Good night [98 1]

1, young people in their twenties, but like middle-aged people in their forties, they only pay attention to practical problems. They walked together, worked hard to buy a house and a car, and never got any happiness they wanted.

They are only 50 years old, but they live a typical middle-aged husband and wife life.

Their stable life looks beautiful, but something seems to be missing.

They look young, but they are old. Maybe this is the real end.

2.22 to 28 years, we will pass quickly. It is these six years that have laid the foundation for the quality of life after the age of 30 and the future direction of life.

Whether boys or girls, if they lay a good career and economic foundation before marriage, it will undoubtedly be a great confidence and guarantee for their future.

It's better than leaving this important task to a marriage that can't actually realize too many fantasies.

If you don't grow up, no one will grow up for you

Don't let troubles dominate your life. Always remember that the mainstream of life is happiness.

Don't miss the blooming season for something or someone.

Every day there is bright sunshine, flowers bloom every day, and the world has always been beautiful. I think it's not beautiful because my mood is not clear enough.

Many things can only add a lot of trouble. In fact, if you let go of things that seem hard to give up, you will find that your world is wider.

4. the sentence of saying good night to yourself is not young. Just say you are young.

It's good to be alive when you see death.

When you are sad and frustrated, you can't say what's good about living.

However, if you don't live, you won't see the twists and turns of life, and you won't know that the pain you once thought was unbearable will pass.

When you think your heart is deserted, it blooms unexpectedly.

At that moment, all the desolation became a thing of the past.

Living is king.

5, don't entangle with the darkness, learn to abandon it! When you are tired and look back, the morning glow is smiling at you.

There is no invincible darkness, as long as there is sunshine in your heart; There is no invincible evil, as long as there is goodness in the heart; There is no invincible despair, as long as there is hope in your heart.

On this cool summer morning, please remember that a brave abandonment is worth countless curses on the darkness.

6. At one stage, I felt that my parents were unreasonable and wanted to stay as far away from home as possible.

Only when I left home did I find that they also had dreams, and they were once in their prime, but their dreams became mine, and it was good for them to live well.

Without me, their dreams would have come true long ago.

When you die for your feelings, when you are tired, think that your parents behind you are working hard for you. That's why you need to be strong today.

7. People who love to get up early in the morning glow warm their hearts in the rising sun.

Running on the road of hope, passion dispels the coolness of autumn; Bathed in the sunshine, the world is bright and brilliant.

Thoughts are integrated with the sky, and faith is as good as an early bird. Qi Fei, your soul has never been so calm, and your spirit has never been so high.

Good morning. She can make a small life become great in an instant, and the coward in life become brave in an instant.

A life full of resentment will only push you to the abyss of death.

People who have revenge are also suffering in their hearts.

People with hatred, if one day they can find their true nature and embark on the road of practice, will lose all their evil deeds, just like the dirt on their trouser legs.

Repay evil with kindness, and treat others with compassion, in order to find the pure land of the soul.

9. The great wise will be modest, the great good will be tolerant, only the little wise will be aggressive, and the little good will be more accounting.

Those who have great weather do not talk about ostentation and extravagance; Those who talk about ostentation and extravagance show a little weather.

Great talents are not artificial, and small talents are flashy; Great people are humble and peaceful, while small people are arrogant.

A truly elegant person must have an inclusive mind; A truly noble person is neither supercilious nor condescending to those who are stronger than himself, and treats those who are weaker equally.

10, when the love given by a woman makes her feel too heavy, she will think of escaping.

Enjoying love will also become asking for love, and the feelings of two people are no longer as pure as they were at the beginning.

Men are independent individuals, not women's personal belongings. They have their own social circle and their own territory. When a woman reaches into a territory where she shouldn't, a man will only think that a woman is unreasonable.

1 1. When we love someone, we usually have a tendency to control and possess, which is usually a requirement for courtiers. In that case, few people and others demand themselves at the same time, so there are contradictions and disputes.

On the way to reincarnation, it is not easy to be a relative, a lovemaker and a friend. Let's go on happily in trust and tolerance.

When arguing or doubting, think more about each other's good, and everything will be relieved.

12, if you say good night, the classic sentence smiles at others.

As long as your eyes show sincerity, even if this smile is just a glance, it will penetrate the dark clouds like a ray of sunshine and illuminate other people's hearts.

Smile, make your surroundings look like peach blossoms and spring with a broad and sincere smile.

Smile, it can give people a feeling of happiness and comfort.

People who feel a smile will get a happy return.

If you choose to smile, you will find that every day is full of happiness.

