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What do you think of "many people are willing to fish all their lives"?
So most people answer that there are emotions at work. Fishing is also a form of lying flat. Nowadays, many people are under great pressure at work, and fantasy fishing is decompression. But the answer is, after all, it's just talk, and it can't really be realized. If you really want to fish, you can ask those people around you who really fish every day if they are satisfied with their present life and whether they want to change jobs. Perhaps you will find that many of them have long been tired of this life of fishing only every day, and many even have a tendency to be depressed because they can't escape from this environment. I believe there is such an example around you.
Don't say that you are a listed executive of a large state-owned enterprise in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. Just say ordinary people. The most typical situation is: a person born in the third and fourth lines has no outstanding achievements and no opinions. In an unstable environment, he can only listen to his parents. In his twenties, he was assigned to some positions in the system or preferred to work. Some of these positions have boring and meaningless work content every day, and in some extreme cases, they even have nothing to do. Most of their energy is spent on dealing with the relationship with leading colleagues every day. This kind of work for a long time is tantamount to torture for a young man.
(Of course, only a few cases are mentioned here. Most jobs that are afraid of being "regular" are positive and generally have no chance to fish. If you fish, it must be the capital at work. This must be made clear. There are very few people who can react in time and choose to quit. Once they are unlucky and have worked in this position for several years, most of them will soon be tied to this position. After all, I have a stable income and family recognition. I have no courage and courage to give up. Resignation has to face great social pressure, and in recent years, I have lost other earning power.
Once a person has eaten an iron rice bowl, he is not used to using other containers. This person reacted and felt that he could no longer live this life. His ability, social circle, even vision and habits have been firmly restricted by this position. Facing them, this situation always reminds me of the sentence "The more I want to control, the more I control at last". On the surface, you touch fish every day, but in fact you may be the fish that is touched every day. At this stage of life, being domesticated is considered successful. If you have a family, it is even more impossible to get rid of this life, and your wife and children are waiting for your salary. There is a lot of discussion behind it, and you have no conditions to re-plan and choose. At that time, the feeling of despair, unwillingness and having to suppress everything in my heart was the most tormenting. This kind of bondage and restriction is no different from house arrest.
And often this kind of work not only can't provide high income, but also won't give you time, experience or qualification to do any sideline business. It is really unrealistic to say that fishing can also make money, because in reality, this kind of work often does not require employees to be very tired, but various regulations, restrictions and disciplines are absolutely indispensable! It is impossible for people who have done it not to understand. Besides, can you really make money by doing sideline business in this environment? Will your colleagues and leaders help you make a fortune? There is no need to elaborate on what people in this circle can do every day, and those who understand naturally understand. Therefore, as the saying goes, there are gains and losses. For ordinary people, how can a job that allows you to fish create an environment for you to do sideline business or improve yourself? Unless you are really at the top of the pyramid, how can such a good thing happen?
Through my communication with those people who really fish every day, they are more or less depressed. Because fishing is actually a very tiring thing, sometimes even more tiring than work. Work is often tired of the "body", while fishing is tired of the "heart." Fishing for a long time is a kind of consumption for yourself, because boredom is a negative emotion, and it is very tiring to look for trouble every day. As an intelligent creature, people need fresh information to stimulate all the time, and a stable and boring environment is a chronic poison for people. In reality, many people who can fish are not as carefree as others think. Many people will suffer from various diseases such as alcoholism and gambling. Otherwise, do you think those attractive and harmful things are for people who are busy to death at work? There are really too few people who have the psychological quality to fish with peace of mind and enjoy life at the same time.
All of the above have led many people in similar positions to vent their anger in other ways, such as comparing with others, fighting with others, quarreling with their families constantly, quarreling for three days and quarreling for five days, and passing this negative energy on to their children if divorced; Or force children to study and make them crazy, which will lead to greater social problems in the future. This situation can be said to be commonplace in some areas, and I believe that people who have experienced this environment can feel the same. Even if animals are deprived of too much freedom, it will have serious consequences. Man is an advanced animal with independent consciousness. Once kept in captivity, it will cause very serious psychological problems, which will turn into other problems. Moreover, this kind of captivity is not necessarily compulsory, and the captive may not really be kept in captivity. The application of cultural identity, social relations, economic means and organizational structure will have similar effects, and sometimes this invisible cage is even more horrible than the real cage! This kind of work that allows you to fish is a very hard one in many cages. So personally, fishing until retirement may be the right choice for the elderly. For example, if you have a chance to get this position when you are about to retire in five or ten years, then 9 out of 10 people will definitely choose. But for young people in their twenties and thirties, it is best not to choose this kind of job, which has little to do with development opportunities and money. Mainly harmful to physical and mental health. If you choose, you may not be able to stand it. It's too late to back down when it happens. So in the final analysis, it depends on everyone's own situation. Personally, I don't tend to do this kind of work all the time, nor do I recommend others to do it. Of course, all this presupposes that there are some choices. If it is difficult for you to find a job because of your own poor conditions, or if you have poor economic conditions, or if you really can't do other jobs, then this kind of job that can fish must be grabbed. Because even being imprisoned is better than living on the street. Real life is full of helplessness, but we should face it positively anyway, and there is hope if we persist.
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