How to reduce the troubles during marriage?

Actually, I have always been very disgusted with this kind of wedding banter. Although the people involved enjoy it and even come up with all kinds of fancy wedding banter to prank the groom, I think this is a kind of wedding banter. Disrespect for others, and some even go too far, especially uncivilized marriage troubles, which really should not happen again.

To reduce the occurrence of marriage troubles, I think we should do the following aspects.

First of all, don’t get involved in other people’s marriage troubles. Some people tend to be particularly active when others are getting married, and come up with various ways to trouble others, such as tying the groom to a telephone pole or tying him to a tree and stripping him naked, leaving only a pair of underwear. , pouring soy sauce on his body. Some grooms were originally wearing soy sauce and egg liquid, but they were all splashed with soy sauce and egg liquid. Just because when others get married, he does everything possible, so when he gets married, others will use the same methods to punish him.

Secondly, the wedding should be as civilized as possible. For example, when getting married, let the newlyweds bite a hanging apple, or let them sing a song, dance, or perform a talent for everyone. Such wedding banter can not only enliven the atmosphere of the scene, but also Special civilization, whether it is a young couple or other people, is acceptable.

Third, as an elder, you must control the scene. You must find some particularly prestigious and intimidating elders to sit in at the wedding scene and detect excessive confusion or uncivilized behavior. If the behavior is serious, stop it in time to prevent the situation from expanding and eventually becoming uncontrollable. For example, when the commotion reaches a certain level, you can have an elder talk to everyone, and that's enough. The ceremony is about to enter, so everyone should stop making trouble and let the bride and groom prepare for the ceremony. This way everyone will stop making trouble.

In short, everyone should start from themselves and from now on, consciously not participate in marriage troubles. As long as no one participates, there will be no more marriage troubles, so let us all do it together Resist marriage troubles, which can effectively reduce the occurrence of marriage troubles.