13, out-of-season vegetables are tasteless, and out-of-season children are less childlike.

Today's children mature too early, and their memories will lack the happiness of childhood.

Most parents want their children to mature as soon as possible. In fact, they are right to do so, but the bigger mistake is not only in parents, but in this competitive era.

Thankfully, at the moment of being catalyzed by speed, a few sober people began to pursue returning to nature.

14. Let go of the melancholy caused by loss, the disappointment caused by bumps, the pain caused by hardships, the desire for money, the persistence of power, and the entanglement of vanity.

Let go of those minor, trivial and unrealistic things with wisdom, and our world will be sunny, clear and Wan Li, and we will suddenly understand the true meaning of small house, big house and big.

15, the plane is fast, but the waiting time is not short; Donkeys are slow, but they can start at any time.

The difference is that one is fast but risky and the other is slow but safe; Similarly, everyone has to wait, one at the starting point and the other on the journey.

Waiting at the starting point, with different people, waiting to see different scenery on the journey.

If you can choose, you would rather have the leisurely and boundless scenery of donkey carts.

16, the good night in the circle of friends, is a common thing that we must face and endure. Whether it is exaggerating the facts or making something out of nothing, it is unbearable.

In the face of slander, we should take it lightly, believe that time will prove everything, and trust everyone's judgment.

Don't be angry or afraid of rumors that slander your reputation, but speak skillfully with facts.

Remember, the only person who can deny you is yourself.

17, Buddhism believes that all beings have Buddha nature.

Although the wisdom, stupidity, beauty, ugliness, wealth and dignity of all beings are different, when it comes to the noumenon of all beings, there is no difference.

It's like three animals crossing a river, full of depth, but not deep; Three birds are flying in the air, the traces are far and near, but the air is far and near.

Therefore, no one needs to belittle himself, and don't think that Buddhism is inscrutable and out of reach. As long as you put your heart into it, you can also appreciate the true meaning of Buddhism.

No matter how your parents criticize you, you are the best in their minds.

Because I want you to be better, I may criticize more, and sometimes, the criticism is even ugly.

Parents' expectations of you are always rising. Even if you are already excellent, in their view, you should be better.

Please don't be discouraged by your parents' criticism. You should be considerate of them. Their criticisms are often not necessarily correct.

19, when you should have backbone, you can stop it. You shouldn't hide and feel at ease. Will love, will care about people, will care about people, but will not pester people; Have thoughts, ideals, rationality, humor, and dare to laugh at themselves; I will be willing to lay down my body for the person I love, but other than that, I can move freely without looking at anyone's face; Have the enthusiasm and motivation to learn, make progress every day, but no longer expect praise from others.

20, a simple good night, talk about some people who are worried about money. They have 1 10,000 to 20,000, and they also have 200,000 to 300,000. But besides thinking about the pride of money, has he ever thought about the troubles of money? Less money may not be as arrogant as more money, but less money is not as worrying as more money. Small civilian families are not as worried about thieves and kidnappers as the rich, and I am afraid there are few tragedies of turning brothers against each other or even killing each other for property.

2 1, in many difficult times, you will ask yourself why everyone who has appeared has no result.

But it is these enterprising people who have made you who you are now: some people make you wash your hands and learn soup willingly, while others make you calm down to write and read books, so the whole person will become more and more beautiful.

At first, I stumbled into high heels. Of course, I don't think it was your calm way of wearing high heels that attracted that fruitful person.

22. Since the full moon is missing, it is natural that joys and sorrows are inevitable and life is inevitable. Why not let the initial impetuousness become thin in the sun, let sadness and sadness drift in the breeze, and let the wings of dreams fly under the blue sky? Appreciate the flowers when they bloom, face them calmly when they fall, appreciate the perfection of life, read our life with an elegant attitude, treat our friends with a friendly spirit and treat our world with an open mind.

23. Wine and wine culture are integrated, because the people who drink it are wrong and gradually alienated. As a result, there is only wine, and there is no wine culture.

Alcohol can relieve anxiety. In fact, it is not wine that relieves anxiety, but the atmosphere of drinking and the mood of the drinker.

Many people mistakenly think that the wine to relieve their worries is equivalent to drowning their worries, so the more they drink, the more they worry.

This is actually an ignorance of wine culture. Wine itself has no culture, but the people who drink it give it cultural connotation.

24. Good night, chicken soup for the soul is desperate. If you don't put this heart that flows with the world all day to death, it will be difficult to show its true colors. It's like wearing a mask all the time, and you can't take it off after a long time.

All beings are originally Buddhas, but their Buddha nature is hindered by delusion and persistence.

