A relative, uncle loves to educate people, educate children and daughters-in-law, and even educate me if it is not enough.

In fact, the only way to avoid misunderstanding between people is to learn to communicate with each other. Judging from your situation, the problem can actually be solved. It can be said that your uncle doesn't understand you, your situation and your inner feelings. It seems that your uncle only looks at the problem from the surface. This aspect should be your uncle's problem, and he should really pay attention to it himself. As a junior, how to make elders accept their opinions or let them enter the inner world of the younger generation needs to pay attention to methods. In my opinion, to let my uncle know himself and change his previous view of himself, we should take several steps: First, we should reflect on ourselves first, and show less what my uncle doesn't like the most or what is easy to cause him misunderstanding, so as to prevent my uncle from having something to handle. In short, you should behave better at ordinary times; Second, get close to your uncle, not to mention the misunderstanding before. As a junior, show more filial piety and respect in front of your uncle, showing that you are a very sensible child. For example, help my uncle with things, take the initiative to greet him, show concern for him when he is sick, and even ask him what you can do for him; 3. Spit out your troubles. After a while, I found a quiet time to speak my mind and have a heart-to-heart talk with my uncle. At this time, you should pay special attention to your mentality. I guess your uncle is going to lecture people with a straight face again. Don't be angry, hold back, and be supercilious. You can agree to his training after listening to his words, but you should also know that your uncle's character is like that in your heart, and he has made a lot of progress secretly. The purpose of telling the truth is to make your uncle understand you, but he may not understand it right away, but it will not affect your communication with him in the future. I guess he will understand after a long time. Of course, if you really can't untie this knot, you can try to talk to your father. Dad is usually serious, but as he grows older, he must communicate with him more. I'm sure dad will take care of it for you. It should be pointed out that as a junior, you should eat something a lot, don't haggle over every ounce, and your mentality is the most important. Think about it, there are many other happy things in life except that my uncle doesn't understand you very well. Besides, you have made enough respect, so you have no regrets. Look forward more, and your mind will be more open!