Do you have a deep feeling about the hardships in life?

Bitter before sweet; Don't choose comfort at a difficult age.

We often habitually regard "being able to bear hardships" as a good thing.

I didn't know that life was full of hardships in Qian Qian. In fact, there are many hardships. You don't have to eat, but you should avoid eating.

Hard work and hard work have never been the wealth of life. Thinking about bitterness and solving problems in a better way can turn bitterness into sweetness.

Don't hurt yourself if you can keep healthy.

Some time ago, there was a saying on the Internet:

The last bitter that people should not blindly eat in their life is the bitter of overdrawing their health.

If you feed your dreams with health, your dreams will not fly high; Exchange health for wealth, and a serious illness will draw water with a sieve; Trading health for a career is the hardest thing to last. ...

Life, except life and death, is a trivial matter.

Nothing is urgent to eat three meals a day, nothing is too sick to have a good sleep and rest, and there is no place that will collapse without a second. ...

Therefore, if you can keep healthy, don't try to hurt yourself; Being able to get up early can improve work efficiency, and don't linger to stay up late to work overtime; If you can eat well, don't forget to eat and sleep.

If you don't overdraw your health, you will win half of your life.

You don't have to worry if you can nourish your heart.

Why do some people always smile even when life is cloudy, while others always frown even when life is clear in Wan Li?

The hardest thing to get out of life is the pain of being trapped in your heart.

If you look at everything badly, life will only be a double whammy. If you are full of sunshine, there is always hope in the dark.

When you are in a bad mood, I suggest you look at this passage by the famous painter Cai Zhizhong:

"If you compare oranges to life, one is big and sour, and the other is small and sweet.

Some people complain about acid when they get big ones, and complain about small ones when they get sweet ones. And I will be glad that it is sweet when I get a small orange, and I will be grateful that it is big when I get a sour orange. "

To be an optimistic person, always look on the bright side. When you are dismissive of troubles and look forward to the bright side, things will always go in the right direction.

Don't worry if you can nourish your heart. If you can move forward, don't look back all the time.

Sometimes there is fate in life, and sometimes there is fate. Let go, forget, come and go.

Learn to let go so that you won't be trapped in your heart and confused by your feelings.

If it can be more expensive, don't live too cheaply.

I once read a sentence: "You have a bad life, really not because you are poor."

Deeply convinced, in addition to mistreating one's own body and mind, people are also most likely to be too frugal and treat themselves casually in life:

I have always felt that after waiting, I will slowly change my life and enjoy it when the conditions are good, but there is a shelf life for loving myself, and some things can't wait.

18 years old is reluctant to buy clothes he likes, and he can't wear the youthful taste of 18 years old at the age of 28;

When I am single, I want to pursue my dreams, but I don't have the courage to be myself. After I got married, I was too busy to do what I wanted to do.

When I was young, I wanted to climb mountains. As a result, I always force myself to catch up with the report. When I was old, I never had the strength to cross mountains and rivers. ...

Life is limited, just like flowers bloom and fall, everything has its time, and missing something is a lifelong regret.

Lin Qingxuan once said: "The real quality of life is to return to self, clearly measure your own abilities and conditions, and pursue the best things and life under this limited condition."

Living more expensively and living with quality is not for extravagance, but "willing" to pursue everything better under limited conditions.

If you can live more expensively, don't live too cheaply. If you can live exquisitely and seriously, don't kill your life while muddling along.

If you can rely on it, don't live on an island.

You must have had such an experience:

Because I am too sensible, I don't want to worry people around me and swallow my heart alone.

Because I am too soft-hearted, I always prefer to suffer hardships and bear the bad things myself.

Because I am so kind, I always think of others, and I don't want to cause trouble to others no matter how difficult it is.

Many people are like this. Obviously, there are people to rely on, but they have become isolated islands.

I like a sentence: "You can be strong, but you don't have to be brave."

No one in this world is a real island. There is no need to hide all the wind, frost, rain and snow in your heart. People should resist strongly and rely on gently.