Without the courage to face it, there is no possibility of making a clean break.

Creditors will come to you at any time. It is better to face it than to hide for a lifetime.

25. Hold the first ray of sunshine in the morning, be silent in the melody of birdsong, and feel the heartbeat in the morning.

At this moment, whether you are in a dream or on a journey, in the East or in a distant country, at night or at dawn, in the morning or at dusk, please accept a morning sun and a ray of morning breeze that I give you. May your dreams be bright, your steps be relaxed, your body and mind bright and your faith firm.

My morning is yours too.

26, the old farmer's three sons: The first sentence, children, parents have no ability, you have to rely on yourself.

This is not arranged, and the responsibility is returned to the child so that the child has a sense of responsibility.

The second sentence, son, be a man ahead of time and never do anything that hurts others.

This is the standard to talk about virtue and tell children to be human.

The third sentence, son, open your hands and rush. Really can't. There's food at home.

This is selfless love, endless love.

27. After three years of love, she cooked soup for him for three years. She never worries about her illness and bad taste. She asked him to buy sour powder near Dongjie, and there were two stops to Dongjie.

He bought powder nearby and stayed at home for a while.

She took a bite and stopped to say, thank you.

Then I ate it all at once, and tears welled up in my eyes.

He thinks women cheat easily.

She broke up.

Ask why, answer, acid powder.

Right here? Right here.

The needle tip is relatively large.

The needle tip is also injured.

28. Good night suitable for WeChat hair circle brings people six degrees of world virtue: giving is not only rich, but also developing contentment.

Keeping precepts can not only bring happiness to people, but also cultivate moral perfection.

Endure humiliation can not only get a solemn appearance, but also cultivate kindness.

Diligence is not only a complete success, but also a perseverance.

Meditation can not only get inner peace, but also develop a steady behavior.

Wisdom not only gains physical and mental comfort, but also develops awareness.

29. Everyone has different interpretations of love, but it is necessary to be loyal to the soul and freedom.

Just as happiness cannot be copied, everyone's love itself shows an attitude towards life and a world view.

Of course, it is more about the quality of will and the scale of inner morality that we show when we experience storms on the road of love.

After all, love is essentially a promise and oath between two hearts.

30. Everyone who appears in your life has a reason.

People who like you give you warm care.

The person you like makes you learn to love and give, while the person you don't like makes you introspect and grow.

People you don't like teach you tolerance and respect No one appears in your life by accident. Everyone appears for a reason. Maybe I didn't know it at the time, and I didn't realize it until things changed.

Cherish the people around you and always be grateful to the people you meet.

1, every opponent is the best teacher, and his opponent teaches more than his friends.

Why do we want friends instead of rivals? Because I advocate simplicity and hate complexity.

Teaching your opponent is complicated, but teaching your friend is simple.

Complex because of mutual vigilance, simple because of mutual trust.

Life is so short, no one really wants to be a good student of his opponent, and people's hearts are so unpredictable that most people still have to pay their tuition.

2, good night, warm heart One day, you began to doubt what you once believed.

Don't be confused, maybe this is maturity.

In a sense, maturity is sad, and it is a process of abandoning "self" all the way.

Secular always tries to turn everyone into a unified model, so it is easy to manage.

Maturity helps you get a lot of things, but you give up the right to be yourself freely.

The so-called success is to use the most expensive, in exchange for your most precious.

People who are kind and honest in heart often look at people and things from the bright side. When interacting with people, they always think that others will think well and do well as themselves, so they dare to treat each other as good people and trust others. So they can be lucky to create a friendly and trusting environment for themselves, because everyone has a kind side and a trustworthy side, just need to be inspired by friendship and trust.

If you can convince yourself to accept the people who have hurt yourself from the heart, it is not difficult to change them from action.

A tolerant and forbearing heart can influence anyone and anything. As long as you are sincere, you can turn evil into good.

When there is hatred in our hearts, please try to be calm, change our mentality and face it with forgiveness and understanding.

The real forgiveness is not that I don't care about you, but that I take the initiative to mend fences with others.

No matter how perfect you are, some people will be dissatisfied with you, and some people will bore you.

Don't be perfect for people, there is no need to be harsh on people. People there should hope for the best and make a final effort, but prepare for the worst and hold the best attitude.

Don't get tired of a person easily, it's too tired.

Beautiful things, locked in memory, are often tasted; Throw away the garbage in the gap of time, which has nothing to do with you.

6, emotional good night, ordinary life is a kind of light life. Even if life is not vigorous and admired by future generations, all this makes people feel the sacredness and dignity of existence.

