Why some people don’t like warm men

I feel that being loved by someone who is not loved by my partner should be a very happy experience. It is not easy to live a life of being warm-hearted to the point of being pampered. I long to meet someone who is warm-hearted.

How nice it would be to have a warm-hearted lover at home who thinks of you in everything, speaks appropriately and never makes you angry;

At work, there is a warm-hearted lover A group of people who don’t care about everything, don’t laugh or talk, and never quarrel with you, how nice it is;

Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted strangers who help with everything and everyone is kind. How nice that I never blush with you. If he had such an opportunity, he would probably be the happiest person in the world. I would like to be such a person, and I guess no one would want to. However, if you look back at yourself, at home, are you someone who thinks about your lover in everything? I always want my lover to treat me well, but have I treated my lover well? The ancients said that we should treat each other as guests. Do you treat your lover as a guest? Maybe, it was okay when we were just married, but as time went by, my lover's face became wrinkled, he lost his beauty, and his speech became vulgar, and he became tired of it. There were frequent quarrels, and everyone disliked each other. So when you ask others to treat you well, you must first treat them well. Those who love go out love back, and when the love is true, the love is deep. On the contrary, those who complain come with complaints and leave when they are upset...

In the workplace, you long to meet a group of warm-hearted people, everyone is harmonious, considerate, don't care about anything, and treat others well. , I smile at you every day and never quarrel or quarrel with you. But have you done this? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day? Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Do you never take your anger out on others? If this is the case, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person; but the fact is that you always wear emotions on your face, sometimes sunny and sometimes cloudy, sometimes this is bad, and sometimes that. Being unkind and talking right and wrong in front of your colleagues is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that something is wrong with you. Your colleagues are alienated from you, and your boss does not trust you. Can such a day be called a good life! You must know that those who benefit others benefit oneself, and those who benefit others benefit themselves.

So how should two people get along better in married life?

First, in a long marriage life, there will still be bumps and tumbles, and some couples will even continue to argue and play. But life won’t always be sunny! Sometimes there is a breeze and drizzle, but don't call it a marital tragedy. Therefore, there is no need to have too high requirements for the happiness value of marriage. Daily life is always ordinary, and ordinary life is also a kind of happiness! I feel that my marriage is unhappy because both of us have not experienced the trials of daily life together. Life will not be smooth sailing. When two people start a family, it means they are about to take on more responsibilities.

Second, life may give us a lot of tests, which can even be painful. You see couples working hard together, some couples are bankrupt, some elderly people are bedridden, some children are seriously ill, and some couples have been deceived, and their lives are extremely difficult.

Have you survived this kind of training together? Have they achieved unity? You can go through adversity and love, and after going through hardships, you will cherish each other more, and your marriage will be more stable. How can you say you are unhappy? We always like to plan a happy marriage, and use this beautiful method to do it. When we insist on pursuing perfection in a way that we think is attractive, we often lose the essence of beauty. And once a certain method is applied to happiness, the objective perspective for distinguishing happiness is actually lost, and the original happy and simple meaning is lost.

Third, a happy marriage does not need a beautiful halo or anything to decorate it; if it is happy, it is the charm that is lived in the ordinary, and the wonderful life that is lived in the tedious. Diverse. Marriage is not about love. It is impossible to spend time and kiss each other all the time. It is impossible to be so radiant, sweet and charming all the time. Sometimes it is even bitter, difficult and helpless. It is precisely because of this that all the way It becomes so precious only after walking. There is a sweetness in the bitterness, and there is a reluctance in the helplessness.