What is the most hypocritical affection you know?

To say the most hypocritical affection is definitely the affection of the mother-in-law's family. Every day, new types of funny plays are staged, and sometimes people can laugh.

One year, their family set up a family group, bringing in all the immediate and distant relatives. It was quite lively at first. Everyone greeted us inside, and it slowly deteriorated, and fewer and fewer people spoke, because there was an aunt X who danced too much in it. She stared at our rich relatives and praised us for goose bumps.

Aunt x is the relative I mentioned before who can borrow money and not pay it back. As far as qualifications are concerned, this rich relative is his nephew. Aunt x greets and flatters others from time to time like worshipping ancestors in a group, and what she says is particularly disgusting. At first glance, it looks like subordinates bow to their leaders and grandchildren bow to their grandfathers. It's a pity that people always ignore her and let her play alone there.

Once this nephew had a birthday, and Aunt X was very funny. She began to pay New Year greetings to others early in the morning, wishing them a happy birthday and all kinds of blessings. As a result, people still ignore her. It was drunk to see such an embarrassing scene in the morning, and no one in the group said anything to help her mourn.

After a while, my nephew's son celebrated his birthday. Aunt X greeted his son, a child less than 3 years old, and was even more disgusted. This is absolutely unique. The elders don't look like elders, they kneel there like pugs. The problem is that people didn't respond to her. It is difficult for her to maintain her high enthusiasm for many years.

Aunt x is not so enthusiastic about her relatives who have no money, as if all her affection is exhausted on those rich relatives, especially the nephew. Once, a relative with poor economic conditions came back from other places and passed by her house. She wanted to see her and asked if she was in. Aunt X, who skipped around every day, actually started to play dead and disappeared all day. It's funny to think about it.

This kind of hypocritical affection is what people often call "plastic affection" on the Internet. They don't feel the mutual care between their relatives at all. They just stare at a pair of snobs and watch others eat vegetables to get some benefits for themselves. It is better to stay away from such relatives.

Let me tell you my real experience. My most hypocritical affection actually comes from my mother. I never grew up with her. I got married and had children, and she didn't cost me a penny. The child has never bought anything since he was so big. The only time I said I bought new clothes for my children, I was very moved. I didn't expect to take it home and see that it was someone else's old clothes. My clothes are full of greasy ideas, and there are pieces of paper in my pocket. I am so angry. Although she didn't spend money on me, I bought a lot of clothes she wore. Her monthly salary is also very high (second highest), and she has been crying poor all her life. I always feel that although money can't fully represent the relationship between people, is it a bit hypocritical for a person who doesn't even want to spend money to say hello to you?

Speaking of family ties, everyone is actually looking forward to it. Yes, people are emotional animals, and they all want to get the three major feelings in life, family, friendship and love. But in fact, the reality is always cruel, and ordinary people really rarely get these three feelings completely, especially family ties.

I still remember that when we were preparing to buy a house that year, we were two novices who had just left school, but we wanted to have a home of our own, so we wanted to buy a house of our own. In the end, we got 65,438+million yuan, which was about 200,000 yuan short of the down payment of my favorite house. What should I do with the gap of 200 thousand yuan? The house is hard to find, and I don't want to give up, but where does the money come from? If you want to go, you should borrow it from everyone. After all, both families have good relations and are relatively rich (the family property is estimated to be several million). As long as you say something, you should be able to borrow money easily I hope we can find our relatives separately. On my side, I really didn't expect that when I found her, she spoke before I could say anything. Hey, you have no idea how stressful it is at home. Your brother is getting married, the house needs to be renovated, and he has to buy a car with him ... which makes our couple very angry, so, ah. After hearing what she said, I think she might be afraid that I borrowed too much. I immediately understood that we didn't need to borrow a lot of money. If you are well off, please lend me 50,000 yuan for a rainy day. Return the year-end bonus to you during the Chinese New Year. I can write you an iou ... After hearing this, she not only didn't mean to lend me, but also asked me, how many year-end bonuses do you have? I'm afraid you can't finish it in a year or two with your current income. What should I do when I need it urgently? ..................................................................................................................................................................................

Besides, my husband's side is better than mine. We also borrowed about 6.5438+0.2 million yuan from relatives, but we had no money ... Of course, we had the cheek to borrow the remaining 80,000 yuan from friends and colleagues ... Of course, we also bought a house successfully. ...

