Teach you how to maintain a good relationship

Teach you how to maintain a good relationship

Teach you how to maintain a good relationship

One: Make time for each other.

1, set aside romantic time.

Although "date night" sounds reluctant, you and your partner should meet at least once a week if you can't date often. If that sounds too tacky, then you don't need to call it "date night", but you should set a goal, at least once a week, to spend a good time with others without being disturbed.

On date night, you can do the same thing, such as cooking together and then going to the movies, or adding some spices and making something new. If you don't go home that night, you can light candles and play some light music to create a romantic atmosphere.

Whatever you do, make sure you have time to chat together. If you go to a noisy concert, you can't have a good chat.

Learn to say no on "date night". Your best friend may beg you to go to a bar, but if you have arranged a date, tell them that you can't go and plan to go again next week. If you are always willing to give up "date night", you will ruin many things. You should always keep your appearance beautiful, tell each other your love for each other and have a long talk with each other all night.

2. At least once a week.

You don't have to put it on your schedule, I hope you don't, but you should consciously try to do it once a week, no matter how tired you are after work or how busy you are that week.

* * * is always the way to stay close. You should also take the time to hug and kiss, and don't let the other person feel that "* * *" is just a routine.

3. Take some time to talk.

Maybe you are really busy, but you should try to talk every day, no matter how many things you need to do. You can talk while eating, and you can call each other when you are separated.

Get into the habit of understanding each other's lives. Maybe you are tired of knowing every detail of each other's life, but you should get used to each other's daily life. If you are apart for a week, you can set at least fifteen minutes to talk to each other and remind your lover how much you love him and miss him. When you are talking, you should not be distracted by other things. If you are playing games or watching your mobile phone at the same time, it is not a real chat.

Two: Maintain stable communication.

1, be honest.

Honesty is the key to any lasting relationship. In order to maintain your stable relationship, you should be able to treat that special person openly. You should be able to share your closest thoughts and feelings with the people you love, otherwise you won't really communicate.

Don't be afraid to tell him if he lets you down. Confessing your feelings will help you solve the problem. If you are upset, confession is far better than passive attack. Share your feelings with the people you love. If you are really upset about things at work or what your mother said, don't just keep it to yourself.

Know when not to talk. Although honesty is almost always the best strategy, you don't need to share every feeling with the person you love. For example, if you don't like his new shirt or find his new friend annoying, it goes without saying. Real opportunity. If you want to reveal something important, you must talk about it when the person you love has time and is relatively relaxed. If he has time to listen, he will accept what you say more easily.

2. learn to compromise.

Happiness should be more important than winning or losing in any stable relationship. If you want your relationship to last, you should learn how to make a decision with the person you love, and find a way to be happy with your decision, or take turns taking off your shoes for each other. How is it done here? When making a decision, ask your loved ones to rate it, from 1 to 10, to see the importance of the decision. Then talk about why this is important to both of you, and what can be done to make it look less important.

Be considerate. When you make a decision, take time to discuss its advantages and disadvantages and how to make concessions to the other party.

Take turns making concessions on small decisions. If you choose a restaurant on a date night, let the other person choose a movie.

Make sure that both sides have a compromise. If the other party always gives in, just because you are persistent, so you always get what you want in the end, then this is not compromise.

3. Learn to say sorry.

That's the point. If you want to achieve a long-term relationship, then you must learn how to say sorry from time to time. Emotionally, admitting mistakes is much more important than being stubborn.

If you do something wrong, learn to apologize. It may take a long time to know that you are wrong, but you should also apologize for what you have done. Make sure you're serious. Really, look each other in the eye. If you apologize just because you have to say it, it doesn't make any sense. Learn to accept an apology from your lover. If your lover truly admits his mistake, then you should stop being tit for tat.

4. Tell the person you love how important he is to you.

Never forget to say "I love you" and don't take your feelings for granted. You should tell the person you love that you love him every day-several times a day if you can. Remember, there is a difference between "I love you" and "I love you"-say it sincerely. Always praise the person you love. Tell her that she looks beautiful in her new skirt, or that you like her smile.

Always thank the people you love. Don't take her help and kindness for granted. Always tell the person you love how special she is. Don't forget to make him feel special.

Three: move on.

1, looking for new interests, * * * pursuing.

Feelings are like sharks-if you don't advance, you will retreat. You should try to keep your feelings fresh, so that your relationship will not just become a part of daily life. One way is to find new interests that you can pursue together, so that you can have some exciting things and enjoy * * * *.

Go dancing together every week. This will bring you happiness and increase your mutual affection. Find a hobby with similar interests. Try to take painting or pottery classes, or fall in love with traveling. Have classes together. Try to learn a new language or take a history class together.

Training for a race together. Whether you are training 5000 meters or running a marathon, this is a good way to get closer. Do things outside your comfort zone. Try hiking, mountain biking or skating. Doing things that you are completely unfamiliar with can bring you closer.

2. Make the bedroom full of freshness.

If you want to maintain a healthy relationship, then you must maintain a healthy sex life. Although you may not be together for five years, you should try something new in your bedroom. In this way, you can still have fun in sex, and what you do is still like an adventure.

Use a new posture. Don't always do the same thing, even if it is useful. You can even find new poses together, which is also a great foreplay. In a new place * * *. Don't always be in the bedroom-try the sofa, the kitchen table, or even go to the hotel in broad daylight. You can buy some strange things in the sex shop.

3. Travel to a new place.

Although vacation is not a long-term plan to love life, traveling together can take you away from the old perspective and let you appreciate your other half in a new way. In addition, planning a trip together will bring you some new expectations.

Plan the trip you've always wanted to go. If you have been talking about going to Paris for the past seven years and you have enough money, it's time to realize your dream. Short trip. Even if it's only an hour's drive to the forest or the seaside, it can keep your feeling fresh. Second honeymoon. If you are married and have spent your honeymoon, you can have a second honeymoon to commemorate your love.