Do you feel ashamed that your mother-in-law turned waste into treasure and sold waste at the gate of the community, while the old man scavenged and sold waste?

A few days ago, my husband and I divorced because of differences in the "education" of our children. My mother-in-law is frugal and always likes to pick up some empty bottles for sale when she goes out for a walk. But what makes her husband feel humiliated is her mother-in-law's "turning waste into treasure", and the family is not short of money. When we disagree on how to deal with such problems, we often hurt each other's self-esteem and then divorce.

Miss Wang is a 30-year-old independent woman with a 4-year-old child. When we first got married, almost everyone disagreed with her marriage to her husband. The couple are not in the same class in terms of family conditions or looks. Although Miss Wang comes from a big family, Miss Princess is not affected at all. On the contrary, she is a typical "wife and mother", especially for her in-laws.

As a wife, Miss Wang is considerate and never complains. As a daughter-in-law, all the trivial matters of parents point to her alone, and as a mother, she brought up her four-year-old son. She understands the hardships and tiredness of raising children. I just want to say: there is no clear boundary between the responsibilities of marriage. I really love someone and my family. All I can do is try my best and do my best.

The 4-year-old son belongs to the summer vacation, and the family likes to go for a walk in the park every dinner. Just the day before yesterday, my mother-in-law took a big plastic bag and put aside her daughter-in-law's family of three to pick up waste in the trash can in the park. Just at the gate of the community, there is an old man who collects waste products. Her mother-in-law went home and sold all the waste products in the warehouse at the door of the community. This scene was seen by Miss Wang's 4-year-old son.

"Grandma, let me help you. You are too tired alone. " Grandson said to grandma.

Miss Wang smiled with relief. My son knows the truth of filial piety, and he is deeply gratified to be a mother. One's inner feelings should be cultivated from an early age. However, after seeing it, Miss Wang's husband suddenly became unhappy and quickly stopped her 4-year-old son.

"Son, don't go! Your grandmother is full and full, and it's a shame to be dirty there. " The husband said bluntly.

In the relationship between husband and wife, Miss Wang has always respected her husband. After so many years of marriage, married life is as happy and romantic as ever. In fact, mutual understanding between husband and wife is very important. But in this case, the mother-in-law is right, and the son is even more right. What is wrong is our vanity, but this vanity should not hurt the family's affection, so Miss Wang began to refute.

"Husband, what's the matter with you? When a son does this, he knows filial piety. Besides, there is nothing wrong with your mother. If she doesn't steal or rob, what's wrong with picking up some waste? " Miss Wang said.

A sentence from the 4-year-old son instantly escalated the contradiction between Miss Wang and her husband, and the husband and wife held their own words. Especially when the husband heard Miss Wang say, "Your mother is fine. What's wrong with picking up some waste? " After this sentence was finished, I was instantly angry. The husband took the cup in his hand and threw it at his wife, Miss Wang. The lump on my forehead is red and swollen, which hurts my face and my heart.

The husband who refused to admit his mistake came home and threatened: "If you say that about my mother again in the future, we will divorce directly. Even if you look down on me, don't look down on my parents."

Miss Wang is so cold that she is very wronged. In order to manage this marriage well, she suffered a lot regardless of everyone's opposition. I feel that if I really pay, I will definitely get my husband's generosity and understanding. Who would have thought that the husband's inferiority not only did not understand the mother's good intentions, but also left the feelings of husband and wife behind.

Two days later, Miss Wang was disheartened and filed for divorce, which was still under negotiation.

Marriage needs to be understood. Men always build their so-called "dignity" on the opposite side of their feelings. Speaking of this, it is still necessary to emphasize that "home is a place to express feelings, not a place to reason." A man who truly loves his family, wife and children knows how to "bend over" when necessary. However, between husband and wife, the most taboo is to use self-esteem to slander each other. In the end, my dignity was lost and my lover was injured.