"Daughter-in-law, I want to move back." Should my mother-in-law pay for remarriage?

My mother-in-law was single for many years in her early years. Anyway, when I came in, she was a widow for many years. I also asked my husband who his boyfriend was at that time. He said that his father left when he was only a teenager. Later, the unit compensated a sum of money. It is with this living allowance that the mother and son can spend so many years smoothly.

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Although her mother-in-law lost her husband in middle age, she has not suffered in recent years. At least, she lives well without working. The house where my husband lives was also bought when my father-in-law was alive. In a word, fate still has some pity on her.

When I came in, she gave me a faint look, but she didn't like me very much. In short, she kept a polite distance from me. I think it's because I haven't been in the door for a long time. When we get to know each other, she will understand what kind of person I am and get close.

It's normal to get along with her after marriage, and she doesn't make things difficult for me, but she doesn't stay at home much at ordinary times. She always goes out to square dance and play cards whenever she has time. My husband and I usually go to work, take care of each other's affairs, and don't care much about each other's affairs.

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Just when my son was three years old, suddenly her mother-in-law said she wanted to remarry. To tell the truth, I didn't say anything beforehand. When did she start dating? Who and how old was she? She told us nothing. Getting married is such a big thing, you have to take each other home for dinner and walk around, right?

She kept the secret. We don't want to interfere in her marital affairs. If my mother-in-law can get happiness and find a home, that is also a good thing, but she is so wary of us, which is somewhat difficult to understand. What happened later said it all. She took all the compensation money left by her father-in-law, leaving only this house for me, my husband and my son.

On the first day of marriage, she told us frankly that she brought up her son, and now that her grandson has been born, her responsibility to her dead wife and this family has come. We have no words and no obstacles.

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After my mother-in-law remarried to the other party, she didn't have much contact with us. Usually she doesn't come back to see her son and grandson. Only on New Year's Day will we bring our children to visit us. Our nominal stepfather is cold and always stays in front of us. We didn't even have a chance to whisper to our mother-in-law.

It depends. I'm afraid we have something to send privately, and if we want to receive it, my mother-in-law will give us his things. Gradually, our hearts are getting cold, and there are fewer and fewer opportunities to visit. Over the years, my mother-in-law has been helping her stepson take care of her grandson. Ten years have passed in a blink of an eye, and my son 13 years old. The two sides live in peace. When it comes to relationships, they are only written in words, leaving no sincere feelings in real life.

Not long ago, another old man left, and her mother-in-law's stepson and daughter-in-law didn't want to take care of the old man with big children, saying that she was going to live in a nursing home.

My mother-in-law refused. She called me back the day before yesterday and said, "Daughter-in-law, I want to move back." I can't figure it out. Feelings come from each other. There is really no affection between me and her. Where are the obligations and responsibilities? So I said to her, "Mother-in-law, why should I pay for your remarriage?"

People have the initiative to choose their own lives. Judging from what this lady said, it's no big deal that her mother-in-law remarried and even took her husband's compensation. After all, she is an adult and has the right to pursue happiness no matter how old she is.

At the same time, she is the legal first heir to her husband's estate. Her son is an adult, married and has children, and her grandson remarried at the age of three. For this family and her children, being a mother has really done her duty. It is certain that adults should go their own way in life.

It's just that after nearly ten years of remarriage, the old man was too unfamiliar with his family of origin and didn't take care of both aspects, which made his son and daughter-in-law have a sense of identity with their feelings. The daughter-in-law mainly can't figure out this reason. However, according to the law of our country, as a biological son, the daughter-in-law still has the responsibility to support her if the other party gives up foster care. Daughter-in-law should consult with her husband before making a reasonable rather than impulsive decision.