My attitude depends on how you treat me.

One, a touch of shallow coolness, caressing this quiet night in early autumn, awakened a curtain dream. Rippling with carefree sadness all over the ground, a little gentle sadness comes quietly, making thousands of thoughts fly with the wind in this quiet night.

Second, I gradually learned to accept rather than pay. Even if I meet someone who is moved again, I just shake my head and say forget it.

Third, you are the last free autumn wind in this autumn, and I am just the last maple leaf falling with the wind in this autumn!

Four, lonely eyes are silent, when will they be bright and found, hiding in my dark corner.

If you belong to me, you only belong to me. I don't like sharing with others.

6. Nothing in life is smooth. After walking some roads, I know hard work; Climb some mountains before you know the difficulties; Only by crossing some hurdles can we know how to surpass them; There are some things that we don't know until we experience them; I saw some people and learned the experience; I didn't know wealth until I read some books; Knowing that happiness takes a lifetime. More happiness, less trouble, sleep when you are tired, laugh when you wake up, how is life, and put your own seasoning!

Seven, two people together is to be happy, break up is to alleviate the pain, you can't make me happy anymore, I have to leave. When I left, it was also painful, but you must be more painful than me, because I said goodbye first and pursued happiness first.

Eight, forget a person, think about her bad, think about her shortcomings, for a long time, you will forget her. It is said that time is a good medicine to cure emotional injury. Fortunately, I'm not badly hurt, or I'll waste too much life.

9. I won't cry when I encounter the most torment. I will choose to be strong, learn to look down on everything, learn to fill my pain with the joy of meeting you, and feel that you are thousands of times harder than me.

Ten, time will slowly precipitate, and some people will slowly blur in your heart. Learn to let go, your happiness needs to be realized by yourself.

Eleven, after the wheat harvest, if you have ever stood on it, if you have ever witnessed such a prosperous growth overnight turned into a barren and charred land with stubble, then you will certainly feel such a mood.

Twelve, life is reluctant, looking forward to the future, the distant road is still confused. When Qian Fan is exhausted, the years turn tenderness into tears and drown them in the rolling world of mortals. They are still so clear and noisy, covering up the vicissitudes of the years, leaving behind those who lament their hesitation in the dim light. Loneliness is full of night, even if there is loneliness, there is nothing to say, so that the mood is exiled, imitating the entanglements in the world, wandering again and again, making the dreams disappear, so we have to let the broken feelings wander several times.

Thirteen, the most sad distance in the world is that two people are far away and don't know each other yet. Suddenly one day, they met and fell in love, and the distance became very close. Then one day, they stopped falling in love, and the two people who were very close became far away, even farther away than before.

Fourteen, when will people die? When the bullet goes through the heart. Don't! When you have an incurable disease. Don't! When drinking poisonous mushroom soup? Don't! It's time to be forgotten

15. Kafka's Misentry into the World: Whoever looks for it will not find it, and whoever does not look for it will find it.

16. Everyone makes mistakes. If you really love someone, no matter what he did to you before, no matter what mistake he made, you will forgive him and even give him reasons. If you don't love someone, maybe the other person just made a mistake and immediately turned against you and broke up. So, when a person catches your little mistake and breaks up, it's not because of your fault, but because he doesn't love you. Forgiveness is related to the depth of love. How much love, how much forgiveness.

Seventeen, at first, he said, she said. Later, they said together. Later she said, he didn't say. Finally, she stopped talking. Silence is a girl's biggest cry, if you understand.

Eighteen, a few years later, I found that countless feelings were not torn by myself, they were incomplete, and there was no need to tear them. Now, I begin to miss the rainy night that tore up your letters and photos. I envy myself at that time, and I still have complete happiness to tear.

19. Our sorrow is not that we lost too much yesterday, but that we are trapped in past memories, holding a grudge against some people and haggling over some things. Some people, if you wait, they will not come. Why don't you open your heart, give him some freedom and give yourself some space? There are some things that you don't regret, and nothing will happen again. It is better to ignore the past, some mistakes should be tolerated, and some injuries should be rested. After all, there is no such thing as a fleeting time.

20. However, life is different because of you. We don't need to swear or promise. We just need to follow love and confirm the agreement on the Sansheng stone with eyes as the medium. We hold hands, don't have to hold hands, but never relax, and interpret a classic eternity with our own love programs.

Turn on the light if you are afraid of the dark, and contact if you miss it. No matter how big things are today, tomorrow will be small things; The biggest thing this year is the story next year. At best, we are people with stories, so life is like dandelion, seemingly free, but in fact we can't help it. Some things, not care, but care. Just try your best. There are no ifs in life, only consequences and results.

It is always wrong to look at things and think of people in the second half.

