Life experience at the age of twenty.

Feeling of life at the age of 20 1 if you don't write, you will be unfamiliar for a long time; If you don't write, you will slip away when you are busy. What was pleasant at first is now covered up by life. Now, lost her color, faded her fragrance, but more precipitation.

My dream seems to be sleeping, and those lofty goals, in an airtight place, have chosen silence. The ups and downs of life, in the middle of the night, only occasionally find a moment of peace, life has always been like this, even very simple things will haunt me, but I have no choice, just because my direction suddenly lost. If I can, I want to find my childhood wisdom and carefree things. Too long, yes, too long to remember all the past. I just accidentally opened the photo album. I was so immature and stupid. Now, I'm twenty, so I'm still afraid after all. Maybe in the future, I will go far away and be busy with my life. Are you firm in your direction?

I have a wish that I can succeed as quickly as my parents. My parents grew up with me before, and then I grew old with them.

Before I was 20 years old, I fulfilled some wishes, took a trip, fell in love in the most precious time of my life, and left what I looked like before I was 20 years old ... Don't say I regret it, but if I can't go back to the beginning, I will be firm now.

It's rare to have such a comfortable mood. A piece of red paper, dull for so long, so long, I haven't read myself well. Thanks to Mother Mozi's words, I found a different self. That beautiful poem, that beautiful tune, struck a chord.

It's already twenty, although it's twenty, but we must not lose our original heart: set principles, don't regret it, and don't look back. Don't be afraid, don't regret, strengthen yourself now and work hard.

Dad once said to me: If you want to be as smart as a snake and as beautiful as a white swan, don't get lost in the flowers. You know, there are few scenery on the easy road, and there are many hardships on the sparsely populated road. Don't blindly follow, avoid the stronger wind, and stick to this moment to see the scenery of the next moment. My mother once said to me: No matter what kind of environment your family is in, you should learn to be a self-reliant woman, and then you will become a confident woman. I know it is hard to repay my parents' kindness. Only by studying hard now and working hard in the future will it be enough to give parents less unnecessary trouble!

Twenty years old doesn't mean you are old. Twenty years old is the peak season of youth, and it is the age to display yourself and show your elegance. No matter what state you are in, don't give up and forget to study. If a girl has no book knowledge to enrich herself, she looks like a vase under the gorgeous appearance, which is of little value to others. People should learn to seize opportunities. I earned the opportunity myself. If you don't grasp it well, you will naturally give it to others. Deal with people, do more and talk less, don't complain, always smile. If life gives you hardships, please believe that it is another preference for you.

Don't give up the struggle, no one will help you all your life, and the best guarantee is to rely on your own efforts. If a person does not start a business for his dreams, he can only work for others' dreams in the future. Dreams are not only words, but also actions. The journey to realize your dreams is difficult. If you don't pay attention, you will lose your way, but please don't lose confidence in yourself. I believe you can do it! Come on!

There are always friends on the road of life, make more friends, learn to deal with the relationship between good people, learn to "look at people's strengths, help people's difficulties, remember people's benefits", always be grateful, always remember the good of others, and treat people sincerely.

A piece of red paper is plain, so long, so long, I haven't read myself well. It's time for me to wake up. I'm awake.

A 20-year-old's perception of life Part II There is a photo of you at hand. You are a sophomore and 20 years old. A camel sweater, a pair of jeans, a pair of canvas shoes, no hairstyle, and I don't know why I smiled. I still remember that morning when you had a headache about what kind of clothes to wear. Finally, because I didn't have time, I just wore one. In my opinion ten years later, it is still quite refreshing.

Now it seems that some of the collocation you deliberately made at that time often ended in failure, but the clothes you casually put on looked like you. Of course, you wouldn't understand at that time. If I hadn't failed again and again at that time, I might still be on the same road today.

I remember when you were 20 years old, you were very anxious, and all the brothers in the dormitory were chatting. When you are going to play computer games all night, you seem to be jubilant. You have been asking yourself a question: I have finally been admitted to college. Four years later, how should I get out of college? At the foot of Yuelu Mountain, on the beach of Orange Island lovers, you are also mixed in the crowd. Looking at every similar face, your biggest worry is: do they already know where to go in the future? Why are you the only one who is so stupid?

Stupid enough to have no money to buy a computer, I can only keep a diary over and over again with manuscript paper. Because I don't know what to write, even if I make a mistake, I have to start all over again. The handwriting has not improved at all, but the manuscript paper has spent a lot. Looking at stacks of papers and articles that have never been published, there is no doubt in my heart. I just told myself: Wow, I wrote six more pages last night!

"If one day, you really become a great writer, these papers are really valuable." This is almost the happiest time of your life.

