What are the wives who check their husbands' mobile phones every day thinking?

First of all, the most direct reason for checking your mobile phone is that you are worried that your husband will lie to you or chat with other women. In fact, many women are not like this at first. Many times, their husbands cheated them, or they found that their husbands were chatting with other women in a very ambiguous way, and they were deeply hurt inside, forming a shadow, resulting in paranoia, sensitivity and fear of similar situations.

Sometimes you should not only check the phone, but also pay attention to your husband's words and deeds, and don't miss any clues. Second, lack of self-confidence and security. Some wives sacrifice a lot for their families. She may give up her job to take care of her husband and children for her family, or she may not keep in touch with friends or close friends and spend all her time with her husband and children. She has no income and few friends. Some people often feel that they have lost contact with society. As time goes on, children grow up and their own families are working hard. The best years of their youth are dedicated to their families and to the men in this family.

I have seen many wives scrimp and save, but their husbands and children are never stingy. They buy them the best clothes and shoes and cook the best meals, but they are always reluctant to buy bright lipstick for themselves. One day, I will gradually find that I have almost nothing to do except take care of my family, do laundry and cook, have no social interaction, and am more afraid of facing work. Moreover, he is not young, his face is not as big as before, and his husband's attraction seems to be gradually weakening.

My husband doesn't care about himself as much as before. A husband who was not attentive before can go home now, and you don't have to say a word. In your world, your husband has become your only pillar, and they themselves are slowly becoming fragile. That sense of insecurity suddenly attacked me. You are afraid that your husband will no longer love you, that he will leave this house one day, and that he has nothing. The news that someone else's husband cheated on her and divorced aggravated this anxiety.

They gradually become suspicious and sensitive, always pay attention to their husbands and check their mobile phones from time to time. Therefore, in any case, when taking care of your family, you should not neglect yourself, but be kind to yourself. Make yourself young, beautiful, energetic and attractive. At the same time, it is best to have your own social circle and friends, don't leave society, grow up in it, work as much as possible, or earn some money. It is better to rely on yourself than on heaven and earth. Only in this way can we remain confident and not care too much about your husband.