Marry your boyfriend, buy clothes for your prospective mother-in-law, and use a credit card for 10,000 yuan. Is it wrong for me to decide not to get married?

My boyfriend and I are high school classmates. After graduating from college, I returned to work in the provincial capital where my hometown is located. At a high school reunion, we added WeChat to each other. I liked him very much when we sat at the front and back tables in high school. After we added WeChat, we chatted with each other and learned that he also worked in the provincial capital, so we had several meals and watched several movies together. On Tanabata, he confessed to me, so we were together.

I am the only child in my family. My parents are ordinary office workers, and their families are average. However, they love me very much and create the best material conditions for me. My boyfriend's family is better than mine, and both parents are staff of public institutions. He also has a younger brother who is two years younger than him. After dating for a while, I feel good about each other, my job is stable, and I am ready to get married.

When talking about marriage, it was originally agreed that the boyfriend would pay a house down payment and a bride price of 65,438+million, and the family would marry a car of 200,000. But the boyfriend's mother soon went back on her word, and she felt that such a plan was unreasonable. Under her opposition, my parents suggested that the house decoration could be paid by my family, and the prospective mother-in-law was very satisfied. She gave me a 65438+ million bank card and told me the password.

After the wedding date was fixed, the prospective mother-in-law invited her to go shopping together, and I happily agreed. In the shopping mall, my mother-in-law bought a lot of expensive clothes and high-end cosmetics. When paying, her mother-in-law said she didn't bring any cash and asked me to pay her. Looking at the huge number at the cashier, I felt a little distressed about the money, but after all, it was the prospective mother-in-law, so I gritted my teeth and took out a bank card from my wallet to prepare for payment. There was not enough money in the card, and there was only the bank card my mother-in-law gave me in my wallet, so I took it out and prepared to pay. As a result, the cashier told me that there was no money in the bank card.

I was at a loss, so I questioned my mother-in-law, who was a little embarrassed. She said unnaturally that her brother-in-law needed a large sum of money to do the project, so she moved the money out first. "I'll pay you back when I make money later. Don't worry. " The mother-in-law patted her chest and said. Can I write a bad check for the bride price? I argued that I didn't want to. My mother-in-law was very angry and had a fit on the spot. She said with a black face that I was stingy and selfish and didn't treat them as a family. I can't listen to it anymore. I turned my head and left, feeling cold.

My boyfriend and I really love each other, but I'm playing tricks on me before I get married. If I get married, how can I refuel, my friends? What did you say?/Sorry?