What's it like to associate with the poor?

2, gray mood, pessimist, complaining a lot.

3, different values, different choices.

4, always talk about feelings, right or wrong, and it is a double target.

5, the concept of time is not strong, I feel that time is the cheapest and can be wasted at any time.

6. Sensitivity and self-protection.

7. Think too much, do too little, and have no execution.

8. I hope that I can see the benefits immediately after paying, and there is no delay in satisfaction.

9. If you are stubborn, you feel that you are right and don't reflect.

10, on useless people and things, constantly internal friction.

1 1, many choices are wrong. I keep digging holes for myself and don't know what to do.

12, likes short-lived happiness and is led by desire.

13, I think rich people are bad people, and I want to get rich.

14, it needs constant encouragement and praise, and it is difficult to accept criticism.

15, like to take advantage of small things, not optimistic about others.

16, like to wrangle, like subjective judgment.

Tired!

1, materially, he will have constant difficulties that need your help to solve, and he will always bother you.

2, mentally in a state of high tension, always afraid that saying the wrong thing will hurt your sensitive self-esteem. If it doesn't matter, you will jump like a chicken, and your kindness will not be rewarded. All funding will turn against you or hold a grudge because of your carelessness.

1. Can't speak a channel!

2. value your dignity more than anything else! I always feel that others look down on them!

3. Doing things unplanned, busy, no results!

4. Always complacent about petty profits!

5. Believe in fate and think that everything is fate!

6. Look down on people who are poorer than themselves!

6. Very stubborn, very stubborn.

7. I don't take my life seriously. Sometimes I fight for a piece of waste paper and use knives and guns for a little profit! Three or four children ran a red light on an electric car.

8. If you don't have an opinion, believe what others say!

9. Like gossip.

10. I like to ask about other people's privacy, especially their income. I looked at them with jealous eyes as soon as I heard it!

It is normal to associate with the poor, but some people are unwilling to pay. If a poor man has backbone, self-esteem and homosexual interest, he can associate with others.

If a poor man flatters you and comes to you every day after making friends, it is too annoying to borrow from the east and the west, so it is better not to pay.

Generally, the rich don't make friends with the poor because they are afraid of this trouble.

Tired, tired. Not only should we take care of their sensitive, fragile and fragile hearts, but we also need constant efforts.

You can't say the price when you buy something. Don't just buy things on your mobile phone. Clothes, shoes and cosmetics are all the same. Check out quietly in advance when eating. You'd better buy yourself a star dad or something.

Eat more in roadside shops and stalls. Don't buy imported snacks and fruits.

I feel that the living standard of the whole person has dropped by several layers [laugh and cry] [laugh and cry] [laugh and cry] [laugh and cry]

The point is that people still feel wronged. People think it is his ability to associate with you, not because you are excellent. If you buy a dress for yourself and not for him or his mother, you are wrong. He shouldn't buy anything for you or your family, which is right. I have no money, and I am shameless.

Well, many people say that people are poor and ambitious, while others say that people are poor and ambitious. In fact, I personally think that, in any case, it is good not to violate the principle of conscience. Just be happy.

One buys a house and the other gives birth to a child. These two items cannot be mentioned with the poor.

I am not rich myself, maybe not even middle class, but compared with my relatives in the countryside, my income is slightly higher. In the communication with those relatives, we can clearly feel different views on buying a house and having children.

15 years ago, when my children just went to kindergarten, I asked my parents and my mother-in-law to raise money together to make a down payment and prepare to buy a school district house at a unit price of 9000 yuan. At that time, a group of relatives at home told the old people on both sides of me that there were spacious rural self-built houses at home, so why should we empty our homes and buy a "birdcage" in the urban area? If children are considered to study, primary and junior high schools in rural areas should also study. If it is learning material, you can read it in the pigsty, but it is not learning material, and it is useless to tie it in the study. For these words, my father once refused to support me. But now he admits that it was the right choice to buy this house in xueqq, not to mention that the house price has risen to 25,000 to 30,000. He just said that he lived in this house after the demolition of his hometown. When he went out, it was a bustling business district, and he could retire after drinking tea and listening to books. On the other hand, relatives who said they didn't want to buy a house later bought a house, but unfortunately the money saved was only enough to buy it in town.