When you are sick, you might as well give others a chance to take care of you;

When you are full of worries, find someone who is willing to listen to you and talk to you;

When the difficulties can't be solved, find someone who is willing to give you advice to tide over the difficulties together.

If you like, you can have a roof for two people on rainy days, a coffee shop for three people when you are in a bad mood, and a companion to enjoy the snow when it snows.

As long as you look back, the person you love is behind you, as long as you speak, the person who loves you is around.

When you are tired, change your lifestyle.

There is a penetrating sentence in the dust under the lamp in the seventh year of viola:

When there are too many afflictions in life, don't accept all the hardships. If you are tired, change your lifestyle:

The rest of my life is short, but there are more than 70 springs; More than 76,000 meals; 27375 sunsets ...

I wish you, born in the sun, can have spring flowers every spring.

May you live a serious life and eat a nutritious and happy meal.

May you be romantic and interesting. Every sunrise and sunset will be interesting.

I can share some of my experiences and feelings about a topic.

People must learn to love themselves before they can love others.

I have been gentle and kind since I was a child. I think of others, and my own affairs are arranged by my parents. At that time, I thought they would be happy and I would be fine.

However, this problem is also very big. I'm not an independent person with personality, but I didn't realize how serious it was.

Gradually went to middle school, this character made me suffer a lot in my communication and became depressed. Later, the family changed. Although my father betrayed my family, my mother compromised and left home with my father two months before the college entrance examination. I treated him as before, without any resentment. Now think about it. It was really kind and stupid. There is no right or wrong.

I didn't do well in the college entrance examination. In those days when I spent alone at home, there was neither a school banquet nor a birthday banquet. Later, I went to my parents' house in the summer vacation. When the university started, I planned to come back alone and bought a ticket. My father insisted on coming back together, and both my mother and I knew that he wanted to come back to see mistress, but he didn't agree. However, I couldn't beat him, so I returned the ticket and booked two more station tickets. I stood abruptly for twelve hours and came back, as if I didn't complain.

Malignant brain tumor detected in sophomore year. The condition was stable after hospitalization. After half a year's rest, I failed to repeat my studies and my parents went home.

I feel that after experiencing great difficulties, I should live a positive and optimistic life and not let people who care about me worry. Just pretending to be optimistic and deliberately showing it, but it is misunderstood by many people.

Later, at school, my body always showed signs of illness, and I kept looking for a doctor to prescribe medicine alone. During this period, all the students who left school in the last session asked me for help with some formalities. In fact, I am deeply anxious and uncomfortable, so I still try to run around. At this time, the family was already making a big fuss about his father's extramarital affairs.

I finally made it to the eve of graduation, but I couldn't go to school because of my careless leg injury. For the thesis and defense, I asked no less than ten students and counselors. Finally graduated smoothly.

My leg injury has been cured for half a year, but the daily quarrel at home makes me anxious and relapse, leading to kidney disease. I hurt my leg for the second time because of family impulse during the Spring Festival, and I have been lying for three years now.

Fortunately, the body has gradually improved, I hope. I feel very cold and calm now. Know how to love and protect yourself.

Really, people can only live better if they take care of themselves first.

I really need to think about this. What should suffering be like? What is bitterness? Maybe I am a forgetful person, so in my growing experience, those pains will often be forgotten by me, and the bitter ones will be replaced by the sweet ones.

First, what should suffering look like?

The pain of life is nothing more than the following: first, the pain of physical illness, and second, the pain of career failure; Third, the pain of frustration in love.

These three kinds, each kind of pain can crush a person's will to survive. But if you can get out of that darkness, I believe the sun will be as warm as the day before yesterday.

Second, after suffering, you have to understand what truth.

For me, bitterness tells me that no matter how difficult the road ahead is, as long as I work hard in the right direction, I will be closer to happiness than standing in the same place.

When I was abandoned or betrayed by my friends, I understood that sometimes it's not that I'm stupid, but that I stick to the bottom line of kindness.

At work, when no one helps me, I should correctly understand that this is society. You must try to stand up straight.

When you get along with others, you should remember: help people in trouble, remember their advantages and see their advantages.

