How to deal with the problem that parents interfere too much in finding a partner?

With the growth of my age, I sometimes get tired of some of my parents' behaviors, and I always feel that my parents interfere in my own affairs too much, and even resent it.

I believe you must have the same experience as me. When you are old, you will always urge your partner when you come home from work or make a phone call, or arrange various blind date activities for you. Once you have a girlfriend, sometimes you will feel bored and very bored with your parents. I think you can try the following methods to change your parents' excessive interference in finding a partner:

1. First of all, you should understand that no matter how old you are, you are still a child in the eyes of your parents. Because they have been worried about you for twenty or thirty years, it will interfere with your finding a partner. This is their concern for you. You can't dislike your parents because of their behavior, which will lead to cracks in your feelings with your parents.

2. I usually care more about my parents, talk to them more, and tell them that I have grown up, have my own preferences, and have my own requirements for another partner. Therefore, I hope that parents will not interfere too much in finding their own partners. In fact, everything is predestined, and fate comes naturally.

3. After you have an object, encourage the object and parents to meet frequently, create opportunities for them to get used to each other, and let parents feel your object's respect and love for their parents through getting along. This can prevent your parents from interfering with you too much because they are afraid that the object you are in will hurt you, and can also enhance mutual understanding and feelings. When parents have a certain understanding of your object, it will naturally reduce the interference to you.

In a word, parents don't really want to bind your thoughts and your freedom of love. They are afraid that you can't find someone, and they are afraid that you will get hurt. They are also out of concern, sometimes they may be a little extreme, but they should not be bored with their parents and alienated from them. Instead, we should be more considerate of their good intentions, communicate with their parents and gradually improve this behavior.