What are the "three noes" that endanger the relationship between husband and wife?

In life, some families are unhappy, and the husband and wife are not loving and harmonious. There are many reasons for this phenomenon, but the most common things that hurt couples' feelings in life are the following. Three no? Performance.

First, there is no tolerance.

There is a strange phenomenon that both men and women can show great tolerance and acceptance to their lovers in the process of love. This is an indisputable fact. If not, two people will never tolerate each other, so there is no doubt that it is difficult for them to get together and get married. Everyone can think of this. However, once married, some men and women change their original intentions, and the situation changes greatly, which is just the opposite of their performance when they are in love. Either the husband complains about his wife, or the wife complains about her husband, or even quarrels about a trivial matter, and never forgets something. Kitten ailment? Can't accept and tolerate, care about everything, and have no understanding and tolerance. In this atmosphere and state, can the relationship between the two be harmonious?

There was a couple who got along well when they were in love, but they changed completely after they got married. When a husband comes home from work, his wife not only blames him for the big things at home, but also criticizes him for some trivial things. They either accused him of throwing clothes and shoes everywhere, or complained that he didn't sit or sit, or asked him to eat badly, sometimes even sneezing and farting, and so on, resulting in a small quarrel for three days. After five days of quarrelling, my husband felt very depressed. He often complains to his friends that others say that home is a warm habitat and he feels like a detention center, so the relationship between husband and wife has always been awkward.

Second, nothing? Feet?

So-called? Feet? Who, that is, satisfaction and satisfaction. There is a folk saying? Contented people are always happy? It shows that people will be happy only if they are satisfied with what they get, which means that men and women perform well in love. Because some aspects of a couple are in line with their own wishes, they will agree with each other when they are satisfied, and they will easily be satisfied with their couples. Imagine that if they are extremely dissatisfied when they are in love, they will not accept each other, and the corresponding probability of being together is not high. The reason why they finally got married was mutual acceptance and satisfaction.

However, after marriage, some men and women are uncharacteristically dissatisfied. They always like to compare the advantages of others with the disadvantages of their loved ones. They began to dislike each other, complaining and even disliked each other. They either accuse their husbands of lack of money, power and ability, or complain that their wives are not gentle and virtuous, ignorant of books and so on. In this way, they are more and more disgusted and dissatisfied, so their feelings are more and more different. You didn't choose these partners yourself. It's strange and puzzling. Why are you dissatisfied after marriage?

There was a couple who were free to fall in love. They were very satisfied with each other when they were in love, but the situation changed after marriage. After marriage, the husband was very kind to his wife and took care of her, but her wife began to be dissatisfied and liked to compare her husband with others. All day long, she gave her husband more money than the Zhang family or the Li family. Or the owner lives in a few square meters, what car does Xixi buy; Wang's daughter-in-law bought a diamond, and Zhao's wife added a brand-name dress. Then she always blames and complains about her husband's futility. This one won't work, and neither will that one. For this reason, the two often quarrel, and the husband often answers the most. Who is better? Why don't you find someone? 、? So he can go with him? What do you think your wife felt and experienced after choking? Can the relationship between husband and wife be good under such circumstances?

Third, unintentionally.

There was once a couple who were in love. The husband took the initiative to help his wife and made a lot of money. Performance? , offer? Careful? What can I do, afraid that I will not take care of each other and fall behind? Micro words? Take care of each other. However, after they got married, they had a good life at first. The husband and wife took care of each other and loved each other, but the situation gradually changed. Every time my husband comes home from work, one thing is holding a mobile phone, brushing information and playing mobile games. After his wife finished washing clothes, he asked her to dry them. He only promised not to move. After his wife hung out the clothes, he was still busy with customs clearance. After dinner, his wife went to the kitchen to wash the pots and bowls and asked him to clean the dining table and floor. As a result, when his wife packed everything neatly, he was still playing with his mobile phone happily. Sometimes when his wife sweeps the floor, he will hold his feet high with his mobile phone and wait for his wife to sweep the floor. In many ways, he completely ignored his wife's feelings, and so on. For this reason, the couple often quarrel and bicker, and the wife complains about how he found such a one in the first place. Unintentional? Things, there are not a few such unintentional willows between husband and wife.