The most important thing is to stick to your original heart and kindness, and be a lotus flower that comes out of the mud and is not stained, clear and not demon.

I think there is still hope for life if I can endure hardships. Suffering itself is not bitter. The real pain is that you can't see hope and you are confused. The point is that every bit of suffering you eat is not worth it, and it is useless. I think this is really bitter. I am a miserable person myself. I seem to have been prepared for hardship from birth. When I was born, I didn't get the laughter of my family, but I got the resentment and pain of my family. Just because I am a girl, I shouldn't have come to this world, but I was separated from my parents. As if I had been abandoned, I lived with my grandmother, my mother remarried and came to see me occasionally, so I didn't know anything. The conditions are not very good, but they are also true. Just without the love of parents, like an eagle with broken wings. After all, it has no strength to fly. There is no heart to fly freely in the sun, full of insecurity and inferiority. I always wanted to change at that time. Because of difficulties and dissatisfaction, I have no good life, but it has brought me endless disasters. When I was in junior high school, my grandmother said that I would be angry at my mother's house and went home, but there were two younger brothers at home. How can I put it? There is no good luck when I get home, and my mother has no good life. There are so many things bothering me during this period that I can't bear the pressure at my age. I think too much, but I can't do too much, and finally I am tired. My eyes can't read, even my eyes are very difficult. I am very dry and uncomfortable. Originally, I thought I was in no condition to study, so I went out to study by myself. I wanted to live a good life, start a career and form a perfect family. Finally, I realized that none of this belongs to me, only to fairy tales. Because I can't do anything with my eyes, I have no choice. Therefore, no matter how hard you are, I just throw it at you, one after another, but I am naturally unyielding. what can I do? Then I want to live and support myself. I never know whether I work in the factory during the day or at night. I know whether I am alive or dead. I want to earn money to see a doctor. This belief supported me to get my first month's salary. I rushed to the hospital without buying anything. At that time, I understood that sometimes it is not easy to live, but suffering should still be a happy thing. At least you still have your life to suffer, and as for me, the doctor didn't say anything and gave me some medicine. But unexpectedly, this is just the beginning. Since then, I have repeatedly seen a doctor and earned money to see a doctor, but in the end it has had little effect. I even finally saw the concept of chronic disease on the Internet. Chinese medicine and western medicine, I have never saved money, nor have I bought good clothes and cosmetics. When others are enjoying life, I am at the bottom, and I can't climb if I want to, and I can't think of it. But even though I live so hard, I haven't changed at all. Because all I know is that I have to look into my eyes. It's on my mind every day. After work, I finally became a person who lives not for others nor for myself, but only for my own eyes. I even entered a black hole, and the idea of suicide increased day by day. You can imagine what I have experienced and what I have suffered. I thought about it. Eyes can't stay up all night, but I grit my teeth. Later, I changed a lot of jobs, but scolding is common. I can only do odd jobs in supermarkets and restaurants. My so-called values and ideals are worthless in the face of reality, but even so, I still can't do some work well. Why do you think I'm still alive? Why do I have to live now? Because my family gave me someone I didn't like, but he didn't abandon me because he had nothing. It's just that life at that time was as simple as I thought, and it was almost ten years. My eyes wasted ten years of my time and youth. I didn't realize my dream and value, and I didn't marry the person I like, but I'm still alive. Although I am not rich, unhappy and dissatisfied, I have not forgotten to see a doctor. It's finally getting better now. My heart is bleeding at the thought of the pain in the middle, because the pain I experienced is useless. Now I am still actively recuperating, because I want to get better and live a hard life. Most importantly, I don't want my children to suffer unnecessary pain like me.

I hope to face life bravely at any time. There is always a way to be human, and it is for yourself.

It was impossible to be bitter at that time.

Sometimes people don't realize what kind of situation they are in at the moment. It's not until someone reminds you, or years later, that you suddenly realize your previous situation.

