People, don't be too kind to nephews or nieces, nephews or nieces, they don't know how to be grateful. what do you think?

If you are poor, you will be immune, and if you are rich, you will help the world. Do what you can, you don't have to pay anything, you don't have to be stingy, whether you are a relative or a friend.

It is instinct to be kind to your loved ones. Don't measure them by gratitude. Besides, you can't kill them with a stick. It is a bit extreme to think that they don't know how to be grateful. There is nothing wrong with being kind to your loved ones [China praises]

Don't always be grateful. This is a moral kidnapping, and it is an immature performance. If you can help others, including your own relatives, you must help others in return? Is it too naive? Helping others can also make you happy and get respect from others, which is also a self-need to meet spiritual needs. People thank you because they know how to be grateful; People don't thank you, don't take it to heart, don't care and don't want to return. Such help is insincere and meaningless! Isn't it?

I feel the deepest! It can be said that it is a sincere advice and lesson! Tell the truth first! Now! Your children may not be able to support themselves, let alone nieces and nephews. Don't be naive! As a junior, everyone has the idea of gnawing at the old, including you, an elder! I always want to get something from you! The better your conditions are, the more they think you should help him! They may be bad to their parents. Can they be nice to you? ?

Secondly, the problem of nephews and nieces is a matter for parents! None of your business! This is not your responsibility.

Besides, brothers and sisters, you can help if you are in trouble. After all, you are compatriots! But, speaking of their children! Mainly buying a house, buying a car loan and other things involving money will be rejected! Otherwise, the final revenge will be even greater!

Example: My classmate, the manager of a state-owned coal mine! A daughter and nephew all refuse money, work can be arranged, peace and harmony! The classmate said: I open my mouth, I don't fight, I don't fight, it's unbalanced! Contradictions appear!

Me: middle-level state-owned coal mine, five nephews and one niece! All helped! Especially the younger son of the eldest brother, buying a house and a car, giving money, working arrangements and so on. , now! In order to share the inheritance of parents, the old house is insatiable! Push your luck! Turn your back on yourself, other nephews, because the interests are uneven! Those who get less benefits also have opinions! As a person! I am responsible for everything of my parents, especially leaving my post early to serve my old mother for more than five years! Clear conscience! What my nieces and nephews did disappointed me! All right, look at them clearly and accept your mistakes! Better late than never! My parents' inheritance is divided according to their requirements, and then my part is donated to the local primary school!

Now! Two nephews for help! Resolutely ignore it! Parents go! Brothers and sisters are relatives. You can leave if you can, but you can't say yes! The rest of my life! One is on your own! The second is to rely on the wife! The third is to rely on your own children! Four is! Keep the money! Nursing home! Can't wake up! That's my own luck! It's up to you!

Thanksgiving parents! Thank the people I have helped in my life! Don't be evil! Thank you for the pension given by the party and the state! Don't add chaos to society!

Nephews, nieces, nephews and nieces are relatives of "broken bones and tendons". It is inevitable to be kind to them and give them whatever help they can. As long as they live well, I don't want to be grateful. This is my feeling and experience.

Most of them are menstruating uncles and aunts. They just love their younger generation and ask for nothing in return. They don't have to pay anything, don't be stingy, and don't expect them to repay themselves. Of course, as a junior, knowing how to be grateful is also a good thing. A drop of water is rewarded with a spring.

The furthest distance in the world is just across a belly. Have you ever heard of it?

There is a very famous story that is a historical fact. Wu Zetian must choose her nephew as the prince. Most ministers disagreed, and those who opposed it even lost their minds. Rebellion and uprising also took place in Xu Jingye, which caused great turmoil in the country. Wu Zetian stood firm and never wavered, but her heart was not particularly practical. She consulted Di Renjie, and Di Renjie persuaded Wu Zetian in two sentences. Nephew can't inherit her aunt's throne. Because he will sacrifice to his ancestors in the future. When he becomes emperor, his aunt will get cold. In the words of ordinary people, my nephew can't go to his aunt's grave, but to his own parents' grave. How smart is Wu Zetian? Immediately restored his son's status as a prince.