At that time, many magazines respected the authors, so you often received rejection letters. There are many similar but different words written on it. Thank you for your support and participation, but your topic selection and writing style are not suitable for their magazine. Thank you for your continuous support. You keep these rejection letters one by one, largely because the names of various magazines are printed on them. When you open them occasionally, you always imagine that this is a publication notice. Occasionally, you take out these letters in front of others, making them think that you have a good relationship with many editors-well, you lived a fearless and cautious life at that time, and any small change would make you proud. For example, "the editor actually replied to me himself, and I got the contact information and name of the other party."

Writing here, I really want to say to you: although you look silly to outsiders, I thank you for your shameless coping style, which has never made me afraid until today.

Finally, the first article was published, which was paid by 30 yuan. Of course, you didn't get paid. Instead, you fold up the payment slip and put it in your wallet for people to look at at at any time, and then pretend to say casually, "Well, it's too late to take it out." You didn't take good care of it until the payment slip expired, and never thought about cashing it.

Behind 30 yuan's payment, you probably spent more than 200 yuan on a dinner party to celebrate. Some people invest in things to make a living, and you invest to prove that you can.

Growing up in a hospital, you applied for the Chinese Department of Normal University behind your father's back, so that you and your father didn't talk for nearly two years and almost broke up. Until your first article about your father, Subtle, was published in a provincial magazine and was seen by your father. He took the initiative to go to school in his car for the first time and invited you to dinner. On your way to see him, you took 170 pages of novel manuscript paper. The novel is called Killing. I have forgotten what this story is about now, because it was not published, and even when you wrote it, you didn't want to publish it. I remember the first sentence you said to your father: Dad, look, I can write so much now.

What your father has been worried about is that you can't find a job after graduation, don't have any capital to show off, and don't even know who you are. At that time, you didn't say to your father with the published article: Dad, you see that my article can be published, and my level is high enough.

You didn't even mention the published article. You take the manuscript paper and say, look, how much can I write? I've been writing for more than two months, and I write every day. I'm not tired at all, nor is it the homework assigned by the teacher. When you speak, your eyes turn red. You know you've been worried about them. When you are incapable, you can only prove that you are not afraid of suffering. They finally believe for the first time that you are really not so afraid of suffering.

You learned to say "I'm fine".

"I'm fine" doesn't mean that you finally have money, friends and someone to take care of you. It's that you can finally get used to the days when you have no money, friends and worries. "I'm fine" means telling them that you are more and more accepting of reality, not more and more realistic. I'm not as fragile as you think. I can live well without you.

You heard that winning the prize in the competition can add quality, so you have participated in various competitions since your freshman year. Few people take part in many competitions, so as long as you take part seriously, the organizer will generally give you the third prize, and the third prize of a college-level competition can add two quality points. So you took part in composition competition, singing competition, debate competition, speech competition, drama competition, sports meeting and even calligraphy seal cutting competition.

You spent 10 yuan looking for someone to carve your name at a roadside stall, and then printed it on paper and gave it to the organizing committee, and won the third prize-this story has been a story you have been showing off for a long time. You are not ashamed of your speculation at all. Now I think, "How did that happen then?" But by the age of 20, all you can think about is "how to be different from others." "Being different" is a very big proposition, so you will save a day's food expenses to carve a chapter, and you will also take a carefully written composition to participate in the competition. The senior brother of the organizing Committee told you that your article is very good and should be the first, but another senior brother is looking for a job, so this first place should be given to him, and you still have many opportunities. Before he finished, you nodded quickly, thinking: the prize has been earned, and it was affirmed by the seniors in person. ...

At that time, some people said that you were an extremely generous person, but in fact, you know that you are an extremely caring person.

The only difference is that many people who care often care when things happen, and you think of the worst before things happen. So when the result is not as bad as you think, you can accept it gladly.

So some people say that you are heartless and that you are 250. You even felt really stupid for a long time. Now I tell you: in fact, you are not stupid at all, but you have never taken yourself so seriously.

"You lost something, but gained more." -You rented a car to move when you officially entered Hunan TV Station after your senior year. You arrived in Changsha with only one suitcase. In four years, it became a car full of things. In four years, you will always gain more than you lose.

You have met some people you love and left you because you have no money. Later, you learned to quickly identify the personality of the development object. You once walked alone for two hours and cried because the leader didn't trust you. Later, you learned how to make leaders trust you and support your work. You used to crowd you out because of your colleagues, and you focused on your work alone. Later you also understood the importance of communication in the workplace. You were bullied by your old colleagues, which taught you how to respect new people as much as possible. You worked overtime until the early hours of the morning, which taught you how to adjust the workflow of the team. Of course, you haven't always lived in a cold palace. During this period, you also made many mistakes, lost some friends who should have continued and lost some friends who should have had a better relationship. But isn't that what growing up is all about? Either learn or get it. All the problems you encountered when growing up were tailored for you. Solve it, and you will become a survivor among people like you. You will never know who you may be until you solve it.

