How do middle-aged men change careers when they are unemployed? What is the direction?

Sometimes the author will ask himself, for middle-aged men who are at an awkward age and want to change careers, can there be a day to see the light of day? After a year of suffering, I always feel that I still can't find what kind of road I should take next, how to draw up my future goals and how to do it. If I am still young, I think I can use my youth to get more gains I want, but today, when I am in middle age, I feel that I am powerless in many aspects. In the eyes of others, middle-aged men may be at a crossroads, easily confused, lose their original fighting spirit and struggle, be content with the status quo, and leave some of their own pressures behind.

Affected by the epidemic, the author stayed in his hometown for too long this year and felt that he had suddenly changed. In his mind, he turned some goals he had wanted to achieve into inner pressure. It's not that I don't want to, but I feel that I have lost my original motivation, and I feel a little tired at the same time. Not how important my life is, but if there is a serious problem. Will bring a heavier burden to the family. Sometimes it's not that I don't want to work hard, but that the degree of effort depends on how to start. It's not our age who dares to gamble. If you don't have a clear idea, just want to take it step by step, you will only push yourself into a desperate situation.

Many friends say that never giving up and never giving up are very important to people. Many entrepreneurs in China didn't really succeed until they were in their forties. Entrepreneurship is a career that every man wants to have all his life, but for ordinary people, you have lost opportunities and opportunities. Without certain internal motivation support, it is difficult to break through the bottleneck of self, close yourself and get out of your own circle. Society is a process of big waves scouring the sand. Either you have a shrewd mind, advanced thinking or dimensions, and use very little capital to incite you to start your career. However, living in today's highly competitive society, it is not easy to become an able person on the road to entrepreneurship without high education and excellent technology and skills. I remember the author once wrote an article saying that if a person loses two things, what you do is a waste of time? Can't learn skills, can't make money? . However, for a middle-aged man in his forties, choosing a job is a new challenge. It is difficult to maintain the normal capital opening of his family with a low salary. Others will set some high conditions for a high salary, so it is so difficult for middle-aged people to change careers.

Sometimes, the author thinks that some of the most profitable industries at present are naturally accompanied by high risks, such as construction, minerals, high altitude, electricity, heavy industry and decoration. For middle-aged men, it may be a common saying that people exchange physical strength for high income, but not everyone can afford it. If you have health problems, even if you see a pile of money in front of you, you may not be able to get it easily. Every industry has its disadvantages, so we must choose according to our own specific situation. It is estimated that men all over the world dream of making more money and doing their part for themselves and their children. I believe that all parents with children will have this idea, which is also a glorious tradition that continues as parents.

In fact, it is so difficult for a person to live in the world. I remember seeing a delivery man in Chengdu a few days ago, who was run over by a car when he had an accident. What does this scene reflect? It's really not easy for people to live. In order to earn more money and give more happiness to their families, they fly around in traffic all day. Don't they think it's dangerous, too? You will be fined or complained if the food is delivered late. Who will really understand what you did during this period? This society lives in a world where happiness is measured by money. Without money, it is difficult to move. Eating, dressing and going to school to see a doctor are as little as money.

In this society, rich people do nothing all day and have money in their accounts because others have a good background and high status. What family's land is expropriated by the state and their houses are demolished? In the national development zone, it is thousands of times stronger than the backward places. I remember a friend who is a fan of Guangdong. Every day, I only see them eating morning tea, playing cards after dinner, eating in the hotel at noon, walking, singing and dancing in the square dance in the afternoon. There are only a few houses in their family, and the monthly rent is more than 10 thousand. Not to mention the high savings at home, it will cost tens of thousands of dollars to have a physical examination all year round. As an ordinary family in the mainland, some provinces with poor conditions may get up early and be busy for a year, and may not earn 10 thousand yuan.

So people really can't compare with each other. People have different fates. Being in a remote place, you are doomed to rely on your own efforts, or leave your wife, children or parents and go to other places to regret working and change the status quo. After earning some money, I tried my best to buy a house in the city and change my children's future path so that they would not suffer the same situation. This may be the pressure faced by many married men, especially those middle-aged men. I don't know if you have the same idea at the other end of the screen, so let's talk about your thoughts together.

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