Since I experienced this incident, to be honest, I have really seen the feelings between me and her thoroughly, wasting my previous trust in her and her. But since I experienced this, I never asked her again. Although we are still relatives on the surface, I really blame her from the bottom of my heart, but to be honest, I don't hate her. On the contrary, I feel much stronger because of her, and it is because of her contempt that I am inspired. Maybe I really didn't wake up without her. Because of her words, I was completely awakened. In this world, it is better to lean on the ground than to rely on yourself. Really, you have to rely on yourself, even the closest people. If you have no ability, others will despise you. In fact, others really have no obligation to help you. After all, you are not her child, are you?

Therefore, in life, you should stand on your own feet and not rely on anyone. You can live openly and honestly by yourself, or you can live rain or shine ... So, for your own life, instead of complaining about others here, it is better to work hard as early as possible.

My husband's brothers and sisters all have jobs and even earn more money than we do. However, they all pretend to be poor and keep reaching out to us for, want, want. My husband is too kind, and his life is frugal and frugal. As long as they ask, he never refuses. They took their brothers' money one by one and lived a dissolute life. That lazy nephew, ignorant and lazy, has been asking us to raise him for 30 years. In the year when my husband was diagnosed with cancer, all his brothers and sisters were playing the disappearing game. No one ever asked about my husband's illness until he died at the end of February this year. These people who are related by blood are cruel and heartless things, and they never know how to be grateful. They are heartless baiwenhang.

I have a cousin. At the age of 2, his father died, his mother remarried, and there was only one child at home. My grandfather and my father pity him for going to school. In order to pay for his college tuition, my father sold the land left at home to my two brothers to build a house at a low price.

Later, he finished college and came out to work. He got married. My dad contributed money and gave a room in his old house to their family of three. No one has lived in the house for many years, but I went back to live in the New Year and didn't need him to pay the rent. Finally, I didn't thank them.

When I got married, I told him a month in advance that there might be a difference of 10 thousand to 20 thousand when ordering wine. He may have to prepare first, but he doesn't have to use it. He also agreed at that time. But the night before I set the wine, I asked him, and he actually said no, saying that he had lent it to someone else. Now that he has only a few thousand dollars on him, I immediately got angry and thought of my big day the next day. Ok, I can bear it!

Up to now, once he and my brother-in-law came to my house to scold my dad, and my dad came second, and my cousin called me uncle. They don't know where they heard that my father swallowed my grandfather's money. I went. My father never asked my grandfather for a penny after he finished high school, built a house and bought a car. My cousin actually said to my dad, "I owe my dad too much in my life. I don't think I can afford it, and I don't intend to pay it back!" " Is that what people say? Dogs wag their tails, too

It's only a matter of time before I get a chance to scold him or hit him directly.

True story in the village: the old lady has three daughters. Her family used to be poor. The eldest daughter farmed with her father when she was thirteen or fourteen. Later, when she grew up, she went outside the village to earn tuition for her two sisters.

Her second sister has been admitted to the university, and she has been working for her sister to study.

Third sister is a poor student. She went to the city as an apprentice, which is also the elder sister's money.

Later, the eldest sister married a local farmer in the village and lived a very poor life. One of her two sisters is a civil servant, and the other is married to a technician in the factory. In a word, she lives better than her sister.

Their father died three years ago, and their mother suffered from Alzheimer's disease. Neither of the two sisters wanted to take care of their mother, so they put the blame on their elder sister, saying that it was more convenient for her to live in the country.

However, even if the elder sister is convenient to take care of, isn't the younger one obligated to give money to support her mother?

At that time, I leaned against my sister and ate bit by bit. Now that my wings are hard, I have a bright future when I step on my sister's back, but I have broken my word. Not to mention caring about my sister and my birth mother. This kind of affection is really chilling.

But it's not finished. The year before last, there was talk about land development, what station to build outside the village and local demolition (which later proved to be false news). The two youngest daughters came back with fruit and coaxed the old lady into saying that all three daughters are the same, and everyone should share a share.

This hypocritical affection is too bad for people. Might as well not.

The most hypocritical affection is always thinking about your own money, but pretending to be a special affection.

I know a woman who can be described as "a model for saying anything about her father, mother, brother, husband and children".

