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"The Legend of Chu Qiao": The life principles I learned from the TV series

Zhao Liying told a story in "Starry Sky Speech" that attracted me very much. A woman living in a remote mountain town in Yunnan suffered from congenital heart disease and was given death notices many times. At the same time, she helped her parents go to the market and make arrangements. A little girl who is in the sixth grade of primary school, runs a stall, runs a business, provides tuition for her three brothers, and takes care of her sick uncle and aunt.

Someone asked: When life is so difficult, why can we still face it with a smile?

The little girl said: Because I like Hua Qiangu, Xiaogu still retains her longing for love and warm smile in the face of various crises and tribulations.

After careful consideration, this little girl must be a person who knows how to think, knows how to extract the essence from TV series, is good at thinking, and is self-precipitated.

Watching the drama "The Legend of Chu Qiao" in my leisure time, what attracts me to this "Wolf-Slaying Girl" who is heroic from the beginning is not her lingering, pathos and confusing you and me, but her savage vitality and Ability to deal with problems.

1. In the event of an emergency, one should remain calm and responsive.

Chu Qiao lost her memory on the carriage and was awakened from her dream. She weakly looked around at the unfamiliar environment. Before she could fully react, she was taken to the "Human Hunting Ground". When everyone was suddenly attacked by a pack of wolves, When she was cornered and panicked by the menacing arrows coming one after another, Chu Qiao immediately suppressed the fear in her heart, calmly looked at her surroundings, and told everyone to look up the mountain and run through the grass. In a thin line, everyone had a glimmer of hope in life and death. .

The scene that had the deepest impact on me was during the class competition in the afternoon of my first year of junior high school. When it was our class's turn, while we were lining up, the daughter of the class teacher in front of me suddenly discovered that the sleeves of the school uniform were broken. It will be our turn to play in a few minutes. Neatness of clothing is clearly stipulated in the competition. She looked around anxiously, not knowing what to do. The head teacher strode over, why are you so anxious? The more urgent the situation, the more calm you must be and think of a solution.

Since then, this sentence has been deeply engraved in my heart. The more emergency you encounter, the more calm you must be and find a way.

Not long ago, Tencent News reported that a woman suddenly discovered that her bank card had been stolen and the numbers were increasing again and again. The woman immediately went to the nearest business hall and deliberately entered the wrong password, causing her assets to be frozen, and at the same time, she reported to the bank Friends called to seek solutions and called the police.

One netizen commented: This must be a person who has experienced great things.

Don’t be afraid of trouble, try to calm yourself down, and find solutions based on your own environment, because it will not help if you are impatient once something happens, it is better to buy time to minimize the damage.

2. Know how to observe all the things I don’t know and use them for my own use.

When Chu Qiao ran for maidservant in Qingshan Academy, she didn’t know anything about the three questions in the exam, but she still tried her best to observe the people around her, how they acted and did things, and she didn’t know how to hold a pen. , observing words and expressions calmly and calmly, and figured out a set of methods that work for me.

The teacher who taught us interpersonal relationships in college always taught us that we must know how to observe and learn to observe.

I didn’t understand at that time that eyes are on us, don’t we see them every day?

What should we observe?

I remember Zhao Liying said in an interview that I had never attended a major and didn’t know how to act, but it didn’t matter. I just observed how the seniors around me acted, and slowly I tried to try it myself. I discovered that a character can actually be played like this.

What you observe is phenomena, what you observe is self-knowledge.

Only by learning to observe the strengths of others and transforming them into further improvements for yourself can you make progress little by little. This is probably the "take the essence and remove the dross" that has been advocated throughout the ages. Most people who are good at learning anytime and anywhere will not live too badly.

3. Boldness and carefulness, a judgmental mind is more important than blind eyes

In the overt and dark struggles between Chu Qiao and Jin Zhu, she is both bold and not a bad person The deceived person is also very thoughtful and can judge the coming danger and countermeasures in advance.

The same is true in the workplace. Complex interpersonal relationships require not only handling various problems with judgment, but also boldly expressing one's ideas while improving one's professional skills.

Not long ago, a colleague dealt with a particularly tricky client. During the meal, I asked my colleague for advice. My colleague said that I saw cassia seeds soaking in his tea cup that day, and I guessed that he must have a high degree of intelligence. Blood pressure,

I was concerned about it when talking about cooperation. Immediately, I admired my colleagues' attentiveness. There must be a reason behind every small thing.

When walking in the world, you need to have both a brave attitude and careful judgment. If you are strong and weak, you will be invincible.

4. Truth, goodness and beauty are the steps for a person to go further.

There are many Yuwen Sanfang with great ambitions in "The Legend of Chu Qiao", but due to his distorted personality traits, there are very few people who can sincerely work for him, and they do not know how to pity the miserable servants. He doesn't know how to put himself in someone else's shoes, he focuses on self-interest, and he doesn't have any compassion at all.

Anyway, this is the character trait of most rebellious characters. Maybe this is why such people end up being separated from their relatives?

The eldest grandfather woke up and asked Yu Wenyue why he hadn’t gotten rid of Xing’er yet.

Yu Wenyue said with a tangled look on her face: "She would not harm me. I asked her to kill Jin Zhu with her own hands. At the critical moment, she insisted on her kindness. Only people with kind hearts will do it." Only those who are cold-blooded in the face of righteousness will be loyal to their master."

Perhaps it is because of this kind heart that he is attracted bit by bit to this cold and arrogant Young Master Yuwen, who is "like jade in strangers, and a prince like no other in the world".

Life itself is not easy, and the temptations encountered are all kinds of strange, but some original intentions must not be forgotten, love, kindness, happiness, sincerity...these are the simplest and most sincere words, but the most easily doubted.

It is all the strength that supports us on the long road. Only with love in our hearts can we see clearly the direction we have lost.

No matter what we experience, may we maintain a true, kind and beautiful heart.

The TV series reflects life to a certain extent, but it is exaggerated. It tells us that we need to have decisive action, strong observation and memory, and the most important thing is to walk in the thorny life. , but also have vitality like a beast.