Twenty-three, when you are coldest, someone hugs you regardless of their own coldness. This is happiness.

My attitude depends on how you treat me.

Twenty-five, because some doors are closed, you have to find another way; Because some people have left, you should meet new people; Because you are constantly denied and rejected, you begin to affirm yourself. One day, you find that it is because some doors are closed that you find the way that really suits you; It is because someone leaves that you meet someone who can really give you happiness; It is because of being denied that you have found your true self!

Happiness depends on the state of mind, not what you have.

1. Happiness depends on the state of mind, not what you have.

2. Happy people like silence. People who keep saying how happy they are must be very fragile inside. When a person's heart is strong enough, it is useless to say or not to say. The most important thing is to choose the direction that suits you best and go it alone. Find the most certain information in life, those similar people or things will eventually come together, and those who are not similar will eventually run counter to each other.

If you say you will come at four o'clock in the afternoon, I will feel very happy from three o'clock. The closer the time is, the happier I will be. By four o'clock, I will be restless, and I have found the value of happiness, but if you come at any time, I don't know when I can satisfy your mood.

-The Little Prince by Anthony de Saint-Exupery

If you just want happiness, it's not difficult at all. The hard part is that we always expect to be happier than others.

God won't concentrate all happiness on one person: you don't have to be rich to get love; Being rich is not necessarily happiness; Happiness does not necessarily mean health; Having health may not be everything you want. Keeping a contented heart is the best way to temper and purify the soul. Yang Jiang

6. No one is complete. The so-called happiness lies in recognizing a person's limits and being content with the status quo.

-romain rolland's John Christophe

7. Happy are those who mature neither too late nor too early, and gradually learn to endure the cold and unfortunate life. -Pushkin

8. To measure a person's happiness, we should not look at how many happy things he has, but whether he is worried about some small things. Only happy people care about trifles. People who have experienced great disasters have no time to take care of these little things. -Schopenhauer

9. Happiness doesn't conform to Newton's law of inertia at all. It always comes to an abrupt end when the slide is the smoothest. -Diana

10. God lets us get used to all kinds of things, that is, use them instead of happiness. Eugene onegin.

1 1. For so many years, one can pretend everything, but not happiness. -Borges

12. Beggars don't envy millionaires, but he will envy beggars with higher incomes. -"The Road to Happiness"

13. The secret of happiness is to expand your interests as much as possible and be as friendly as possible to the people and things you are interested in. Bertrand Russell

14. I'm afraid of infinite truth, and I'm glad to enter an inch. Even driving an old broken car, as long as you keep moving forward and occasionally blow a little wind, it is happiness. -Hu Shi

15. Knowledge is happiness, not "knowledge is power". Because of extensive and profound knowledge, we can distinguish between true and false, good and evil, and distinguish between high and low.

16. People have to grow up. One day, you will walk happily in the street with a stroller, and everything you once liked will be stylized and disappear into the tunnel of time. So keep moving, keep moving, and don't look back. -Miyazaki Hayao's "Cat's Gratitude"

17. Just right, I am happy for your happiness when I see your happiness. -Haruki Murakami, South of the Frontier and West of the Sun

18. Money worship means that money is the only criterion to measure a person's success. This wrong idea leads people to destroy their own nature, reduce the happiness of life, increase the sense of tension, and make the whole society become negative, boring and lack of fantasy. It silences all the great wishes in people's hearts. Because of fear of losing money, people have more worries and troubles, and their ability to get happiness is exhausted. Russell

19. Happiness is like a butterfly, which is hard to get when you chase it. But when you sit quietly, it may fall on you. -nathaniel hawthorne

20. The greatest happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved. Hugo

2 1. Some people say that misfortune can make human nature noble, which is incorrect; Sometimes happiness makes people do noble things. Unfortunately, in most cases, disasters can only make people narrow-minded and have revenge. -The Moon and Sixpence by Mao Mu.

22. If there is such a state in the world: the mind is full and quiet, neither cherishing the past nor looking forward to the future, letting time pass, only grasping the present, feeling neither lack nor enjoyment, neither happiness nor sadness, but only feeling one's own existence, people in this state can be said to be happy. -Rousseau's Dream of the Lonely Traveler

There is neither happiness nor misfortune in the world, only one situation is compared with another. Only those who have endured the biting wind and rain with wooden boards in their arms in the sea can appreciate the value of happiness. Enjoy the joy of life to the fullest, and always remember that before God reveals the future of mankind, human wisdom is contained in two words: wait and hope. -Dumas

24. Don't argue with others easily. When someone has an insignificant argument with you, you let him win because you have nothing to lose. In fact, the happiness of life, half to strive for, half to follow. Struggle is not with others, but with suffering. With, not go with the flow, but Zhi Zhi. Fight, life is less regrettable; A contented person is always happy.

