Tell the story of my husband and me.

I got to know my husband because he was recruited to work in a state-run hotel. At that time, he was a red case chef. His first impression was that he was short and thin.

After more than two years of * * * events, I feel that although his education level is not high, he has worked hard in business and won the championship in provincial and municipal business competitions many times. And he is very kind-hearted. Although his adoptive parents are not very kind to him, he is still very filial to them. Life is very simple. I often see a big man mending his clothes with a needle and thread after work (at that time, the restaurant had to study politics after work at noon, so he couldn't go home, so he took time to mend his clothes). For us newcomers who just came to work, we are also patient and not conservative in business guidance. Seeing that my physique is weak, I am also caring for me. After a long time, we have feelings.

I didn't know that as soon as our love affair was announced, my family blew up, and my parents had very good reasons: his work was poor, he studied little, he was short and thin, although he had adoptive parents, he was financially difficult, like an orphan, and I was in poor health, but my family condition was relatively good, so I should find someone with good conditions and strong body who could take care of me in the future.

It's just that I'm a one-track-minded person. Since I was a child, my parents have said that I must stick to what I have set my sights on. They often say that I won't go back until I hit the south wall. No, they racked their brains, carrot and stick (my father, who never touched a finger, not only slapped me in the face for the first time, but also pointed out the window to let me jump) and used all their strength, hoping that I could give up, but I was still infatuated. Finally, his parents made a condition: let him be transferred to Maanshan Iron and Steel Company, a large enterprise in our city. (Thanks to my parents' consideration, I made this condition, otherwise the restaurant closed down later and we were both laid off, which is really no joke.) Only then did we agree to our marriage, but there was no dowry, which was a great gift to us, and in this way, we all got married.

After marriage, it turns out that I am not mistaken about my husband. Although he is not tall and has a limited educational level, he is open-minded. I was worried that my parents would hate him, but he often said that he understood my parents very much, opposed our marriage, and totally loved his daughter. Even if they went too far, they should not bear grudges. Therefore, whenever anyone in my family has difficulties and needs help after marriage, he will do his best and even ask for help.

? He always felt that I had chosen him, and I was a little lost, so I wanted to find various ways to compensate. Never let me have any difficulties: he walks on crutches because of illness, and when my mother is in hospital and needs someone to take care of her, he lives with me at my mother's house and helps me take care of her; Occasionally, I take my mother to live in my house. Although he is inconvenient to move, he also gives full play to his chef's specialty. He not only cooks dishes that she likes and can eat for my mother personally, but also cooks some soup between meals to increase my mother's nutrition. My mother herself says that every time she comes to my house for a short time, she will gain weight, even her own son!

? My father was seriously ill in hospital. Because my brother was the only boy in my family, and there were not enough people working at night shift, he took care of my father in the hospital even though it was inconvenient for him. In fact, he didn't have to do this at all, but he didn't refuse at all.

With my support, my husband is very professional in business. In the first chef examination in our province, he overcame many difficulties such as poor cultural background, small children and busy work, and jumped from a third-class chef to a first-class chef. At that time, the whole Maanshan Iron and Steel Company admitted two. I am really proud of him!

The so-called whipping fast cattle, because there are only two first-class chefs in the whole company, and one is sent abroad to help foreign countries, then my husband shoulders the heavy responsibility. No matter where important leaders come to work in Maanshan Iron and Steel Co., even foreign experts are invited to entertain my husband in his factory, so he goes out to work every morning, and there is no definite time to go home. He often stays at home on a rest day and is called to work overtime in the factory. At that time, he was very simple and had no idea.

? Due to long-term overwork, he finally couldn't hold on to his thin body. Internal rheumatoid arthritis caused necrosis of the femoral head in both legs, and he was forced to retire early in 1997. He was only 43 years old that year!

? At that time, because I was not willing to be a waiter in a restaurant, I taught myself to be a financial accountant. I worked in the unit on weekdays. In order to increase my family income, I paid for private companies on Sundays and evenings, and I had no time to take care of him. And my husband, very conscious, not only takes care of his own life, but also tells me, "You just buy the food home every day and I'll cook. "I hesitated at first, fearing that he was tired and could not stand it. Instead, he said," I never treat myself as a disabled person. What's the matter? I just act a little slower than others. Don't worry, I will be careful. Cooking is my specialty. For me, it is exercise. If I don't do it, it will be bad for my health. " He used his cleverness to transform the cooking place at home into a model suitable for him, so I tried to let him do it for a few days. Fortunately, it was not as difficult as I thought, so I trusted him with the cooking. Every day, when I came home from a busy day, there were always hot and delicious meals waiting for me.