She is an ordinary worker and her family conditions are actually good. Her parents both have jobs and have a little savings at home. After work, her salary is not low, and she has a small surplus every month. For a time, she suddenly wanted to do business, so she cheated her parents into giving money to help her. When my parents started their business in unknown so, they made their first investment and went to Shui Piao, but they kept fooling their parents at home and said that they would take their parents out for a trip in the future.

But parents are not stupid. Although they like her very much, they know that doing business with her is not reliable, so they just listen and don't invest. As soon as she turned her face, she swore, saying that Erzong was always ignorant and unlucky, and clung to money.

Later, she found someone and they got married. The object's work was not smooth, and she bought it out in the unit, only tens of thousands of dollars. She took the money to do business and left her children with her parents.

Her mother has to take care of her father and children. She was so tired that she died of a cerebral hemorrhage. When she came back, she even swore, "If the old man doesn't look after the children, she will die!" She was so angry that her family kicked her out.

She continued to do business, thinking about her dream of getting rich every day and spending all her money on her partners. The object also divorced her in anger.

There is only one child left. After finishing primary school, the child went to junior high school and studied poorly. She let the children play at home. Others said it wouldn't work. She said she didn't have a job after she went to college! Let's recruit people later! As a result, I quit my job and played games at home every day, becoming fat and lazy. Ruined the child.

It is said that she is eloquent, cheated her brother into giving her a guarantee, cheated a sum of money and ran away. Now, hundreds of thousands of loans are still being paid at her brother's house.

She is really a terrible person, who has anything to do with her. Who does she specialize in?

Since my husband and I got married, his two sisters whispered in my ear every day that her brother was the pride and hope of their family. For two or three years, one sentence is a compliment. He hasn't heard it since the boy didn't give them money that year.

Since I met my husband, his salary has been kept from them. I still don't understand why I lied when I was a family. This will never happen in my family. But after a long time, people will know that they will not call my husband (their brother) who is far away from home for a year. If there is an emergency, they will hang up immediately and wait for my husband to call back (usually in a hurry for money). My husband is not married in his thirties, and his two sisters haven't found a wife for Luo Zhang, not once. My final conclusion is that it is not easy to cheat money after marriage.

The original ecological family has made me a pure and harmonious person, but when I meet such a family, I will support and maintain it on my own (including my husband, who is also such a selfish person, starting from his own interests in advance and even ignoring his children). Thirteen years have passed, and I have collapsed and become helpless. Now I want to let go, not to forgive them, but to make myself happy and not to waste time, but I just can't get out of this misunderstanding. The feelings I have experienced, the grievances I have suffered ... I remember a particularly good saying, "Letting go is not forgiveness, but powerlessness." I didn't even hear a word of sorry, so I easily put it down abruptly!

I think the most hypocritical affection is the person who looks down on you most on the surface and looks down on you in essence.

I have such a relative, whose family conditions have always been similar to ours, but it should be said that they are not as good as ours. Our family has never been in debt, and even if we are in debt, we will definitely pay it back before telling others. The poorest time in our family was when I was sent to college, almost to the point where thousands of dollars could not be spent.

I have a relative who came to tell my mother that a girl doesn't need to go to so many schools. He said he would introduce me to a job with a salary of 2500. It was really good to be in my hometown at that time.

He analyzed many advantages and disadvantages for my mother, saying that it was too hard at home when I was studying. It's not necessary. In the future, girls will eventually go to other people's homes and never belong to their own homes. Why do they study?

Then I immediately told my mother that you could introduce me to work or something. I saw that my mother was about to shake, and I cried and cried. I have to study anyway.

This person just said me, that my parents worked so hard, and asked me how I could make them work harder. Why are there some things I can't understand? Then he said how their children were, how they were.

Then dad came back and looked at me and cried again. After asking some questions, he asked the man why you must send your children to school. The man said that his children were useless and he couldn't find a job without studying. My father taught him a lesson.

But my mother did waver a little, until my grandmother kept talking about my mother, and my mother agreed. Father said it was useless at that time.

Sometimes my relatives in my hometown say they want to introduce you to a boyfriend. My mother herself said that this person was introduced by her son-in-law, and it will definitely not be better than their son-in-law introducing you.

My mother said it herself. Many relatives of my friends are like this, so our friends hardly need relatives to introduce them. Terrible! Going home once can ask you everything from life to work to feelings. If you hear that you are better than their children, you will be unhappy at once.

Later, I told my mother that you just stay at home and tell them how miserable I am outside, so they will be happy ~