(The picture is from the oil painting of Marten Boffin)

Philosophical joke: What you can extract depends on what you have saved.

First, laugh loudly if you want, so that the whole world can hear your happiness. There are too many hardships in life. You are destined to experience ups and downs from birth, and you can't see the rainbow without experiencing the wind and rain. If you can laugh at the end, you are the winner. Cry if you want, shed tears and vent your feelings. No one will be ashamed of your weakness. No matter men or women, there will always be feelings and fragility. No one will win forever strong, and there is no winner forever.

What you can withdraw depends on what you have saved. Without storing friendship, you can't get help; Without storing knowledge, you can't withdraw your ability; If you want endless happiness, you should save gratitude and pay. Gentleness is necessary, but it is not compromise. Life can't be without pursuit. Without pursuit, the motivation of life will be lost. But you can't force it. If you insist, you will make yourself feel bad.

Third, life lies not in age, but in spiritual youth; Clothing is not fashionable, but comfortable and fit; Not rich in diet, but balanced in nutrition; The bedroom is not about size, but about cleanliness and comfort; Health is not deliberate, it is important to let nature take its course; Exercise is not in Xia Dong, but in perseverance; Work and rest are not in the morning and evening, but in the law; Interest is not refined, but childlike innocence; There are not many friends, but you need a bosom friend.

Four, how many people love, only rainbow, no wind and rain? How many people's life, only happiness, no pain? When I love, I will say: You are my forever. But in times of crisis, how many people can remember their original promises? Remember love? But if there is compassion in love, love will no longer be fragile, so that people can hold their lover's hand when disaster comes.

5. Looking up, we feel humble, while comparing, we feel the gap. We often cling to the utilitarian close at hand, to the gorgeous life, to the fruitless love, and it is easy to fall into a state of being at a loss. In fact, if you put down a little, you will get more; Those who will let go are the ones who really know how to live.

6. What is the tragedy behind child trafficking? What a price to pay for this child being trafficked! He destroyed not only a child and a family, but more families and even the whole society!

Seven, if you are right, don't argue too much, push the other side to the wall, and you will break your own retreat; If you are excellent, don't show off, others will stay away from you in your affectation; If you are in pain, don't talk to everyone. Everyone has their own troubles. Don't turn the interpretation of being a friend into a stranger. If you are lonely, then slowly precipitate yourself in loneliness, and life is rooted in the lonely soil.

Eight, the biggest sorrow in life is not poverty, but the loss of sense of value and direction. No matter how you look for it, you can't find a reason to be proud of even the slightest thing. If a person completely loses the capital of pride, he will really get down. People are always afraid of being hurt, but they often hurt themselves. If you are willing to live in memories all the time, it is doomed that your soul cannot dominate your body.

Nine, enjoy meditation, enjoy meditation-meditation can make the dust of stress precipitate and wash, let the depressed emotions be released incisively and vividly, and let the hurried pace be relieved. Meditation can make a troubled heart crystal clear after washing, and can feel endless love and tranquility between heaven and earth. -Calm down and enjoy peace!

Ten, in this silent night, I miss you again, tears of missing spread in the corner of my eyes, and the wound in my heart made me breathless with pain. I wish all this was just a joke from God, but this joke made me feel very painful. The night is quiet, my heart is cold and painful. I don't know how to face my life and how to walk this long and bumpy road.

You can live in the town when you should have a backbone, and you can hide beside it when you shouldn't. Will love, will care about people, will care about people, but will not pester people; Have thoughts, ideals, rationality, humor, and dare to laugh at themselves; I will be willing to lay down my body for the person I love, but other than that, I can move freely without looking at anyone's face; Have the enthusiasm and motivation to learn, make progress every day, but no longer expect praise from others.

12. Memory is when you feel that everything has passed for so long, but once you close your eyes, everything comes back. Life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless. Looking back suddenly, it is a feeling to find that people are alive. -rich or poor, regardless of gains or losses. Everything is in the past. Think about it, no matter yesterday, today and tomorrow, it's a wonderful day to be suddenly enlightened. Regardless of family, friendship and love, it is a good mood to cherish forever.

No matter how vague dreams are, they always lurk in our hearts, so that our mood will never be peaceful until these dreams come true.

It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us sixty years to learn to shut up. Many times, the more you talk, the more alienated you are, and the more contradictions you have. In communication, most people are always eager to express themselves, but they don't know each other at all. Learn to speak for two years, but shut up for life. Do you understand? Don't say much. Uneasy and calm, speak slowly. If you really have nothing to say, don't say it.

