Mother-in-law dislikes daughter-in-law: I want her son to divorce and remarry because daughter-in-law is too selfish

My wife and I have raised a son and a daughter. Now that the children are married, we should be relieved that we have completed the most important task in life, but my daughter-in-law’s behavior is so irritating. .

After our son got married, we treated our daughter-in-law as our own daughter. Because we had only one son in front of us, and our daughter also got married, our thoughts were focused on our son and daughter-in-law, thinking about the harmony of our family and their beautiful life. Living a good life, isn’t this better than anything else?

When my daughter-in-law came over, I didn’t let her into the kitchen. She only opened her mouth for food, and I didn’t let her take away the dishes and chopsticks. As for her, it seemed that thanks to us treating her, she wished she could live in her parents’ house more often. When I came back, my neighbor asked me, "Has your wife gone back to her parents' house again?"

I don’t even know how to answer. Although I am so good to her, I still don’t want to stay in my own home. If I say that I abused her and she is like this, I feel better. It’s really frustrating. The fire has no place to start.

The old man advised me that newlyweds are probably like this. They are not used to living in the in-laws’ house, so they can just wait for a long time. However, after my eldest grandson was born, my daughter-in-law still did not change her problem, and instead returned to her more frequently.

Not only does she have to go back to her parents’ home, but she also takes my son to work during the busy farming season. Although we have finished the work in our own fields, I feel sorry for my son. After sitting at home, he still has to do the work at home The daughter-in-law's mother's family, he is so tired after working so hard!

One time it was very late, probably almost ten o'clock in the evening, when my son and his wife came back with their baby. The old man and I were watching TV and saw that my son was dirty and his shirt was soaked with sweat. Yes, he went to work for his daughter-in-law's family today. He thought he wouldn't come back, but he didn't expect that he would come back.

I felt sorry for my son and angry with my daughter-in-law, so I glared at my daughter-in-law and said something casually, which made her stomach ache every day!

Who knew that this would stir up a hornet's nest? My daughter-in-law asked me on the spot what I meant by saying this and insisted that I explain it to her. What can I mean? Do I have the nerve to say that I am just angry with you?

My daughter-in-law refused to let me go, saying that I lost my temper in such a loud and high-profile manner because it was obvious that I thought she had done something wrong. She asked me to tell her what she did wrong so that she could correct it, so as not to make me angry in the future. If something goes wrong, she can't afford the reputation.

I really want to bite off my tongue. Why do I say this more? I never imagined that my daughter-in-law has such a strong mouth. She usually doesn't talk much, but she is an unreasonable and unforgiving woman.

I just said it smoothly, I have no other meaning, so don’t think too much about it. The son also advised her to stop making trouble. What could mother dislike about you?

In this way, she took the child upstairs to sleep, and I breathed a sigh of relief. Lying on the bed, I tossed and turned and couldn't sleep. The more I thought about it, the more I felt wronged. I couldn't help but burst into tears. The more the old man tried to persuade me, the more upset I became. I couldn't stop crying when I heard the door upstairs open with a clang. The sound was The one who made such a noise on purpose must be the wife who got up.

I was afraid that she would come downstairs to make trouble again, so I didn’t dare to cry anymore. Fortunately, she didn’t come downstairs either.

No one mentioned it again the next day. It was as if I didn’t cry last night and she didn’t slam the door. She still called her mom when she should, and there was no awkwardness at all.

Ming couldn’t resist my wife, so I could only secretly shed tears to my son, saying that your wife would go back to her parents’ house all day long, wouldn’t others laugh at us because we had treated her badly? Can't you take care of her?

Not long after, the son beat his wife so that she would have this family in her eyes. Naturally, my daughter-in-law couldn't beat my son. She cried and said that my son was too selfish. She knew her mother was in poor health, so how could she not go back and take care of him? She also said that she knew she had not done what a daughter-in-law should do, and if we really disliked her, we would simply divorce her.

We all know the situation of her mother’s family. Her mother has leukemia and needs money for treatment. Her brother and sister-in-law work outside all year round to earn money, both to treat her mother’s illness and to make a living.

Although there is a reason, I still feel uncomfortable when she often goes back to her parents' home. Who can bear this when I marry a daughter-in-law who can't see anyone all day long and only takes care of her mother?

She was so selfish that she even had a fight with my son, and the divorce just happened to come up again. I wanted my son to agree to it, so that divorce would not be so bad, and I would marry a good woman for my son. Daughter-in-law, how wonderful it is to live your life wholeheartedly.

Should I take this opportunity to persuade my son to get a divorce? Can you please give me some advice?

Concluding remarks:

After reading Aunt Du’s narration, I was really angry. Why is she so impersonal at this age?

The daughter-in-law caused all kinds of troubles because her mother was in poor health and needed to be taken care of. She had no sympathy at all and wanted her son to divorce and marry another woman. If she gives up such a loving daughter-in-law and marries a troublesome one, causing trouble for the family, I'm afraid she will really regret it.