When my grandmother came to live in a small town and left the farmland, she often bothered me at night: she used to carry heavy rice like a man, go to the market in the moonlight like she didn't feel anything, and do farm work under the starlight like she was never tired. At this age, I can't do it anymore. I can only curl up in bed and only remember that I have suffered all my life, but I can only sigh.

After junior high school, I went out to study, ate at the landlord's house, ate at street stalls, and ate in the school cafeteria. I couldn't eat at work later. The south ate rice and the north ate noodles, but it didn't feel much. Until I went to a friend's house to grab some leftovers, I just stood there, staring at the rice, oh, eating a meal with the taste of home. Now I can stay at home. I try my best to cook and learn a lot of home cooking online. I don't know if I'm making up for the meal I missed or ordering something else.

People come over like this, there is no such thing as bitterness, because we just soak in that smell, turn around and smack our lips before we know, oh, bitterness.

A drop in the ocean, good afternoon. Meeting is a kind of fate. Let's discuss the profound understanding of the hardships of life.

First of all, let's talk about what is hardship and hard work. No money to spend? Or stay up late to earn money to support the family? These are all common things that I have experienced in the past. At that time, as an ordinary farmer, there were old people at home to support their families and children. It is impossible to feed on food income alone. In addition to scrimping and saving, we also planted some cash crops in the field and worked in the field regardless of black and white. At that time, there was a saying that facing the loess and facing the sky, I saw that the sun was short of money. At that time, we couldn't control the physical endurance at all. We got up at one or two at night and went to the city to buy food. We remember that a catty of cabbage only cost 50 cents. Take a nap in the market when you are sleepy, and buy a steamed stuffed bun when you are hungry. When we came back, we forgot to rest and did manual labor in the fields. Although life is bitter, it is also full. Finally, we survived through our own efforts, and our two children also graduated from college and had their own stable jobs. These are all things that have been experienced, and life has five flavors. I think it is not bitter to look at suffering with a different attitude. Look down on dust and live happily.

The journey of life is bitter. There are too many sorrows and misfortunes in the world, which make us realize that life is impermanent and things are not easy. People who have not experienced great hardships can't stand any wind and rain, and they can't stand any setbacks. I just see now that some couples quarrel and jump into the river for a trivial matter. Some pupils just won't let him play with his mobile phone and jump off a building. Because I have never suffered, I don't know the preciousness of life, bring disgrace to oneself. Suffering is the test that life gives you. Don't bow to fate, work hard and live out human dignity and backbone. It is the highest state of life, and has nothing to do with your status and wealth. Some people, even if the house is full of gold, live in a drunken dream, harming others and themselves, and living worse than dogs. Some people, even if they are poor enough to beg, their mind, kindness and tolerance will not disappear, and others will respect them.

So live a good life, laugh at suffering and cherish life. Then, when you leave this world, you won't feel sorry.

I did, and after years of hard work, everything went down the drain! At the beginning, a small wellhead was built for coal mining. Years of hard work have gradually become formal. However, an accident made everything zero, which was a debt. For more than ten days, my black hair turned white by a third. Eating kebabs will knock out half your teeth. I really felt so tired during that time! One day, I was drinking with some friends at my friend's house, and my mother went to see me. At that time, I looked at the time, it was already past two in the morning! …。 ! ... I have a kind and good mother! (feeling)

I was born in the 1970s, when everyone's family situation was similar. There are three brothers and sisters at home, and both parents are workers. I remember wearing my brother's patched old pants and hiding when I met acquaintances. Fortunately, I was the only girl in my family, and then my mother bought me a New Pants.

At that time, meat was in short supply. My father has a friend who works in a slaughterhouse and can buy cheap meat. By the way, he will also give us a pig's head, so all the children in the hospital keep drooling to watch his father wash the pig's head. What worries me in my memory is that after school, the school sometimes makes me pay some fees. I went to my father's office to ask for money, and my father rummaged through his pockets and asked his colleagues to borrow money. At that time, my father's anxious face weighed heavily on my heart. I know it's hard for my parents, and I haven't asked for anything from my family since then.

Later, life gradually improved and we all went to work. I don't know if my answer is correct. Please express your opinions. Thank you.