My husband is not good at words, but he is very honest and kind to me, which sometimes makes me both moved and in distress: I remember that with the improvement of people's living standards, ladies began to wear gold jewelry, and my family was difficult, so I didn't even think about it. I didn't know that when he saw my sister and brother-in-law, he took Masteel bonds to the street without telling me, because he stayed at home every day and didn't know what was outside. ) bought me the first gold necklace with a pendant in my life. Do you think I should praise him or blame him?

He fully supports many decisions I have made, as long as they are correct, no matter how big the difficulties are: remember that my daughter is still about three years old. I don't want to be a waiter in a hotel, but I want to work during the day and attend an accounting training class at night. I tried to discuss with him, and he immediately agreed that whenever I finished class at night, he would take my daughter home by bike and take on most of the housework, so that I could study hard for the exam. With his strong support, I successfully transferred from a shop assistant in a hotel to an excellent financial officer. There is a saying, "Behind a successful man, there must be an excellent woman" and my family, on the contrary, should say that half of my success should be attributed to my husband and my baby daughter.

When my stomach is so bad that I can't eat, my husband often goes to the vegetable market to buy some dishes suitable for me, and makes them carefully. I always hope that I can eat some noodles: I won't eat the noodles I bought, and I use eggs to make noodles, handmade noodles and other dishes. I am very happy to see that I have one more bite. Sometimes, in order to not bear his hard work, I just have to endure my stomachache to make him happy. He rolled the dumpling skin himself, changed the pattern of stuffing, and wrapped jiaozi for me to eat, saying that pasta was easy to digest; Even if you cook porridge, you should buy some shrimps, peel them and chop them up and put them in, especially in summer, when the kitchen is not air-conditioned, I really feel so distressed that I want to scold him, but I can't open my mouth, because even a healthy person may not be able to do all this!

? I'm a hothead, especially when I'm in poor health, and I get angry easily. Whenever this happens, he says slowly, "You're being unreasonable again, so I won't haggle with you." Over time, my character is also stupid. Therefore, the neighbors can hardly hear the quarrel in our house. Sometimes, some people see that we both talk about each other, so it is very strange to say, have you ever quarreled? How can I put it? Both of them are single-minded about each other, and they want to do more housework to reduce each other's burden. This is called a weak couple helping each other! Encounter things * * * to discuss with the office, as if there is really no reason to quarrel!

My husband seldom goes out by himself, so he doesn't have many friends, but whenever I come to my friends, he always treats us warmly. He often says that people who can come to our house respect us, and no matter who comes, they should try their best to entertain us, so none of my relatives and friends, whether adults or children, are constrained by not knowing my husband. Similarly, I always treat my husband's relatives as my own family, which is inherited from my father. I remember that shortly after we got married, his old man taught me that "since we are married, we are a family, and we should not divide each other." He himself, too, regards my mother's mother as his own mother, and the so-called example is more important than teaching!

? It is said that no one is perfect, and my husband also has his shortcomings: because of his low level of education, some theoretical knowledge is slowly understood, so I will patiently explain it to him; However, he is very studious, and with all kinds of media publicity on TV and mobile phone, he has made rapid progress; Sometimes he loses his temper. At this moment, I realize that he is really angry, so I quickly avoid or keep my mouth shut. When his temper goes down, I will counterattack, hehe.

On weekdays, no matter who accidentally does something wrong, no matter how much the loss is, we will comfort each other and make things roll with the punches.

because I have experienced ups and downs with my husband for decades, I know his goodness. So in 29, he unfortunately fell down and his life was dying. I did not hesitate to sell the house and take him to shanghai changzheng hospital for surgery. With the help of my daughter, (because the money from selling the house was not enough to cover the operation expenses, my husband's brother and sister also extended a helping hand; My brother and sister also tried their best to help, thank you! ) As the saying goes, everyone gathers firewood, and everyone Qi Xin works together to successfully save him from death! I really can't imagine how I can live without my husband!

It is said that poor couples are always sad. I said, "A friend in need is a friend indeed". Although my husband and I have experienced the difficulties of starting from scratch; Experienced the torture of perennial illness; After experiencing the prime of life, he lost his ability to work; I have experienced human hardships such as selling my property to save my life, but I still feel happy, because we have worked together from scratch and raised our daughter better. When people get to the flower, their feelings are still envied by others, and my heart is enough.

? Nowadays, I really don't understand those gold-worshipping girls who "would rather cry in a BMW than laugh behind a bicycle". Even if they are rich, is Lacrimosa that good in their long life? Of course, there are also people who are rich and affectionate, but everything comes with fate, so don't force it.

The most brilliant thing is to grow old with you and still regard you as a treasure in my hand. Since I'm retired, we also make our own travel arrangements when my husband's health permits.

As we get older, we cherish each other more. We arrange three meals a day according to each other's preferences and health needs almost every day. It is a blessing to remind each other not to forget to take medicine, warn each other and take good care of their health. It is also the greatest support for the daughter who is working hard outside. Watch the years and look forward to being quiet. I believe that our old age will get better and better!