My mother-in-law always likes to speak ill of me in front of her husband and asks me for help.

First of all, you should know that if your mother-in-law always likes to speak ill of her in front of your husband, then it must be partly because of her mother-in-law, and of course, it is partly because of you, because it takes two to clap. First of all, we should reflect on this problem from ourselves and see if there are really some things in life that we can't do in place, so that our mother-in-law can see our shortcomings and let us speak ill of ourselves in front of our husbands.

Reflect on yourself and all your mother-in-law want their children to have a perfect family. It is really because you have done something bad to let your mother-in-law catch the problem. If they say that they are a perfect person, they will definitely not speak ill of you. At this time, you must let your husband understand you. You have to tell your husband that you are working all day and taking care of the whole family. You are very tired.

Therefore, in some aspects, you may not do well enough to let your mother-in-law see her own shortcomings. At this time, you must remind your husband to understand you, otherwise your life will be particularly difficult, and when husband and wife live together, they must pay attention to the harmony of life. Don't let your husband take the initiative to communicate with her mother-in-law because of her mother-in-law's words.

Mother-in-law should also pay attention to telling your mother-in-law that everyone has shortcomings, not everyone is perfect, and perfect people do not exist in this society. If you really have any shortcomings, you can point them out and correct them yourself. Don't speak ill of them behind their backs. This will really affect the harmonious life between husband and wife, and will not make your marriage particularly perfect. Only in this way can your family become more perfect.