Ordinary is by no means shallow, indulgent and mediocre, let alone enterprising.

Life is ordinary. As long as you work hard, take responsibility and realize the value of your existence, ordinary people are attractive and noble.

7. When a wife serves her husband, there are five points to pay attention to: first, when her husband returns home, he should get up and open the door to greet him and treat him with courtesy; Second, if the husband is not at home, he should clean the environment at home, prepare meals and tea, and wait for him to come home; Third, don't have sex with other men, don't be scolded by your husband and go back to change your face; Fourth, listen to her husband's advice, and all family property should not be hidden; Fifth, after the husband goes to bed, he can do housework before going to bed.

8. In fact, many things in life, study and work are very simple, so don't worry too much. So are life, love and ideals.

Sometimes people take too many hard roads, but they don't realize that some roads are completely unnecessary.

Some people rush forward desperately when they see others leave, thinking that they can reach heaven after a lot of efforts, but in the end they know that heaven is their original place.

9. Diligence and happiness are the eternal themes of life pursuit, and everyone is eager to have more happiness.

However, some people live very tired and unhappy. They often blame others, blame others, blame others, blame fate, blame their careers, and blame family discord. These are not decisive factors that affect happiness. What really determines your happiness or not is your own mind and openness.

10, good night quotations in a word: when you fall in love with this lover now, you think your life will turn around and all the problems will be solved at once.

After years of baptism, love is still in each other's hearts, but your problems remain.

Rumor: Never think that love is a panacea to solve problems, and don't think that others have an obligation to actively change your life.

Love may help you grow, but it can't cure your problems.

1 1. Situation: Your lover is experiencing a personal crisis and there is nothing you can do.

You made every effort to make her happy, but it was useless. It seems that the harder you work, the more unhappy she is.

Rumor: striving for happiness may be counterproductive; Working too hard will not necessarily bring happiness, but will bring deeper sadness.

Just at this moment, relax, don't force a change, let everything disappear, and you will find happiness.

12, people, always look at the problem from another angle.

Autumn leaves are sad and romantic, lazy and nostalgic; Running water, weak and persistent, short and eternal, is a kind of thinking and a kind of belief; In life, there are all kinds of helpless and beautiful expectations, such as entanglement, liberation, choice and abandonment.

No forgiveness, no future; Without a post, there is no distance; Without the endless sight before us, there would be no heroic life.

13, people are either proud or frustrated, no matter what kind of mentality comes from the body.

Where you are, even physical pain can always affect people's psychological state.

So the so-called cultivation, in a word, is to cultivate a heart that is not moved by material circumstances.

Being able to succeed or fail suddenly without being surprised, and imposing humiliation on yourself for no reason without being moved, is to have a calm and wisdom to smile at the flowers.

14, Weibo Good night Life is like water.

No matter where it flows, you must learn to adapt to the terrain.

In the water pipe, we lurk.

In the stream, we will flow slowly and enjoy the beautiful scenery along the way.

In the river, we will speed up the race with the fish.

In the sea, we stretch and feel free.

We should have a correct attitude, face everyone and everything, treat them positively and do what we should do.

15, all the beautiful moments in life, we can't stay.

Everyone lives in change, and everyone's life is changing.

Then, whether a person's life is wonderful or not lies not in how many treasures he keeps, but in how many wonderful moments he wants to stay but can't. It is these moments that constitute a flowing feast in his life.

Of course, it is sad not to stay, and it is even more sad never to want to stay.

16, the greatest success in life is to make yourself happy.

There are many kinds of success, but no matter what kind of success, it is to make yourself happy.

Mature people will not rely on others to give you happiness, but strive for it by themselves.

Happiness doesn't always exist. Living a life like hell and being happy like heaven is your success.

The greatest success in life is to cultivate a good attitude and keep yourself happy.

17, life day after day, the same rhythm, wasted years have changed you and me.

Dare not mention change, even dare not change the route to work.

I didn't think about getting anything, but I was afraid of losing everything and stumbled into life in suffering.

I suddenly remembered my forgotten dream in the middle of the night, and finally realized that life has not changed us, but what kind of life we should choose.

18. wechat circle good night. If you meet such a person, I will take you around by bike on weekends, treat you to breakfast in the morning and urge you to sleep at night, and take you to eat delicious food. He loves how fat you are. When it's cold, he tells you to put on more clothes and take care of you when relatives come. When people are crowded, I will hold your hand tightly, make you laugh when you cry, and refuse all ambiguity for you. You are the only one in the world.

If you meet him, cherish him and get ready to spend your life with him.