Fifteen, there is no need to decorate a young mind with heaviness. The vicissitudes of the surface and the seriousness of the appearance can't make you a philosopher; Without all your friends, all you have is a lonely back. Since I can't be profound now, I'll make myself relaxed. People with sad faces can't hear the sound of flowers clearly; People who pretend to be themselves can't understand the excitement of frogs. You don't need to judge yourself at once, but integrate into the vast sea of people, live too vulgar, and don't light the lamp of life. My shouts may be weak, my steps may be blind, but my blood is roaring and rushing from beginning to end. There is nothing terrible about fate, and stormy waves are not common sails!

Sixteen, love, I don't know what it is, but I am passionate about it; Love, I don't know where to go, but it will never die. If you don't love, please let go and let others have a chance to love; If you love, please love deeply and never give up! Love is not a game, because we can't afford it.

The night in early winter seems a little long. I'm not tired after a busy day. My only hobby is drinking tea. As long as I am free, I like to make a cup of green tea in a glass. Then sit next to the coffee table, watch the ups and downs of the tea in the cup, relax yourself, and watch the tea toss up and down in the cup. The tea color changes from shallow to deep, and a faint fragrance floats out, which is deeply refreshing. Take a sip, savor the ups and downs of tea, experience the ups and downs, share the joys and sorrows, and taste the ups and downs of the world.

Eighteen, learn to give up! Give up the pain of lovelorn; Give up the hatred left by humiliation; Give up all the unspeakable load in your heart; Give up the exhausted quarrel; Give up the struggle for power; Give up fighting for fame. Give up everything that is secondary, trivial, redundant and should be given up.

19. the workers complained to their friends: we did the work, but it was the team leader who was praised, and the final score became the manager's, which was unfair. A friend smiled and said, look at your watch. Do you look at the hour hand first and then the minute hand? But you don't even look at the second hand that runs the most. The law of life, if you feel unfair, you should try to do the former, and it is useless to complain.

Twenty, friends don't have to be inseparable, but they must cherish each other; It is not necessarily icing on the cake, but it must be a timely help; You don't have to meet every day, but you must keep it in mind. The most precious thing about friendship is not the years we spent together, but the most precious thing about friendship is that we will always remember each other after parting. In fact, friends are like this. You don't need to think of them, because you will never forget them.

Twenty-one, we grow up in pain, and only when we change will we understand life better. Many people always regard their friends as glass and are afraid of breaking them carefully. Sometimes I am obviously dissatisfied with my friends, but I dare not express it. I am afraid of conflict and hurting my feelings. True friends are not made of glass. If friends are really like glass, you are not allowed to touch them. If such a friend is broken, it will be broken.

Twenty-two, giving up can be said to be a painful thing, because there are too many desires for life and long-term dreams for the future, and many things cannot be given up. But life is sometimes a trough, an abyss, with too much load, which may accelerate the fall, bring mental troubles and learn to give up. Not abandon, just put it down temporarily, let the tired body and mind relax a little.

The so-called life depends on who you meet.

1, sometimes, laughter is just an expression and has nothing to do with happiness.

2. The truth of life is hidden in the plain.

Ten thousand bright futures are not worth a warm gift.

4, believe it or not, just between your thoughts, people who understand me, why explain.

Some memories are doomed to be indelible, just as some people are doomed to be irreplaceable.

6. People suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

7. I am not afraid of being tired. I'm afraid I won't get what I want when I'm tired.

8. Every heartless person has a heartbreaking experience.

9. I'm really comfortable that people who don't like me can add trouble to your heart.

10, for one you, how many people and I faded, and as a result, you left and they were gone.

1 1. How can a woman who breaks her word win the trust of the world?

Sometimes, I want to disappear and see if anyone will miss me.

Since you don't love me, why do you give me so many fantasies to make me fall in love with you?

14, remember: men really love when they cry, and women really hurt when they cry.

15, because everything happens for a reason, so now that it has become a fact, what are we talking about?

16, the process of growth is actually the process in which people's hearts begin to deteriorate and rot.

17, time does not necessarily give birth to love, but it must depend on people's hearts.

18, it is very important to think with your head and ponder with your heart, but it is valuable only if it is proved by actions.

I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.

20. Interpret all love and get a sincere feeling.

2 1, one step forward is not necessarily happiness, and the next step is not necessarily loneliness.

22. Some things don't need to be forced, and some people don't need to stay.

The most precious thing in life is not what you have, but who you are with.

24. The most eternal happiness in life is ordinary, and the longest possession is cherish.

25. The so-called life depends on who you meet.

26. We are born with death, but some people don't realize it.

I would rather regret it than miss it.

28. I don't want anyone but you. I just don't want anyone but you.

29. If you dare to love me for a lifetime, I will dare to accompany you for a lifetime.

30. You like to ignore me now. Remember, you can't afford me in the future.