During the ten years from the age of 20 to the age of 30, we all went the same way. You are right to feel lonely. This is an opportunity for you to know yourself. You are right not to be understood. That's your chance to meet friends. You think darkness is right, so that you can tell what your light is. You are right to feel helpless, so that you can understand who can help you when you grow up. You are right to feel confused. Whose youth is not confused.

These hundreds of thousands of words have been recorded by me bit by bit over the years. Every year is different, but every year is similar. These photos are taken every time I go out. Because every landscape has passed through our growth, only in this way can you remember them you have passed through. It is not easy for you at the age of 20 and us at the age of 30 to grow up and be young. Now we meet on paper, which is a pleasant meeting.

Some people will hate us because of our shortcomings, but some people will like us because of our truth. We don't have to let people who don't like us like ourselves, but insist that people who should like us find themselves as soon as possible.

Why don't we make an oath and see where we are in ten years? Whose songs are you listening to, whose words are you reading and who are the people around you?

I hope you can put your youth into it, and I hope that the growth record of this decade will accompany us to the next decade.

Happiness is that when you open your sleeping eyes in the morning, you will find that the sun shines on your cheerful face, and you will not be awakened by the noise around you, nor will you rush to wash your face because of unfinished business. You just enjoy lying in your warm nest, waiting for your busy mother downstairs to call you down for dinner, and you always say: sleep for a while. Happiness is that you have to step into the first post station in your life-university. In the crowded station, parents are still carrying bags to see you off, crowded, shoulder to shoulder, and the family is holding hands tightly, just to keep others. The ruthless bus finally set off, never looking back, never looking back, leaving each other with happy tears.

Happiness is to soak in the library, smell the books and wander in the sea of books. You can put your troubles aside and give your mind a vacation. The breeze is moist and the tea rhyme is melodious.

Happiness means having a few intimate friends, mutual love, respect, understanding and freedom. The distance may be far away, but our hearts are close and we can feel each other's heartbeats. It has nothing to do with romance, and time is like water.

Happiness is meeting a relationship. Maybe some fate will never bear fruit, but if one day I am no longer naive, arrogant and affectionate, then let's get married! Maybe I can't give you a luxurious life, but I will love you, and I don't want to be vigorous. As long as we are together, it is also happiness.

Happiness is to be able to play ball games and eat together with classmates. Together with books and dreams, we walked on the fragrant path of the campus.

Happiness is to get back what you have lost, to have enough to eat for three meals a day, and to pass all the exams.

Happiness means that you can get something by giving, and you can always see that smile on your face.

Happiness is sometimes really simple.

20-year-old happiness needs to be slowly realized by heart.

At the age of 20, life has just begun. A wise life is a perfect life and a meaningful life. Wisdom can help us learn to be human and do things. Yu Dan said that we can't extend the length of life, but we can broaden the width of life.

The wisdom of life lies in grasping the measure and degree, which is art and wisdom. Only by grasping the scale and degree can we reach the highest level of being a man and doing things properly. This is the most important issue in life.

1, successful

The hardest thing in life is not to do less, but to what extent. Everything can't be separated from the word discretion. In this world, the doctrine of the mean is everywhere, and moderation should be grasped in interpersonal relationships and career achievements. Many successful people can do well in life, often not because they are smart and diligent, but because they know how to grasp moderation and moderation. Properly grasping the sense of proportion and degree is the highest realm of life. When doing things, the result is the purpose, and the process is precipitation. Naturally, we should grasp the degree, not only in the result, but also in the process.

You have a high vision, read more books and travel more. How high the vision is, how wide the thinking is and how high the thinking is. Career is high, as the saying goes, how high your vision is, your ideal goal is high, so that you can think about greater achievements and achieve more achievements; Work hard, work hard, be diligent in eyes, hands, legs, ears and mouth, think more, ask more questions, run more, listen more and observe more; Do things with speed, pay attention to efficiency, increase the concept of time and improve efficiency.

2. Emotion

First of all, you should be generous, generous and tolerant. The sky is as big as your heart, and the road is as wide as your heart. Make more friends, especially those who are stronger than yourself. Treat friends with different styles, pay attention to different communication skills and degrees, keep a proper distance from friends, but keep in touch frequently. Don't force every friend to be perfect. As long as this friend has something to recommend, praise it and learn from it. Tell friends around you, share the advantages of this friend, learn from others' strengths and advantages, and be tolerant.