19, if I am kind, don't think I am weak, because I understand that kindness is nature, and being a man can't be evil.

If I have patience, don't think I'm shrinking, because I know, swallow my pride and make way for heaven.

If I am tolerant, don't think I am timid, because I understand that tolerance is a virtue, and there is nothing wrong with virtue.

If I forgive, don't think I have no principles, because I understand that I have to forgive others and I have to forgive others. I can't do everything.

20. In life, when you find a person who can make you lose your temper at will and let you mess around at will, it must be someone who has a deep relationship with you.

Psychologically speaking, people will subconsciously feel dependent on the closest people, and only those who can make you feel safe will you release yourself at will.

And some people, you can only be polite to him and reciprocate, which can only be called a friendship between gentlemen as light as water.

2 1, charitable, widely planted in Futian.

Give to others, and evil will be rewarded again and again.

They are all planted by themselves, and of course they are harvested by themselves.

Everything you give will come back to you.

If you are cold to others, others will be cold back; If you often criticize others, you will also be criticized a lot; If you always put on a bad face, yes, others will not give you a good face.

Everything you give will come back to you.

22, good night, talk about your own things, many aspects determine the perspective of the problem.

Standing at the foot of the mountain is the height, climbing the mountain may be the width; What you see behind is the back of others, and walking in front will inevitably be seen by others.

Because the width is highly neglected, because the negative smile behind is biased.

To truly understand and correctly evaluate a person and a thing, we must first conduct in-depth observation from many aspects and angles.

23. Everyone has a temper, but learn to converge, observe in silence, think calmly, and don't let the impulsive devil lead to irreparable mistakes; Everyone has a dream, but we should be based on reality, approach through hard work, persist in patience, and don't talk empty talk. People who are always determined to win have no ambition. Everyone has a bottom line, but we must know how to grasp it. We should stress principles in major events and be measured in minor ones. It's hard for others to support us without mercy. Excessive hypocrisy also makes people avoid it.

24. As the saying goes, talk on paper is too shallow, and you never know what to do.

The best and only way to get something is to put it into action.

Actions are always more convincing than theories.

If you only have theory but no action, you will accomplish nothing like Zhao Kuo's theory on paper. On the contrary, if you can learn knowledge and pay more attention to action, then you will be one step closer to the success you desire.

25. Time will not stay for anyone, and it will be treated equally.

Years give everyone the same time, and how to grasp it can only depend on yourself.

It's not that the years are ruthless, but that I didn't cherish them.

Time will not care for you because of your cowardice, will not understand you because of your ignorance, and will not subsidize you because of your extravagance.

It is fair and selfless, the same for everyone, and will not change because of any factors.

26, good night friends circle to talk about all changes, are accompanied by pain, if not painful, it will be painful.

Bitterness is the best medicine, which can make us abandon mediocrity, refuse to be numb and not be left behind.

You know, pain is only the down payment for success and victory. The more tastes you have, the wider your space will be.

No one can take away your pain, you must face everything yourself.

Learn to stand up in pain, don't soak in bitter water for too long, it's worth it.

27. I was surprised to hear that there was a private club in the Forbidden City. I thought that rich people would not make such a choice because they were unlucky.

Therefore, in the past, rich people mostly looked at money. Once money becomes old money, doesn't that mean that all these rich people will become old-fashioned rich people? It doesn't matter if the rich can't breathe. The most unfortunate thing is that once people are associated with the word money, they will be remembered by thieves. Where the rich go, thieves will naturally follow.

28. Through lifelong efforts, we may get enviable world benefits such as famous cars and luxurious houses.

We used to think that with these, we would live a happy life.

But after really having money, I found that the price paid was too heavy.

What is even more frustrating is that the happiness now may not be more than before, but the healthy body is gone forever, the pure thoughts are defiled and the happiness disappears.

29, the same bird song, some people listen to the beauty of nature, some people listen to chatter; On the same morning, some people regard love and praise as symbols of hope, while others regard complaining and even cursing as mean supervisors.

Different people have different mornings, but the mornings never vary from person to person. She dedicated her innate enthusiasm, tolerance, charity and love to all beings, asking for nothing in return and not caring about any praise or criticism.

30. The retreat and outlet of chicken soup for the soul, forward and backward, a pair of complementary philosophical topics, need each of us to explore and explore constantly on the road of life.

If we can really grasp the philosophical connotation of advance and retreat, maybe our life will take fewer detours and experience fewer difficulties and setbacks.

How to advance and retreat is a profound knowledge of life.

Just like life is impermanent and things are changeable, it takes a lifetime to understand and experience.