For the rest of my life, I smiled and responded in silence.

This is a kind of summary, summarizing all the moods and emotions during this period.

——Memory

It has been a while, but I have not recorded those things in my heart for a long time. So in this early autumn, I think back to "summer".

I once thought that after such a long time, sometimes many things are really impossible to explain. I accidentally saw a sentence on the Internet: "Silence is a person's biggest cry." It means that the reason why people are silent , is the edge that has been worn away by life, a compromise to the world, and a very sad thing.

I feel that when a person becomes more and more silent and wants to speak less and less, this is not cowardice or compromise, but it means that you have seen a lot of things. I have seen many people clearly; I have become more and more mature, bright but not dazzling, soft but powerful.

In the past, when I encountered something wrong, I liked to argue with others. I especially cared about what others thought of me. When I encountered something big, I always found someone to talk to. Later, as time passed and I grew up, I became more and more accustomed to the feeling of silence. I no longer argued with others about my opinions. On the contrary, I understood that not all people live in the same sea.

With different experiences and different outlooks, the views on everything will definitely be different. If we share the same path, we will work together for a while; if we have different paths, we will not conspire against each other. No longer pin all your joys, sorrows, sorrows and joys on others. If you feel comfortable being with someone, socialize more. If you feel tired, choose silence and slowly stay away.

Life is already so difficult, there is no need to force yourself to please others or cater to anyone. When there is suffering in life, I no longer rush to find others to complain about, because only I understand my suffering. If you talk too much, others will only think you are pretentious. It is better to find a quiet corner, do something that makes you happy, heal your wounds alone, and let your beauty fade away.

People will meet many people in this life, and every person who appears in your life has its own meaning. The people you love give you warmth and courage; the people you love teach you how to love and share; the people you dislike teach you how to be tolerant and respectful; the people who dislike you teach you how to introspect and grow. Life is also a journey. Some people get off at this stop, and some people get off at the next stop. It is a great fate to be able to accompany you on the journey. When the person who accompanies you wants to leave, even if you are reluctant to leave, you still have to leave. It’s time to be grateful, learn to see clearly, and then wave goodbye.

We are all passers-by in this vast world. We cannot be the masters of many people and things in the world. Mountains and water can look at each other, and the sun and the moon can have nothing to do with each other. In the world of mortals, we will eventually have to walk alone. Only those who can see clearly will be happier. The mourning has passed, and you are becoming more and more silent. But you understand that many things are not as important as you thought. Just think about it and forget it, so that you can wash away the silence.

A long time ago, a king wanted to find a sentence that would make happy people sad and sad people happy. But he spent a lot of time and asked many people but couldn't find it. Until one night, in his dream, a wise man said something to him, and everything would be over.

The world is like smoke, and there are changes in the world. No matter it is good or bad, nothing is eternal. For those who cannot see through and cannot let go, silence is the best weapon, and time is the best antidote, which will make everything pass.

I don’t know since when, I fell in love with this sentence more and more: "I am not surprised by favor or disgrace, just watch the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court. I have no intention of leaving or leaving, just look at the clouds rolling and relaxing in the sky." This sentence has become what I am now. life mottos. Whenever I feel frustrated, misunderstood, or disheartened, these words come to mind, so I grit my teeth and move on.

In the decades of life, what we care about, what we care about, what we have obtained, and what we have not obtained are just a moment in the long river of life. A few years or decades later, looking back, everything is over and done with, and it is not worth worrying about.

For the rest of your life, tell yourself that you will be happy with gains and calm with losses.

Look down on everything that happens in life, be silent and quiet, smile and be at ease.

I believe many people have had this experience. They like to post in QQ space or in Moments, using a simple sentence or a few sentences to express what they saw and heard at that time, or Some little thoughts that are not easily noticed by others. After many years, I will look through the chats and Moments I once posted, or I may feel that my past comments are hypocritical and wish to delete them all. In fact, this is the essence of life. No matter how happy or concerned you are at the beginning, as time goes by, everything will slowly fade away and become a vague memory in your life.

Therefore, you become more and more silent, you dislike expressing yourself in front of others less and less, and you understand more and more deeply that thousands of changes, many emotions, and the passage of time, good and bad things, will eventually become things of the past. Relaxing your mind, taking things lightly, and enjoying your own little things in silence is the best way to live.

I have read this sentence, no one will care how you cry in the middle of the night, and no one will care how many autumns you have tossing and turning. Outsiders only look at the results, and you are solely responsible for the process. Once you understand this truth, you will no longer be pretentious in front of others and talk around for comfort. When you become more and more silent and want to speak less and less, it should mean that you are becoming more and more mature, taking things lightly and seeing things clearly. So when I wanted to argue, I just thought about it and let it go, so I chose silence and no longer blended into other people's world like I did when I was young.

As I get older, I gradually like silence and solitude. I have nothing to do, prepare an exquisite meal for my family and myself, clean the house, and put out my favorite hand-painted paintings and small objects. Hold a book, stay quietly for an afternoon, put on headphones, listen to your favorite music, and take a walk on a quiet night road. If you see a person from a distance, you will be depressed and smile peacefully. No noise, no publicity, no unhappiness, just silence is more comfortable.

No matter how smart a person is, he cannot understand everything. No matter how wise a person is, he cannot understand everyone. A truly mature person understands that the past flows like a stream, and that the best state of life is not to avoid the hustle and bustle of cars and horses, but to build fences and plant chrysanthemums in your heart.

I hope that for the rest of your life, you will neither fight nor rob, make trouble or get angry, be neither humble nor overbearing, be favored or humiliated, nor be frightened, but remain silent.

?——August 2018