My roommate has been lending me a meal card for dinner, but he won't invite me back. What should I do?

Many people have different personalities and get along with others in different ways. I've met such people, and it seems natural for me to lend you something. We will not only feel grateful or even guilty, but also think we should borrow it. Some people say that this is mutual help between classmates. Well, I really don't understand this idea and really want to be angry.

I think this kind of person should talk to her about the bottom line of friendship first. Even friends have a bottom line. If you want to borrow my meal card. I am willing to lend it to you as a friend, and I have done my best to help my roommates. Many times, helping others is more about getting gratitude and return.

If the other party takes advantage of our kindness, it becomes our weakness. If we push our luck again, then we really have to fight back properly. Some people really don't like it. You have to explain it to her and pay her back.

However, I feel that if you need to make a clear bottom line with someone, there may be cracks in this friendship. My suggestion is that if she doesn't lend you much money for cooking, you should make a clear bottom line and don't let her pay it back. If she really thinks she has a problem, she will give it back to you on her own initiative.

We mainly focus on things that are not suitable for people. If we had more money, of course we would pay it back. After all, parents' hard-earned money is spent on school. Of course, if you don't want to destroy the relationship between two people, you don't have to say it directly. You can find some euphemistic reasons or ask other roommates to convey them euphemistically. This is a better solution.

In a word, everyone's personality is different. Maybe some things are handled differently. Maybe your roommate thinks it's just a meal. . ε=(? ο ` *)) Alas, people have mixed feelings ~ But we still have to have our own position!