How to be a good son-in-law

Are you a good son-in-law in the eyes of your parents-in-law Maybe you did it; Maybe you want to do it, but you can't for various reasons. Then, I'll teach you the trick of being a good son-in-law. (1) Be diligent. As the saying goes, "a son-in-law is half a son." At present, a family usually has only one child, especially an only-child family. If someone marries your daughter to you, you must do your "half child" duty. I have to go to my mother-in-law's house to help them with housework at ordinary times and holidays, especially when my father-in-law is too old to do anything, so that they can't live without you. (2) Husband and wife should be harmonious and loving. The mother-in-law loves her son-in-law for her daughter. If the young couple are not harmonious and loving, they will have family conflicts all day and even separate and divorce. It is strange that such a son-in-law and mother-in-law like it! (3) Be a donkey. When parents-in-law are old, their ideas may remain the same, their old minds may be slower to accept new things, and their words and deeds may not keep up with the form. Sometimes you may say something wrong and do something wrong (of course, it is not a matter of principle). At this time, the clever and sensible son-in-law would not expose it on the spot, or talk to the old man at that time and try to correct it. But to guide them at an appropriate time afterwards, or to forget them afterwards. (4) Take advantage of "the beauty of time and space". Psychologists have found that time and space produce beauty. People often say that "it is better to get married than to leave" actually refers to the beauty of time and space between husband and wife. The beauty of time and space between son-in-law and parents-in-law can be understood as keeping an appropriate distance in time and space (except cohabitants). That is to say, if a son-in-law goes to his parents' house, or if his parents go to his son-in-law's house, he can go more when he has something to do, and vice versa. But be careful not to go to extremes. "I can't get rid of it" and "please don't come" are not good. (5) Keep learning and broaden your knowledge. Literature, history, astronomy and geography do not require proficiency, but they need to be extensively studied. A person has a wide range of knowledge, and his speech can be well-founded and clear, which makes people never tire of listening. Especially in the ideological exchange with the elderly (including parents-in-law), it is impossible to find the starting point of the topic and seek a common language acceptable to both sides. (6) learn to have expertise. Or take care of people, or chess painting, or production technology, or leadership art, and so on. If you have a skill and a wide range of interests, you will naturally win the favor of your parents-in-law. (7) Be filial. Care and consideration should be given to the elderly (especially the elderly in-laws) from both spiritual and material aspects. We should often visit the old people in person and chat with them to relax them. It doesn't matter if you are busy at work and have no time. Communication is so developed now that you can call and say hello. At the same time, when its economy encounters difficulties, it should give help within its capacity. Usually you can choose some suitable gifts according to your parents' hobbies. Everyone should pay attention to the importance of choosing a gift type. Generally speaking, food is not as good as clothes, and clothes are not as good as use, and it is best to prolong life (such as sports and fitness products). Choosing the right gift will have an unexpected effect on enhancing the feelings of both parties. The above is my humble opinion for the reference of the new son-in-law who wants to be a good son-in-law.