What is the original intention of "crossing the bridge"? Is this word derogatory or positive now?

Everything has a turning point, that is, don't lose heart.

It is a commendatory term because it contains the meaning of encouragement and encouragement.

philosophy of life

-We'll cross the bridge when we come to it.

There is an old saying in China, "If you cross a bridge, you must cross it." This argument more or less explains a truth: everything has a turn for the better.

In fact, this "phenomenon" is very simple: when the ship is sideways, it is deflected by the impact of a large area of water, and the force is along the direction of the water flow, so the ship moves forward along the direction of the water flow, forming a stable shape with vertical force.

The same is true in life. Many things are subtle, and it is often difficult for people to really understand them clearly, but this is how things often develop. For example, when I was a child, I often heard my elders say, "Cross the bridge." I always feel that this idea is very negative, even very Q. Who can guarantee that we will cross the bridge when we cross it? However, with the growth of age, I found that this sentence really has some truth; If office workers and friends can understand this truth, it will definitely help to relax at work and study.

For example, for the first time, you won an important task and took charge of a major project plan. Such a project must require the cooperation of many units and personnel. However, because it is the first time for you to undertake such an important task, you are very nervous, so you remind and contact again and again for fear that things will screw up. It's just that all the units and personnel are fooling around, and everything seems to have nothing to do with themselves, which makes you more anxious. At this time, experienced colleagues will comfort you and say, "Never mind, you will be relieved after crossing the bridge. But it's obviously too late, how can we rest assured? So you turned to the superior officer for help. Unexpectedly, the officer sent you away with the old saying: "Never mind, you will be straight when you get to the bridge. " ; Now you really don't call every day and nobody cares about you. Even the only superior leader you expect is so indifferent. You can hardly sleep at night ... but then, things really ended at the last minute, and the bridge really crossed. Once, twice and three times, you gradually learn the experience. The next time a new colleague is entrusted with a heavy responsibility for the first time, it is also nervous and anxious. You will also pat him on the shoulder and say, "Don't worry, don't panic, you will cross the bridge when you come to it." "

It turns out that it makes sense for others to say so to you. It is the crystallization of wisdom accumulated by their past experience, not just talking about it. Although everything is ready, the sooner things are prepared, the better. However, when we are young, we bear a heavy responsibility. We have only one task in mind, only this matter, so we are often overly nervous and ask others to cooperate in advance. However, others may have several to-do items at the same time, many of which are more urgent than yours. People have no obligation and no reason to be overly nervous with you in advance. What's more, you are a novice, and others have already had experience. He knows better than you when it is best to help you. You are too early and nervous, of course no one will pay attention to you.

This is the advantage of experience. Experienced people know how to fight a war, so they know how to fight a war. However, you are new here, eager to show off, too subjective and inexperienced, and it is easy to screw things up. Listen to the old man, I believe it's really time to cross the bridge when you come to it. Of course, others will cooperate with you according to their duties, but they have no obligation to accompany you in advance before the time comes. At this time, you need to relax and be nervous.

"In the face of complex and chaotic environment, we must have a unique vision and keen sense of touch, find opportunities in difficulties, create magic in dangers, and always keep a calm, objective and rational mind and attitude." This is the philosophy I learned from "crossing the bridge".