Corner overtaking

It's winter vacation, and the children are fascinated by an cartoon. After trying several episodes, the child wants to be a member. The child's father said: ask your mother this. Usually I have the final say in children's education. So the father of the child is afraid to make his own decisions. Ha, ha, ha, this is our family, not my strength. The child looked at me and I disagreed.

In the evening, the child's father told me to be a member, because it was a holiday anyway. I said, a holiday? This is a good time to overtake in the corner. The father-son diagram has not been finished yet, and there are still many new books in the bookcase. Appropriate relaxation and adjustment is certainly possible, but you can't indulge in it.

If I am a member, maybe I will think in my heart that it will cost money anyway, so let the children read more books and come back when they see the money. Isn't this penny wise and pound foolish? The loss is not only a few hundred yuan of recharge fees.

The matter of joining the club passed like this. At this time, the child pursed his mouth. After two days, the child forgot about it.

There is a popular saying on the internet: I am not afraid that my classmates are schoolmasters, but I am afraid that schoolmasters will take a long vacation. Children are not tyrants, but they should learn self-discipline. Don't completely relax just because they have taken a long vacation. It takes some time to adapt and adjust after school starts, which is not worth the loss. It is necessary for children to study properly and work and rest reasonably during holidays.

Speaking of children, say mom. In the past, the circle of friends basked in moldy tofu, and I followed suit to make moldy tofu; Friends circle basks in snowflake crisp, and I also follow suit to make snowflake crisp; Making steamed bread, pizza, chicken feet ... making delicious food is the main task of my long vacation. This is also good, the children are very happy and the time is easy to pass.

The second biggest thing is to catch up with that long, silly and sweet drama. In the play, I fantasize about the day when I get ahead, and I become an omnipotent figure in the workplace; Became a girl wrapped in sweet love; Became a rich woman with money and leisure ... In the plot, self-esteem, self-worth, self-realization and so on can all be satisfied in imagination. Forget all the trivial things in life and the troubles in the workplace for a while. Every time after a play, I always feel a little sad and feel that my time has been occupied and plundered. But this feeling disappeared when the next play started. These soap operas, like drugs, trap me.

The winter vacation in 2022 is a different winter vacation, and it is also a good opportunity for me to overtake in corners. At the beginning of the year, I got to know an education walk, participated in writing together, applied for a teaching exam, wrote an application for a new teacher, was admitted, and participated in several online reading sessions.

In order to make overtaking in corners stable, accurate and fast, I will sort out and reflect on my own practices as follows:

First, arrange the schedule reasonably. Early to bed and early to rise, not sleepy. Always remind yourself that you can sleep it for trillions of years in the future. You must go to bed before 1 1 every day, which sometimes violates the rules. For example, I went to look for some information yesterday and stayed in bed until 1 1:30, as if a rule had been formed subconsciously. After sleeping at 1 1, I was in poor condition even when I got up the next day. So when the alarm clock rang at 5: 30 today, my brain and body were resisting, and a strong voice in my heart sounded: You slept last night, and now you are in a bad state, so you might as well sleep more. You can't lose the best study time the next morning because of 30 minutes in the evening. Set the alarm clock to remind you to go to bed at night 10, and go to wash immediately. After washing, you can also read and meditate before going to bed to let yourself sleep quietly. In order to ensure the state of the afternoon, we should rest for half an hour at noon, not for a long time, but it is not good to go into deep sleep.

Second, allocate the learning tasks reasonably. You should have a clear understanding of what you are doing at the best of the day. For example, after getting up, I concentrate. This time is the most precious time, so I read books. You should also be aware of your state at all times. At first, you will think about whether to make a mask or feel hungry and want to eat, and you will yawn. At this time, you need to adjust, comfort yourself, get up and walk, and never force yourself to be in a fake learning state. Slowly, I can concentrate on reading for 40 minutes now, which is a state of immersion in books. For example, I read the chapter about writing students' stories in 68 writing suggestions for teachers today. Because of my concentration, some educational ideas seem to be engraved in my mind. I think this is effective reading. Read the task and finish your homework. The theme of the writing is not very clear, let's not talk about it, let's write it first. At present, the preparation of teaching resources is mainly to watch online classes, which requires less attention and can be completed during the day and afternoon. In the evening, I mainly accompany my children and family.

Third, in the process of learning, we should learn to adjust and transform. For example, you can meditate for a few minutes before studying to calm your brain. When you finish a learning activity, you can choose some videos to relax your shoulders and neck to follow the practice. You can also change your learning activities to adjust your brain fatigue, such as reading books, reading articles on WeChat official accounts, or attending classes.

Fourth, we must reward ourselves. For example, set yourself some small goals and reward yourself if you accomplish that small goal. Or watch a movie, eat a good meal, or buy a small gift, suggesting that this is a reward for your efforts. Only in this way can the brain and body continue to be willing to serve me as a master.

Constantly explore good methods on the road of self-growth, not only to learn from others, but also to constantly know yourself and yourself.

Overtaking in corners is an opportunity given by the outside world, but also depends on the performance of the car itself.