"Your brother wants to do business and pay 50,000 yuan." "Mom, I'm divorced and clean." what do you think?

After my divorce from my wife, I had mixed feelings. I even have nowhere to go outside the Civil Affairs Bureau. My wife promised to give me some time to live at home because my family didn't know about our divorce. I don't know what to tell my parents, or I don't want to go back to that home at all. I guess if my parents knew I was divorced, they wouldn't sympathize with me, but they would get a scolding.

Just yesterday, my mother called for money. Except for this reason, she never took the initiative to find me. Mom said, "Your brother wants to do business. Try to get 50,000 yuan!" "I ha ha smile, do something, what can I do? Since marriage, more than half of my salary has been subsidized to my parents and brother. Now they want me to ask my wife and father-in-law. Anyway, as long as we can get them money, we don't care about anything else. I said to my mother, "Mom, I'm divorced and I'm clean. "

As I expected, I was stunned for two or three seconds at the other end of the phone, and then I was swept. Said I was worthless, incompetent and would not please my father-in-law. I'm very upset. Before long, my brother called again. "Elder brother, do something. It's okay without 530 thousand Don't you have two credit cards? " Brush some for me ... "Look, this is my next of kin. You can't give me a few warm words, but all you know is to sprinkle salt on my wound.

Growing up, my parents' attitudes towards my brother and me were very different, almost underground. I am a puppet raised by my parents. They raised me and made me pay for my brother. I am 30 years old and my brother is five years younger than me. At that time, the first child in the countryside was a boy, and it was not allowed to have a second child. At the age of five, my mother got pregnant unexpectedly, and my father had a hard time paying the fine and gave birth to a younger brother. The fortune teller said that my brother had a good life and would be rich or expensive in the future. Then my treatment suddenly fell from the sky to the ground.

Parents treat their younger brother like an eyeball and are afraid to put it in their mouth. They treated me like a weed and let me die. My brother wears new clothes and eats well. My old clothes were changed by my cousins. I did well in the college entrance examination. I was admitted to the second university. My mother sneered: "It's not a famous university. No school. Come down early to earn money. " The next day, I packed my bags and followed a distant cousin into the construction site.

Later I was introduced to my ex-wife. Her family is very rich, and two factories have been made public. My ex-wife hurt her face when she was a child, but she didn't leave any scars, except for her weak left eye, which was almost invisible. Because of this defect, her family wanted to find a door-to-door son-in-law, but there was no suitable candidate. My parents heard that this family didn't want a bride price and had a car and a house, so they agreed for me.

In this way, my parents didn't pay a penny, but also received tens of thousands of dollars from my father-in-law, and they "married" me out. My ex-wife and I don't have deep feelings, but I really want to live a stable life with my ex-wife. I thought I could be quiet, but I didn't expect everything to be luxurious. Soon after she got married, she asked me for money again and again. Without exception, all the excuses are my younger brother, buying a mobile phone, a computer, clothes, shoes and a girlfriend, all of which have become the reasons for my mother to call for money.

I began to scrimp and save money behind my ex-wife's back. It started at 32,000 yuan. Later, my ex-wife found out about it and didn't blame me. She also offered to give my mother 2000 yuan a month as a filial piety to the elderly, and told me not to make money with my mother. Our forbearance did not satisfy our mother's desire. On the contrary, she intensified and demanded more. Once she said that she was in poor health and wanted to see a doctor. She asked me for 5000 yuan, but I couldn't take it out at the moment. I talked to her for a few days, and my mother thought I didn't give her money on purpose, so she ran to her ex-wife's office and made a big scene. There was a lot of noise in the factory, and even the old father-in-law knew about it, which had a particularly bad influence.

My father-in-law was very dissatisfied with me when he learned that I often gave money to subsidize my parents. Originally, the son-in-law felt dependent on others. My mother and my brother have been asking for money, but my ex-wife finally couldn't help it and often quarreled with me. I think their whole family is getting more and more disgusted with me, and my wife and I are gradually disappearing.

I finally chose a divorce and went out clean. The child is over two years old and takes his father-in-law's surname. Their family conditions are good and their children will not be wronged. As a man, I have always been too timid in my life, just like a pawn of my parents, at their mercy. This time, I decided not to be cowardly, but to live bravely for myself.

After the divorce, I felt very relaxed, so I hung up on my mother and brother. I packed my things and said goodbye to my ex-wife and children. I didn't go home, but took the train going north. I hope that in the future, I can break into a small world on my own.