The other is having a baby. In some people's eyes, having a second child is like picking up a stray cat, as long as a delicious meal can feed you. As soon as I had a daughter, my relatives told my mother to strike while the iron is hot and get the second child done. But I have a sister who doesn't conform to the second child policy. As a public school teacher, I certainly can't break the rules. Actually, my wife and I didn't plan to have a second child in the first place. You know, the energy spent on having a second child now, as well as the wealth and energy to be spent in the future, are absolutely unbearable for our two high school teachers. Later, the second child policy was liberalized, and many relatives gave birth to a second child. Seven aunts and eight aunts came to tell my mother to have another one while their sons and daughters-in-law were still young. Both of them are workers, and their income is not as much as yours. Have a second child! My mother is hard of hearing and eager to talk to me. I told her directly that multiple children had to prepare an extra suite. Can we afford it? This sentence reached the ears of relatives and turned back, becoming "anyway, the boss is a daughter, even if the second child is a son, there is no need to consider buying a house." Why? Daughter doesn't have to prepare a house to get married? It's 2 1 century. Who else is so patriarchal? That's ridiculous!

What's it like to associate with the poor?

1, unable to communicate.

Take giving birth to a child as an example! Obviously, the family conditions are not very good, that is, until the birth of their son, they all think that they will lose confidence and lift their heads if they are not born to their son's home.

Because I am poor, I dare not regenerate, but my parents and relatives have been urging me to have one more child. Raising one is raising, and raising two is raising. They said something that they thought was very reasonable. Some people can make money, but money can't buy people. I can't refute what they said to me.

2. There is no long-term plan.

Everything will only consider the immediate interests, do things without planning, will not plan ahead, and often push the boat with the tide. This sentence is on my lips, and I will talk about it when the time comes. I will not make long-term plans for my future life.

Step 3 be poor and generous

There is no planning, no calculation, and I don't care about some ordinary money. I don't understand the truth that many a mickle makes a mickle. It doesn't hurt to spend five dollars and ten dollars, so they will feel bored when they spend 100000. I wonder how much it will cost this year.

But also very good face, do not like bargaining, especially when there are acquaintances present, feel very ashamed, grab orders when eating, will not spend rationally, go out to shop, if there are others to accompany, will buy a lot back.

4. Buy things only by price, not by quality.

No matter what you buy, put the price first, such as daily necessities, digital appliances and so on. You like to buy cheap things, but some things really can't just look at the low price, such as buying some household appliances or electronic products, or choosing a trustworthy brand, so that the quality will be guaranteed, the time will be longer, and of course the price will be higher, but it will also save money invisibly.

For example, if you buy a cheap thing and the quality is not guaranteed, you will be happier if you pay for it. However, in the process of use, the experience will be poor, the time spent will be short, and overall it will be more uneconomical.

Step 5 feel inferior

Lack of self-confidence, always inferior, psychologically sensitive and fragile. What others say to him will be over-decomposed, and all kinds of suspicions will make people around him look down on him, produce inferiority complex, and affect their mood and work.

6. Strong self-esteem

I am stubborn, like to haggle over trifles, pay special attention to my inner feelings, take myself too seriously, and have strong self-esteem, but I am unable to change the status quo, unwilling to actively accept my shortcomings, and don't weigh the pros and cons of anything. I let my temper do it, and I will accomplish nothing in the end.

7. I like asking questions.

Narrow-minded, too concerned about immediate gains and losses, encounter things different from their own views, must die to the end, vowed not to give up.

8. I don't know how to race against time

Have no sense of time, waste time on some useless things, do not know how to use time to do more meaningful things, but spend time chatting, playing cards, doing housework and so on.

For example, doing housework, some people will spend two hours a day doing housework, while those who understand the concept of time will finish all housework in two hours, and then do more important things.

