Mishu: If you can't walk into the love of the soul, no matter how hard you try, it will be pale.

Qian Zhongshu once summed up his love with Jiang Yang in one sentence? Three incompatible unique combinations: wife, lover and friend? ! Personally, I think that only such a marriage can last long and such a love can be perfect.

Recently, "The Legend of Mi Yue" has been widely broadcast, and comments from all sides are busy with the ups and downs of the plot. Many netizens called Mi Yue a scheming bitch, while others called Mi Gu heartless.

From an objective and fair point of view, in fact, I sympathize with Mi Fei, because she didn't understand that the king of Qin never really loved her until the moment she died. When it comes to mutual affection, at best, it is more love and care than other concubines in the harem. The king of Qin married her only because of the political needs at that time, and she was young and beautiful, dignified in appearance, saying that she liked her well, but she didn't talk enough about love.

Sadly, she thought the king of Qin belonged to her heart, but Mi Yue's horizontal knife took away her love. Strong love can only show that love is not deep enough, not to mention that Mi Yue is not strong enough.

Even I personally think that loving Qin is not as good as loving Qin, because there is still Huang Xie's seat, although it is predestined friends. In addition, Mi Yue's love for the king of Qin is not limited to the love between men and women, but also the dependence between brothers, the worship between the monarch and the minister, and the love between confidants, so Mi Yue's affection for the king of Qin has never been actively sought.

The king of Qin, on the other hand, thought of their mother and son when he died, and when he arrived, he took a strand of hair from his beloved, even if he drove the crane west, he should leave a thought. How can this kind of great love not make people move? At that time, the paper towels were not prepared enough and I earned a lot of tears.

Is it the land of the king of the world, or is the king's minister leading the land? If he really wants the king of Qin, all the women in Qin are his. Why take a ladle for three thousand?

First of all, I have to admit that the king of Qin has made great efforts, worked hard and loved the people, and cared about the world. He is a rare monarch, not as lewd as the King of Chu, nor as fatuous as the Prince of Yan.

Therefore, such a sage loves talent, morality and pattern more than appearance. The imperial court is eager for talents, not to mention those women with strategic vision.

The other side of Qin Wang's love for talents is enough to explain that Qin Wang was preparing to recover Su Qin at that time, and why Mimi, the general of Qin State, didn't recommend Su Qin's employment strategy in Cheng Mingting, and repeated it word for word to Chen Shu, the king of Qin. At that time, the expression of the king of Qin who saw Mimi was never appreciated and praised, boasting Mimi's profound understanding of major principles!

The King of Qin and Mi Zhu talked more about family affairs, while Mi Yue talked about state affairs. It's not like the king of Qin didn't give me a chance. I just don't understand state affairs, and the pattern is too small to live up to expectations. When the younger sister of the king of Qin was held hostage by Zhao, the same problem of the king of Qin also tested the opinion of Mi Zhu, and finally the king of Qin adopted it. The king of Qin took hundreds of arguments in the square pavilion as a reference for the decision-making of the DPRK, and thought that his behavior was too hasty and not serious. Only by using Mi Yue to understand him, I think it is a matter of absorbing the strengths of many people and listening to the words of the world's talents, and I think the method is fresh and fun.

If Mimi is as resourceful as Mi Yue, the king of Qin is naturally more interested in governing the country. It's a pity that she was born uninterested in pen and ink, and had no definite view on state affairs, so she gave more opportunities to get along with the king of Qin to a colorful Mi Yue. To put it mildly, it belongs to her incompetence.

In addition, Mi Yue is virtuous, not greedy for fame and fortune, and does not strive for profit. Compared with the women in the harem, how can the king not love them?

However, no matter whether an emperor with a high realm and a large pattern is a successful person now, what he lacks is never just a beautiful wife and concubine, but a confidant who can speak his mind and share the worries of state affairs.

What the king of Qin wants is not someone who loves him, but someone who understands him. I can understand his awkward words, his helplessness as a monarch to outsiders, his pain in the face of national affairs and his children's emotional choices, and his ambition to uphold the high hopes of his ancestors to unify the world. The woman who can walk into his soul is Mi Yue. Wives and the king of Qin are nominally husband and wife, while Mi Yue and the king of Qin are soul mates, so the king of Qin only has Mi Yue in his heart.

Qian Zhongshu once summed up his love with Jiang Yang in one sentence? Three incompatible unique combinations: wife, lover and friend? ! Personally, I think that only such a marriage can last long and such a love can be perfect.

Qin Wang's love for Mi Fei is from the perspective of a wife, and Mi Yue is not only a wife, but also a lover and confidant.

Lovers are like naughty crying in private? Old man? It lets the old man carry it. This kind of interest makes people feel pity, just like sending a sachet that can soothe the nerves, so affectionate. Other concubines are more in awe, coveting wealth and losing a lot of affection.

This confidant is more of Mi Yue's talent. He can help the king of Qin to sort out the throne like Tai Jiang Yi, and give advice to assist the king. Judging from the fact that the King of Qin took Mi Yue to worship Shang Yang, Mi Yue was by no means a concubine in his mind.

Other concubines just cook a bowl of soup, send some soup, carry on the family line, and do their part as wives.

Mi Yue gave birth during childbirth, and the king of Qin did not hesitate to keep Mi Yue, because he knew that Mi Yue was irreplaceable. When Mi Yue fainted, the king of Qin ignored everyone's stop and shouted? I want to let you live, let you go to Cheng Ming Hall, sort out my letters, and accompany me to watch Daqin rule the country. ? At the time of life and death, the king of Qin, regardless of his own situation, took out the emperor's domineering to encourage his beloved person, which touched me instantly and made me feel that even if Mi Yue died, it would be worthwhile. What she got was not the' love' of an ordinary person, but the heart of a generation of kings who ruled the world!

Daqin's ambition to govern the country is to be a king and a courtier, but why did the king of Qin only shout out his lofty words and ambitions to a harem concubine, instead of telling his decadent feelings for his children? This shows that the king of Qin regarded Chi Yue as a soldier who fought side by side, and the hero cherished lofty sentiments. They have too much in common, just like Boya and hippo chefs. It's too cold up there, and the king of Qin feels lonely without her.

Some time ago, I once wrote an article "Love is equal and equal", which emphasized that the tacit understanding of the soul is the strongest state of marriage. The more thoughtful and sophisticated people are, the more important they are to their soul mates, which is also the reason for the low divorce rate of rural people, because they don't particularly need spiritual growth, but simply live together.

Speaking of Faye Wong's feelings, what Faye Wong definitely wants is a soul mate, and Nicholas Tse is the person who can understand her heart best. So Faye Wong is a queen fan in front of others. Only around Nicholas Tse, she is a smart little woman. Her sweet smile and happy expression cannot be faked.

Friendship and love need to match in energy, realm and pattern, otherwise they will only become strangers and like-minded people will be harmonious. Therefore, don't forget the growth of connotation on the road of life, otherwise even the best marriage will pass you by.