I have friends around me who always like to find fault with friends. In the end, I often have no friends. Learn to listen, learn to praise, learn to find the advantages and highlights of friends, and enlarge. Speak moderately, such as praising young people, being grateful to friends, being humble to leaders and encouraging subordinates.

Step 3 be healthy

Exercise moderately, don't overdo it one day, and don't exercise for a moment one day. Keep exercising for half an hour every day and exercise moderately.

Eat seven points full, don't be stubborn and don't be hungry.

Don't overwork yourself. It is unhealthy to work overtime or stay up late. If you are in a sub-health state for a long time, it is not good for your health.

Everyone's life is not long. Learning to grasp the sense of proportion and degree is the wisdom and art of life. From the age of 20, it may take a lifetime to study. Grasp the degree, existence and life, work or feelings, let's learn the wisdom and philosophy of life together.

The life of a twenty-year-old reaches five o'clock. Now September 22nd of the lunar calendar is my birthday. In the dead of night, I looked at the stars outside the window alone, accompanied by a beam of lights. At this time, I felt the cold wind outside, and I wanted to write something for my birthday in the cold wind.

20 years old means a lot to a person. From the age limit, it means that the best youth in life has passed, but life has just begun. I cherish what I have lost and gained, and even want to go back and start over. Re-cherish every moment of laughter, every tear, every inch of time and every friendship.

I am 20 years old, and I have grown up. I should have my own ideals and goals. Being born in Japan should be celebrated, but there is no excuse to celebrate. Celebrate your growing up slowly or celebrate your real maturity? There is no standard answer.

Before I was 20 years old, I used to dream of my future glory with my eyes closed, and I also frowned and imagined the future ups and downs again and again. In today's view, it's just wishful thinking and romance. Life can't be made clear in one or two sentences, even beyond our subjective control. At the age of 20, no one can guess the expression. What is hidden in the smile is the story of growing up, but what is buried in the tears is the lost nursery rhyme.

At the age of 20, I really wanted to stop and tie the annual rings to have a rest, but the annual rings were launched, leaving me with a big exclamation mark.

At the age of 20, I dare not assert that my future road will be magnanimous, but I am sure that my heart will be magnanimous, and I will always tell myself that I can do it.

People can't escape from many things. The only thing they can do is to face it correctly and take responsibility for it, because we are not sensible children at that time.

Looking at the birthday wishes sent by friends in QQ on the mobile phone, I was very moved. On this special day of 20 years old, I just want to thank my relatives and all those who love and care about me.

20 years old is a declaration. A new beginning.

At the same time, I want to tell my parents that my daughter is independent and strong, and she can take care of herself. Please rest assured.

On this birthday, I would like to thank my parents for their kindness to me. My daughter will wish her parents health and happiness forever and spend every day of her life! Mom and Dad, I love you.

On the big stage of life, there are children laughing, teenagers frivolous, young people struggling hard, middle-aged people getting married and having family happiness in their later years ... Everything has to be experienced and passed before it becomes a memory.

Life is like a trip. There will be many large and small sites, but we can't let so many sites become the fetters of stagnation. We must move forward forever. Maybe the beautiful scenery on the way will be good, which will make us miss, unforgettable and unforgettable ... hehe, but this is not the terminal. Maybe the next site will be better than now? Perhaps like poisonous roses, they are so enchanting and beautiful, but when they get closer, they find themselves poisoned and unable to extricate themselves ... We must understand that some people are just passers-by in their own lives after all, and we cannot force them to come and stay. Some things can only be considered fleeting, and keeping them in mind will make you sad forever; It's good to forget some places, so don't remember them too clearly, because some places are more worth remembering ... Only by understanding life and knowing every site with your heart will each site stay in our hearts deeply. If you just cry, make noise, degenerate and be negative, then you will be greeted by a bottomless pit, and then you really can't extricate yourself! Use that heart to keep everything that moves you. At that time, you will find that the sun is not dazzling and life is not short.

Life-know that "giving up is also beautiful". Perhaps, on the big stage of life, we will receive many notices, many opportunities and many occupations ... but among so many "many", which one is really suitable for us? Making a good choice is a big problem in life. Maybe you will be injured by various organs and trapped by various traps on the way ... At that time, my friend, please keep a calm and pure heart. Don't struggle blindly, maybe you will struggle deeper and deeper like in a swamp ... You should learn to understand life, observe things with your eyes and look for flaws with your heart. This is the only way to save you. Learn to give up, give up what is not suitable for you, give up what is bad for you, and give up what you think is not suitable for you. Maybe that will not only win the next better opportunity for you, but also create a good opportunity for others.

Life is like a marathon. Only by knowing how to feel about life can we persist in running to the finish line and become the focus of attention!