9, live very tired

They see the bad side. They like to complain about life and comment on others. Because I am too idle, I like to say that others are better than myself behind my back, and I can't hide it. I am extremely jealous and full of negative energy. It's really tiring to be with such a person with poor thinking.

10, not paying attention to children's education

They think reading is useless, and they will pick out some people who don't read much and have a good life as examples to convince them that reading is useless at all.

As we all know, not everyone is suitable to be a boss, and not everyone has a mine at home. For ordinary people, reading is the most direct way to change their destiny.

Moreover, they will not attach importance to education. Children's poor academic performance will all be blamed on children, because children don't have that talent, but they never think about their achievements, which is inseparable from family education. Those so-called geniuses also made great efforts, but you just didn't see the efforts of others.

1 1. I like to take advantage of others, but I take it for granted.

The first time you help her, she will appreciate you. If you help him countless times, she will take it for granted.

Like to take advantage of others everywhere. If you don't take advantage of others, you will be unhappy. On the other hand, it is said that others are wrong, as if others are better off than him and should give alms.

12, lazy, waiting for the pie to fall from the sky.

Think more, do less, envy others' high-quality life, but I am unwilling to work hard. I think about pies falling from the sky every day and have to get up early.

Whatever you do. Everyone likes to procrastinate and make an appointment with others, but he never arrives on time. He is an untrustworthy man.

Conclusion:

A person's greatest fear is inner and ideological poverty. External poverty can be rewarded more through his own efforts and personal cultivation, but a person with inner poverty is difficult to get along with, which will make you feel tired with him, unable to communicate with him and unable to respect others. He likes to haggle over every ounce and takes himself too seriously. The poor can only accommodate themselves.

They are enthusiastic, more enthusiastic than the average person. If you happen to be poor, you'd better become poor for different reasons. They will sympathize with you and even help you. For example, give your man a pack of cigarettes and buy a snack for your child. During the conversation, I felt sorry for your family. I am an absolute temperament middleman. However, if you happen to be a rich man compared with them, your "good day" will come. First of all: they think you look stupid and not smart enough. How did you get rich? They think money is earned by bad people, but they are not bad enough. Then you must have earned it by your parents, demolition, or by a rich woman, a rich man, being a mistress and doing special work. They only have those ways to make money in their minds, only those examples around them. Two: They feel that their self-esteem has been stimulated. Everything you say and do in front of them is ostentatious, showing off your wealth, and all kinds of vitriol run to you, provoking your relationship with your good friends in the circle. It's best if you two are divided, sensitive, fragile and jealous. Three: the climax is coming. If your heart is worse, of course you can borrow money, but you won't pay it back! If you have more money, you should let him spend it. It can't be spent anyway. If you are cruel, I will lie to you and steal all the five elements! I ate your meat, hit the bone and sucked the bone marrow, but I didn't wipe anything in my mouth. No guilt, only joy and pride!

Poor people, you don't want to hear this. Were you born rich? If so, it is also the success of your parents, and your family has become rich from poverty.

1, haggle over every ounce in the use of money, never pay the bill, find you in trouble, good things will not think of you, love takes advantage of small things.

2, love to be clever, think the whole world is a fool,

Step 3 be lazy. Fear of difficulties, fear of hardship. Kill time all day, spend a lot of time watching TV, chatting, surfing the Internet and other useless things.

The poor like to complain about injustice, comment on others' right and wrong, envy others' good life, and are generally sensitive, fragile, irritable, full of tyranny and hostility.

6, not heavy contacts. There is no habit of making friends with nobles and business partners. Not good at making friends with old people, not good at making friends with rich people, surrounded by poor people. Unwilling to invest time and money in interpersonal relationships.

7. The people around you are willful and overbearing, full of hostility and malice to outsiders.

8. No courage. No courage to pursue, no courage to refuse, no effective time management. Be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, hesitate, and dare not make major choices.

9. I don't like to use my brain. Confused, how to live easily and mindlessly.