There should be privacy between boyfriend and girlfriend.

It is true that men and women are close, but we should also respect his privacy. A person who has no privacy is equivalent to dangling in front of you naked. What does this make him think? It is equivalent to streaking. If it were you, would you run naked? Maybe you will say that there is nothing to worry about in front of you.

Indeed, you are his female (male) friend, so you really don't have to worry about it. However, he doesn't think so. In front of a person, if there is no privacy at all, he will feel insecure, fall in love, and the most important thing is to give the other person a sense of security. If you do this, it is equivalent to destroying the feelings between two people. If you go on like this, you will break up sooner or later.

It's normal for a person to want privacy. It doesn't mean that if he doesn't tell you, you will feel that he doesn't love you and doesn't tell you anything, and this relationship is gone. Because you think so, he will often let you know what he is doing and what he hasn't told you. Telling you everything is equivalent to forcing him to tell you something he doesn't want to tell you, that is, his privacy.

Actually, I want to say, do you think you are close to him or his parents are close to him? His parents raised him for more than ten or twenty years. Not as good as your feelings in those years. His parents won't force him. Why did you force him? Do you think this is love for him?

If boyfriend and girlfriend really love each other, don't force him to say what he doesn't want to say, but trust each other. Give each other some space and privacy, then your feelings will only get deeper and deeper, and he will feel that you are more understanding and even more reluctant to leave you.