, simplest and most unrestrained time in a person's life. You will feel that everything is so fresh, everything is so full of hope, and everything is so unknown. You can be free or you can do whatever you want. However, you will also feel stressed and a little confused and confused. LL, it's inevitable. Life is always full of challenges and opportunities, you can't escape, you can only face them. In fact, this is colorful youth.

Only applause, no stones, that is not youth. Giving up and not persisting is not youth. Only laughter, without bitterness, is not youth. Don't be afraid of the thorns of youth, the bitterness of youth and the failure of youth. Instead, you should learn to thank them. It is because of them that you can truly taste the ups and downs of youth, and you can know what is a sense of accomplishment and what is success. This road will be bumpy, but as long as you are willing to work hard and persist, sooner or later you will clear all the fog and find your blue sky. Nobody can succeed casually, can they?

We can still talk a lot about the topic of youth. I hope I can have a good talk with you. I not only recall my lost youth, but also want to listen to your thoughts, about youth, about confusion, about dreams, about pressure ... I think we can be good friends, be free and speak freely. Of course, I will keep your secret and give you advice. After all, I have been there before!

Tell me about your study. I hope you don't have so much pressure. This is only your first exam since junior high school. I don't think you did badly, because you did well in all the subjects you are good at. That's right. First of all, you should establish confidence, be confident, and deeply feel that you can grasp what you are good at. For subjects that you are not good at, you should also make up your mind to achieve better results through changing your learning methods and studying hard. A good exam and a good score do not prove that you can't do it, but let you know your own shortcomings and make effective adjustments. You understand, don't you? Therefore, we have no time to feel sad and sorry. What we have to do is to find these shortcomings and then overcome them one by one! As long as you have such confidence and determination, you will get twice the result with half the effort!

Then, it is the learning method. I think it is: preview, review and summary. "Good memory is better than bad writing" has always been my only principle. No matter what knowledge points, no matter what questions, no matter what recitation, I will write and write. In fact, it won't take long, but the effect is great.

Preview: Finish your homework and see what classes will be held tomorrow, then take out these textbooks and turn to the next lesson. Preview according to the contents of the textbooks, draw all the new knowledge points, and then find out what you don't understand and mark them well. You can also write down your own problems in small print and make obvious marks. When attending a formal class, you will come to class with this question, and you will find "so that's it" and then write the answer next to your question. If you don't understand, be sure to ask the teacher after class. In fact, it doesn't take too long to preview, and each subject 10 minutes is enough.

Review: Review before doing homework after going home. It won't take long, because you have learned it. It's just a process of "reviewing the past and learning the new". I think each subject only takes 5 minutes. The key point depends on the key point that the teacher asks you to tick, or the class notes you take, the questions you preview and answer. After you do your homework, you will find that it is fast and not difficult at all, because you have mastered it!

Summary: this effort should be based on the usual efforts. We should not only carefully summarize and analyze the wrong questions, but also often summarize the problems encountered and the same type of questions. This method of induction and summary is always tried and tested. For example, words and phrases with similar meanings in English, words that are easily confused, and small compositions of the same type can use some stereotypes. For example, various similar formulas in mathematics, different types of questions and solutions of the same type of problems. For example, in Chinese, similar words and disyllabic words, misspelled words and mispronounced sounds, synonyms and antonyms of idioms, and the comparison of praise and criticism of idioms are all poems describing war, describing the four seasons of the year, describing homesickness, describing sending friends and so on. This is especially true when analyzing wrong questions. You should know why and why. If you know what is right, you should also know why you did it wrong, which knowledge you have mastered is particularly solid, which you have not fully mastered and have doubts, and which you can't do at all. So, these things won't happen at all, because the knowledge is too narrow, or because I didn't pay attention to this knowledge and swallowed it, or because the teacher didn't explain it in class ... These things should be analyzed one by one and written in the summary of the wrong questions.

With these efforts, you will find yourself very calm and confident when facing the exam in your usual study. Also, you will know that even if there are new problems and new knowledge, you will not, and you will conquer it next time. And after a long time, you will find that these efforts will not take up too much time at all, but the result is extremely obvious, and you will have a sense of pride and accomplishment that you have never had before.

LL, you must not get tired of Chinese, and you must not give up. Read more books and analyze more, ask yourself if you understand and what you can learn, pay attention to accumulation, copy down good words and sentences, and memorize good poems. In fact, Chinese is really not that difficult. If you are geography, you should read more globes and maps, and then read all the illustrations in the book and do more questions.

In fact, I can't give you many suggestions and explanations about knowledge points. After all, what I learned many years ago is not quite the same as you are now. What I can teach you is the study method. You should also find your own way from it and stick to it. Don't be discouraged and don't give up. You will find that studying is the most interesting thing you will encounter. Also, don't ignore the role of network and computer. There are many apps on the Internet that are all about learning. You can use it when you have a chance. For example, you can listen to some English articles, search some ancient poems, and look at various novel topics ... but things on the Internet are very miscellaneous, so you should learn to distinguish them and don't waste too much time on them.

"There is no end to learning, and there is no end to learning." Now you feel a lot of pressure and a little bitter. When you look back after the experience, you will thank yourself for your efforts at that time and let you have a regretless youth. Every parent wants his son to be a dragon and his daughter to be a phoenix. So sometimes they are too nervous and excited about your study. Maybe you don't understand it now, but when Qian Fan is over, you will also thank them for their dedication, their strictness and their selfless love.

LL, believe in yourself, the future will always be in your own hands! Fight!

? Trust your aunt.

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