Many years ago, in ancient times, it was a great tragedy for a couple to have no children. After being married for a long time, men often want to marry a little wife on the grounds that they want to have dolls to inherit. The couple struggled all their lives, and such a large sum of property was not inherited by their children. Why do they give it to outsiders? Does it hurt in your heart? Under normal circumstances, the woman resolutely disagrees, even if she dies. To this end, the couple quarreled for many years. Suddenly one day, the woman and the man said, I agree to marry a little wife. The man was shocked and repeatedly asked his wife what was going on. Are you still awake? My wife said don't worry, I'm fine, just a little stimulated. What did my husband say about excitement? Who did what to you? Did I hit you or scold you? My wife said with tears in her eyes that my little nephew was playing at home and making trouble. I criticized him, but my little nephew said that all our property would be his in the future. Is it true?/You don't say. The husband said that it is not only true, but also certain. If not our nephew, there are other nephews, how much property can you bring to the coffin? As soon as your eyes are closed, the money is gone, so without children, even if you are still alive at the last moment of your life, you have no right to dispose of your property. What a ridiculous thing! My husband finally married his little wife and later gave birth to several dolls. When his wife was dying, her husband said to her, don't worry. I taught her what my little nephew said. The purpose is to marry a little wife, have a baby and inherit property. In the future, someone will give us a grave and let us live well in heaven. My wife choked with her last strength, and tears came out of her eyes.

There are not as many nephews and nieces as before, but there are some individual phenomena. My cousin has five men and five women. In addition to my family, I also gave birth to nineteen nephews and nieces, and two cousins have five daughters. I didn't participate in their school work, marriage and childbirth, because it was separated by a layer, so it was inconvenient to work and live in other places. However, children of brothers and sisters have to participate in school, work and marriage, but my participation is measured, such as getting married. Who should I find? What kind of object are you looking for? I didn't say a word. I don't need to talk to people who have biological parents. My child is not good at school and wants to find a good job, but I remember coming here. I didn't mix well at that time. My wife is especially opposed to the gossip she heard. Her objection is that she doesn't have many skills, so she shouldn't be able to show her talents. Then she's begging you now. When he stops begging you, she will treat you as an enemy. For example. I think it's the same thing myself, so if anyone comes to me again, I'll hum. Unexpectedly, unexpectedly, my mother's veteran has come out, complaining about finding a job for my grandson with runny nose and tears. Worst of all, if he gets along in his hometown, he may not even get a wife, and you will be dragged down by his poverty. What should I do if he asks you for money on holidays? Although I have no education, this truth is quite high! I found a job for my second nephew in China Petrochemical Company. Of course, their work is the hardest and heaviest physical labor, and their income is relatively high over the years. The most important thing is that they never default on their wages. The most important thing is that they may become long-term fixed contract workers, which has been realized at present. This is the time when laid-off workers were diverted to buy out the unemployment barrier in the late 1990s. Isn't this a great thing? By 20 10, they all bought cars and buildings, and they changed from the poorest in the local countryside to the best in the local countryside. This result is very good.

But without comparison, there is no harm. For those who are not helpful in finding a job, one nephew and two nephews are not divorced from the status of farmers. Their parents are over 60 years old, and they are still working to subsidize them to buy cars, houses, send their children to school and buy all kinds of things, which is a train of eating, drinking and having fun. The life of the self-employed is very difficult, so one day my brother and I quarreled about some housework, and he suddenly broke out a sentence, and now everyone is.

You can help if you have the conditions, and you can help if you have no ability or mind. Helping is mutual affection, and not helping is duty.

Or the ancestors said well, "If you are rich, you will help the world, and if you are poor, you will be immune."

Live every day well, love yourself and your family, and don't cause trouble to others, that's enough!

Who should you be kind to? You should be sincere. In addition, you should not just seek gratitude in return for anything, but peace of mind [comparison] [comparison] [comparison]

Don't say you are ungrateful. Don't expect them to repay you or appreciate your help. Treat the children of brothers and sisters and help them if you can. For example, if you have 10,000 yuan on you, they can borrow 100 or 1000 from you. If they borrow 10,000 yuan from you, they can refuse, because it is beyond your ability.